Single men will have some bad habits, and if they cannot be corrected, it will be difficult to get out of this predicament. Maybe everyone's bad habits are different, but there are two bad habits that most single men have in common.

Bad habit 1: Not taking the initiative

Some men regard actively pursuing women as a "disgraceful" thing. They are passive in their relationship. If the other person does not "give orders", they will be "immovable"; if they "show attentiveness indiscriminately", it seems that they have lowered their status and dignity. This is enough to prove that they have not seen the nature of feelings clearly and have no understanding of women's needs.

Most women want men to reveal their feelings first. After all, women are more reserved and shy. However, women will give each other certain hints at the right time, and these hints are also opportunities for men to express themselves. Men who "want face" regard it as "losing face", so they will not take action and will not "sacrifice themselves" until the other party "begs".

As everyone knows, women happen to need men to step forward under the right circumstances. Such opportunities are rare. Self-respecting "face men" reject good opportunities again and again, and in the end they can only stay single.

Bad habit 2: Showing off love history

Single people do not have no emotional experience. Most people become single because they are "abandoned" by relationships or avoid relationships. Normal people want to say goodbye to being single, but it is easier to become single than to leave it. If an individual has certain bad habits or behaviors, it will arouse the disgust of the opposite sex, making it even more difficult to find friends.

Bragging about love history is a bad habit of many singles. Love is not storytelling. The ups and downs of the past should be remembered in the heart, rather than used as a kind of capital to show off. If your new love asks you if you have any relationship experiences, you must tell the truth frankly, but you don’t need to go into details. Just pass it by.

Bragging is a form of exaggeration. Men who like to brag expose their immaturity to others. Exposing one's love history to strangers or new acquaintances is a sign of disrespect for feelings. Just imagine, if you make friends with such a person, you will be "passed on" by him after breaking up. Most people will not accept this situation.

Three types of male losers cannot escape the fate of being single

Being single does not necessarily mean you are a diaosi, but diaosi are basically single, and there are too few who can counterattack. Especially male losers, these emotionally abandoned people are eager to be "reborn", but there are three types of male losers who cannot "turn over" at all and have to stay single for the rest of their lives.

The first type of male loser: weak character

In the real society, many men are too cowardly. The reason is that their parents are too strong and they have become accustomed to it, and subconsciously they lack the courage to be self-reliant and independent.

When these kind of male losers are looking for a partner, they always say "My mother said... My mother thinks... My father asked me... My family asked me..." and other unintentional words. This will definitely make women resist or even disgust them. If your parents decide everything, what can you do? Do we have to rely on our parents for the rest of our lives? What's more, your feelings are your own and have nothing to do with others. When parents intervene in their children's feelings, they only review it from an objective perspective or a more extreme point of view, and cannot determine whether the relationship is good or bad.

Therefore, most of the male losers who give all their power to their parents and obey their arrangements and are submissive are single. Even if they have a partner, most of them are "married on the fingertips" and so on. To get rid of being single, you must learn to take care of yourself and strengthen yourself, correctly and rationally understand and control your own right to choose, and thereby break away from the shackles of bondage.

The second type of male loser: inferiority complex

Inferiority is a negative mentality that underestimates one's abilities and reduces self-worth. It is also a character flaw. If confidence is the "gas station" for motivation, then inferiority is a huge "fire extinguisher" that extinguishes all the fire in people's hearts. Many single people have low self-esteem, because low self-esteem is like a lonely partner, and its existence cannot escape the haze of loneliness.

Inferiority is a complex emotion of being unable to "help yourself" and being weak. People suffering from inferiority complex often believe that they or their environment are not as good as others, and their core subconscious desires and emotions are also depressed. Therefore, people with low self-esteem often stay away from feelings, especially love. They are afraid of discrimination, rejection, and emotional injury. Being single has become the best means of self-protection for those with low self-esteem.

The third type of male diaosi: picky and thin

Everyone is very selective when choosing a mate. Everyone has different preferences and different requirements for a partner. Folks often say, "Every carrot and cabbage has its own preferences." This is the truth. This selection process must have a clear purpose, at least based on your own needs.

However, some people are aimlessly "picking and choosing". Most of these people are men. No matter how beautiful a girl they are facing, they will always treat her with a picky mentality. The result can only be unhappy. scattered. Generally speaking, this kind of men have two kinds of psychology. One is to maintain their superiority; the other is to look for the feeling of love at first sight.

A man who maintains his superior attitude is too domineering and even arrogant. Most girls will not like this kind of man. The chance of falling in love at first sight may be lower than winning a lottery ticket. Trying one's luck is very unreliable. Therefore, when men hold these two diaosi mentality, the single life may last for a long time.