First of all, leftover men and leftover women basically refer to young men and women who are around 30 years old or older than 30 years old and have not yet been married. So the first thing this group of people harm is their parents. The normal life order of their parents' generation was basically disrupted. In Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and other places, there have been reports of parents in their late seventies going to major parks for blind dates for their children. They hold photos and information about their children as they shuttle among the crowds of people. You can imagine their happy life from their anxious and expectant expressions.

Secondly, the leftover men and leftover women are harming themselves. I am worried all day long. On the one hand, I have to face the urging and anxiety of my parents, and on the other hand, I have to face the loneliness and anxiety in my heart. The nagging from their parents and the unusual attention from colleagues and friends around them are all pointed at them like sharp swords. They have to live on the road of overcoming obstacles every day.

The third leftover men and women harm the normal social order and affect the development and stability of society. Theoretically speaking, a generation should last for 20 years. The leftover men and leftover women extend a generation to 30 or even 40 years. It can be said that they have delayed a generation. Do you think this has affected the process of society? A considerable number of leftover men and leftover women have been involved in extramarital affairs for various reasons and have become public nuisances that some married housewives and married husbands hate. It has greatly disturbed the safety of some families. Do you think this has affected the stability of society?

Why is the problem of left-over men and left-over women so harmful? This is directly related to China's traditional cultural concepts. Chinese people regard home as extremely important. Only those who have a home are safe, happy, and can develop sustainably. Home is the harbor where a person ultimately docks throughout his life. In addition, the problem of leftover men and women is a killer that seriously affects people’s physical and mental health. If the needs for psychological security, sense of belonging, self-realization, physiological needs, etc. are not met, then people are bound to have impetuous moods, lack of energy, and psychological problems. Their problems will also have a chain reaction on their families and those around them. This is just like the contagion of the plague, which affects too many people.

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