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During the long vacation, many couples were completely relaxing while their colleagues were also going crazy. Enjoy the "rare once" sex life in daily life, but you must pay attention to the "three taboos" in sex life, otherwise the gain outweighs the loss!

Once you are free from the tiring working conditions during holidays and holidays, couples will inevitably have the urge to be intimate. "The last thing to do is to be impatient at this time." Li Hongjun said that a satisfactory sex life requires both husband and wife to adjust to the best state in terms of physical strength, mood and other aspects. If you have "intense" sex just after your body and mind have relaxed, you may not get satisfactory results. Especially for couples who are usually separated due to work and other issues, long distance travel makes both parties physically out of sync. If the husband ignores the foreplay of sex and goes straight to the topic, it will make the wife feel disgusted. "Couples who are reunited during the holidays may wish to hug, kiss, chat, and adjust for a day before having sex."

Two avoid using fierce and full passion in sex life, the movements may be more "violent" than usual some. "Especially when a woman's body has not been 'warmed up', intense friction will increase the risk of damage to the skin and mucous membrane of the external genitalia, and even bleeding." Li Hongjun said that during sex, women need tenderness and care. The more passionate they are, the more likely they will be. The less you can ignore your partner’s real needs.

There are too many three taboos, there is no work pressure during holidays, and there is plenty of time, the frequency of sexual life will also increase significantly. But in fact, during holidays, activities such as gatherings, traveling, and shopping are more concentrated than usual, and the physical exertion is no less than normal work. When sitting on various means of transportation, on the one hand, you are consuming physical energy. On the other hand, sitting for a long time will compress the testicles, prostate, etc., which may cause poor blood circulation in male sexual organs. Without good rest, your performance during sex cannot be guaranteed. Li Hongjun suggested that the frequency of sexual life during holidays should not be too frequent, only about twice a week.

Finally, a happy sex life is a way to promote communication between husband and wife and enhance emotional exchanges, but it should be restrained during holidays and does not require quantity or quality. Even if you are occasionally dissatisfied with your sexual life, you should not be discouraged. Pay attention to drinking plenty of water and cleaning before and after sex to reduce the chance of infection. In addition, it is winter now, so if you catch a cold, it is best to avoid sexual intercourse.