It has been natural and natural for men to marry women since ancient times. A woman's definition of happiness is often very simple. It is enough to walk hand in hand through life with the man she loves. Most of them wish to find a man they can rely on for the rest of their lives, and let this man be the head of the family. They can be a little woman and be pampered, cared for and loved by him. They hope to have a backer and a safe haven. This man does not need to be too rich, but he must be a man who can take care of himself.

With the progress of the times, the division of labor between men and women is no longer so clear. When women can assume certain responsibilities, a group of men who gnaw on women have emerged, commonly known as "Leech Men". They are a group of weak men who rely on their girlfriends to survive. Some of them are good-looking, or have some talents and other capital to attract women to come forward and pay for them. They love money and talents, and both sides get what they need; He can be called a spineless man, jumping from his mother's arms to his girlfriend's arms. He has no opinion and ability. He can only rely on pretending to be pitiful and obedient to win his girlfriend's sympathy and natural motherhood to take care of himself. What brings about the existence of this group of leech men? There are three reasons for the analysis:

1. Social status quo

The reason why the drama "Dwelling in a Dwelling" is so popular is because of this. The play reflects the current general situation of society. The high housing prices in it also make the protagonist breathless. Nowadays, college students are no longer like the single-plank bridge that only a few can walk out of in the past. College students are everywhere. There is a surplus of labor, an imbalance between supply and demand, and it is difficult to find a job. This is a problem faced by college students graduating today. If there is no backer, it doesn't matter. It is impossible for a boy from a poor family to afford housing. It may even be a problem to maintain his own food and clothing.

At this time, if you meet a girlfriend who you can chew, and you can save yourself many years of struggle, why not do it?

2. Growth environment

Eugenics Preferential education has led to the prevalence of only children, and the four habits in the city have pampered a lot of "Phoenix boys". From childhood to adulthood, they just follow the road paved by their families and walk forward. They have been wearing clothes to open their mouths and food to eat. In the life of reaching out, he was protected by his family, who pampered him like a prince. He never needs to think about his own life, because someone has already thought everything about him. Growing up in such an environment, they only learn to accept, but do not understand what it means to give.

When he makes a girlfriend like this, apart from nibbling, they don’t know the difficulty of survival, and they don’t know how to create their own life.

3. Mentality reasons

Leech men are usually smart because they have grasped the bottom line of their girlfriends and know that they cannot live without them, so they become more unscrupulous and more shameless. Their girlfriends are either overflowing with love and think that the other person will not be able to survive well without them, so they do their best to take care of them; or they are too inferior and think that if they miss it, they will never have such a man with them again. Together; or you feel that you are investing in a potential stock, and you always hypnotize yourself into believing that the man in front of you has made the right choice by saying that he will definitely succeed in the future. But in fact, it is this group of leech men who are gnawing at their own hard work and do not know how to make progress.

Men, when you are nibbling on your girlfriend and enjoying the fruits of her labor, have you ever considered her hard work? If you love her, you should share the burden. Which man doesn’t want to be the best in his girlfriend’s mind, and be proud no matter who he mentions in front of him? When you are chewing on your girlfriend, have you ever cared about the eyes of your friends around you? Their eyes are full of contempt and contempt. , they look down on a man who only eats soft food. How can you gain a foothold in the company and society like this? How can a person who has no responsibility convince others that you can do a good job in your career? Also, how can you make promises to others about the future?

Men, straighten your back, don’t be a spineless, weak and lazy man, pick up the dignity and responsibility you have left behind, raise your head and move forward!

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