In men's clinics, male friends are often "carried" by their wives to see the doctor. After examination, it is found that the husbands often have no organic problems, but their wives' inadvertent words often cause them tension and anxiety, causing sexual dysfunction, and even Infertility. There are three things a woman should not say in bed.

The first sentence: "Can you do it?" Some wives tend to pursue perfection in their sexual lives, requiring their husbands to "respond" at any time and to be "tough and upright" every time. If they are slightly dissatisfied, they often ask their husbands, "Can you do it?" As everyone knows, this will seriously dampen the husband's self-confidence and even cause serious psychological disorders to the husband, making the original occasional erection difficulties or weak erections become frequent occurrences, which will eventually lead to severe erectile dysfunction. In fact, it is normal for men to occasionally experience erectile dysfunction or weak erections due to fatigue, mental stress, etc. The wife should be considerate of her husband, comfort her with kind words, and wait until her physical strength has recovered before having sex again.

The second sentence: "Why haven't you ejaculated yet?" Some wives often "have a hasty start" because they are afraid of pain during sexual intercourse, worry about pregnancy, low sexual desire, or poor living environment. At the same time, they hope that their husbands will "have a hasty retreat" and sometimes say "Why haven't you ejaculated yet?" , as a result, the more urging, the less likely it is for the husband to reach orgasm. In severe cases, he may even be unable to ejaculate during sex. Therefore, in sexual life, the wife should try not to suppress her husband's tics, and it is not advisable to dampen her husband's sexual impulse, urge her husband to ejaculate as soon as possible, or end sexual life midway. After this kind of problem occurs, if it is a problem for both men and women, they need to consult a specialist for diagnosis and treatment. If it is an objective reason such as the environment, you need to actively improve the living environment and adjust your work and rest to make your sex life more harmonious.

The third sentence: "I must get pregnant this month." In modern society, the pace of life is accelerating day by day, and couples often want to conceive as soon as possible when they plan to have children. The wife often calculates the ovulation period and gives her husband tasks. It turned out that the more I wanted to get pregnant, the less likely I was to get pregnant. In fact, female ovulation is affected by mental factors. If you are mentally stressed, it can lead to endocrine disorders and inhibit ovulation. Once you relax, ovulation will resume. Mood changes are also very important for men. Bad mental state can affect a man's ability to produce sperm.

These 8 evil deeds make men more and more weak

1. Lack of sports and physical activity

In the early 19th century, the famous German doctor Goferrant once pointed out: "No lazy person in the world can live a long life. Anyone who lives a long life is always active throughout his life." Long-term inactivity will cause degenerative changes in various tissues and organs. and functional decline. Nowadays, many people are busy working and socializing all day long, and lack physical exercise, laying various hidden dangers to their health. Research shows that lack of physical activity is a major cause of cardiovascular disease, diabetes and obesity. It can increase the occurrence of high blood pressure, hyperlipidemia, osteoporosis, depression, diabetes, obesity, heart disease and other diseases, which can even be life-threatening.

2. Stay up late

Man and nature are a unified whole. The human body's biological clock should comply with the laws of nature, starting at sunrise and resting at sunset. However, with the acceleration of the pace of modern life and the increasing pressure of study and work, staying up late has become one of the living habits of many people. More and more people have joined the "stay-up group". Staying up late is harmful to people's health. Chronic hazards, in serious cases, can lead to metabolic abnormalities of body cells, endocrine dysfunction, decreased disease resistance of the body, and can cause neurasthenia, fatigue, ulcer disease, hypertension, and coronary heart disease.

3. Smoking

Men have a lot of work pressure and have to socialize. They have many opportunities to smoke. They think in the smoke, rest and relax in the smoke, and drive away fatigue in the smoke. The whole person is like living in smoke. But as we all know, smoking directly harms people's health. The World Health Organization estimates that the number of people who die from smoking-related diseases worldwide will exceed the combined number of deaths caused by AIDS, tuberculosis, dystocia, car accidents, suicides, and homicides.

Research shows that almost all body tissues, organs or systems can be affected by smoking, among which the most sensitive parts are the respiratory system, circulatory system and nervous system. Smoking increases the risk of cardiovascular disease, lung cancer, and respiratory disease. The main organs causing cancer are the liver, esophagus, lungs, stomach and kidneys, followed by the nasal cavity, trachea, pancreas, oral cavity, etc. Compared with non-smokers, smokers are 8 to 12 times more likely to develop lung cancer, 8 times more likely to develop laryngeal cancer, 6 times more likely to develop esophageal cancer, and 4 times more likely to develop bladder cancer. Nicotine constricts the coronary arteries, so the risk of coronary heart disease is 10 times higher than that of non-smokers. Smoking can also damage the bronchial mucosa, lead to chronic bronchitis, emphysema, and develop into pulmonary heart disease. In addition, smoking is more harmful to the health of passive smokers. If one person in the family smokes, others are passive smokers. People who smoke passively have twice the risk of developing cancer than those who do not smoke passively.

4. Drinking a lot of alcohol

There is no party without alcohol. Some people say that alcohol can elevate the mood. Some men often deal with alcohol, especially in social occasions. It seems that the amount of alcohol you drink represents your sincerity. Glass after glass of wine is quietly damaging the body. Alcohol can dilate the blood vessels on the surface of the body, but the cerebral arteries and heart arteries will not dilate. If the surface blood vessels dilate, there will not be enough blood in the cardiovascular and cerebrovascular vessels, which will instead cause the risk of cardiovascular and cerebrovascular ischemia. Brain damage can cause neuropsychiatric changes, gradually causing mental decline, confusion, memory and judgment, and can easily lead to Alzheimer's disease. At the same time, alcohol damages the liver and can easily lead to fatty liver and cirrhosis.

5. Meals irregular

The pace of life is fast and the night life is rich. People go to bed late at night and get up late in the morning. Many people skip breakfast in order to save time. Another group of people may eat something casually before going to work; for lunch, due to the limited time at noon, bento boxes or Western fast food have become the protagonists of lunch for convenience and saving time; while there are many social events at dinner, and they often attend banquets and banquets. If you don't eat a certain amount, if you are hungry for a long time, the gastric mucosa will be "self-digested" by gastric juice, causing gastritis or peptic ulcer. On the contrary, overeating will cause excessive stomach bloating. Food always fills the stomach, which actually eliminates the opportunity for the human digestive system, a machine, to recuperate. Because food stays in the stomach for a long time, it forces the stomach to secrete a large amount of gastric juice and damages the gastric mucosa. A large amount of food causes relatively insufficient secretion of digestive juice, and the food cannot be fully digested, leading to digestive dysfunction, especially a full dinner, due to calorie intake. If you eat too much, it will cause excess fat in the body, increase blood lipids, and lead to atherosclerosis.

6. Drinking too little water

Insufficient drinking water can cause reduced blood circulation, rapid pulse and breathing, and reduced digestive organ function, leading to constipation. Therefore, it is recommended to drink more water, especially a cup of warm water in the morning, which is helpful for the body to cleanse the intestines and stomach and promote the excretion of waste. Of course, there should be a limit to drinking water, 6-8 cups a day is appropriate. Too much water will dilute the blood concentration, increase the body's blood volume, and cause an excessive burden on the cardiovascular system.

7. Excessive Internet use

Long-term use of computers exposes the body to electromagnetic radiation for a long time, which will cause the number of male reproductive cells and sperm to decrease, reduce activity, and also cause a decrease in immune function. Frequent use of computers can cause the loss of vitamin A in the body, causing visual fatigue and making people susceptible to eye diseases, lumbar and cervical spondylosis, and mental illnesses.

8. Irregular sex life

Some people mistakenly believe that abstinence to preserve sperm can prolong life, and they are always afraid that having sex will lead to "kidney deficiency." In fact, long-term abstinence will lead to the gradual loss of sexual function. However, excessive sexual life will make the body weak, physically and mentally exhausted, and reduce the resistance, leading to the occurrence of diseases or the recurrence of old diseases. Repeated and persistent congestion of sexual organs can also induce prostatitis, seminal vesiculitis and other diseases, resulting in perineal Discomfort, backache, and even sexual dysfunction.

Five sex skills give couples a different kind of passion

Let women reach orgasm first

This is no longer the old society. Women's subordinate status is rapidly fading, and their social status continues to rise. Men should put aside their macho concerns, develop gentlemanly demeanor, and adhere to the principle of giving priority to women. It is a basic principle to pay attention to women's feelings during sex and let women reach orgasm first. This not only ensures that women can have more orgasmic experiences, but also helps men with psychogenic erectile dysfunction obtain effective sexual stimulation and achieve full arousal. Foreign clinical studies have shown that women who reach climax first are far healthier physically and mentally than women who reach climax later.

More sex, more touching foreplay

In reality, many men do not have any foreplay at all when they have sex. Instead, they will go straight to the battle when sex comes. This will not lead to perfect sex. At the same time, many women hope that their men can slow down their hands during sex. Because slow caressing can increase a woman's happiness. But men slow down and go from stimulating to frustrated. In this case, how can men's sex consciously bring wonderful stimulation to women without reducing their own interest. Try delaying direct stimulation. The net effect is that the woman's pleasure will be more intense.

Have timed sex

Men always hope that they can persist in sex for a long time, thinking that this can show their elegance. However, when men have sex, they put a watch on the bedside and look up from time to time. There is a very interesting phenomenon. When men have an erection, they have great errors in judging the time. It felt like the man had been caressing her for ten to fifteen minutes, but in fact it was only a minute or two. After ten to fifteen minutes of real caressing, the man can begin to give the woman the stimulation she really needs. At that time, women have been fully mobilized, and it is easier for them to fully accept men.

Don’t shy away from sexual topics

In China, due to the influence of thousands of years of traditional culture, Chinese men and women dare not bring the topic of love to the table, especially between husband and wife, who feel that talking about such things is ridiculous. In fact, research shows. If you can often talk about love with your sexual partner, discuss how to pursue more perfect love. Say more sweet words when making love. For example, "Dear", "I miss you", "Awesome", etc. will enhance the sweetness.

Let women understand men’s sensitive points

Not only women have erogenous zones, but men also have them, but people rarely pay attention to this matter. Men who have these sensitive zones dream of being touched by you. Only by letting her know about your erogenous zones can women mobilize their enthusiasm when stimulating men's erogenous zones.