"Three major disciplines and eight points of attention" after marriage
As long as married men and women strictly abide by the following marital disciplines and correct bad habits attentively, marriage will no longer be the tomb of love. Relationships require a couple to work together, so they must be attentive!
The three disciplines of a good married woman
First, respect your husband and love him alone. No matter how humbly he has pursued you, no matter how humiliatingly he has submitted to you, it only means that he loves you. But he is always a man, and dignity is his life. Respecting him actually means caring for yourself. Giving him face, especially giving him enough face in front of his friends, will make him love you more. Also give him the title of head of the household. Don't argue with him about who is in charge. The money is in your hands anyway. No matter how many times you fell in love with him or how many people you fell in love with before, the past is just a blur. After you get married, you should love him wholeheartedly and stop flirting with other men.
The second is understanding, tolerance and love for his family. Women love their families, and men also love their families. Men work hard outside and come home exhausted. Home is a haven and comfort zone for rest. Regardless of whether he succeeds or fails outside, a woman should be understanding and tolerant, not too blaming, and allow him to rest peacefully at home and greet each new day with a fuller spirit. At the same time, you should treat your mother-in-law like a leader and love her family. Even if you are dissatisfied in your heart, you should still lie to her, so that everyone can be happy and harmonious.
Third, keep your integrity and believe that your man is the best. Although the three obediences and the four virtues have been erased from the dictionary of Chinese women, if you really love him, at least you should be loyal to this relationship. Don't use the excuse that the world does this, and don't use the excuse that he will cheat. Leave a pure love and give an explanation to the future. Don't indulge too much in sensual pleasures, don't get too involved in interpersonal relationships, and don't compare him with other men, especially your ex-boyfriend. No man wants to be inferior to other men in the heart of a woman, which will greatly hurt his self-esteem. If you love him and choose him, he is the best.
Eight things a good married woman should pay attention to
First, pay attention to your image. Getting married doesn't mean you're done. The pretty lady she once was has suddenly turned into eating breakfast without washing her face, and attending his friends’ gatherings without putting on makeup. Most men won’t say it, but their hearts will be slightly affected. You have to know that the speed at which you become a yellow-faced woman is directly proportional to the speed at which love disappears.
Second, pay attention to losing weight. A man who is fat can cover it up with his temperament and wealth, but a woman is like a gambler who has lost all her money and has no chance to resist.
Third, pay attention to the present. Don't dwell on the past and ask what happened, which will only increase your worries.
Fourth, pay attention to your emotions. Women are unreasonable a few days a month, and everyone understands that. But you can't always do this for the same reason. Today's society is highly competitive, and the pressure on men can be imagined. Only by being more understanding and less scolding can there be harmony.
Fifth, learn some cooking skills. It is good for a woman to be in the hall, but it is almost perfect in the kitchen. Remember the old saying: To impress a man, first open his stomach.
Sixth, learn some skills. Learn some sex skills, satisfy a man's passion well, and give him a comfortable enjoyment that no man will not be attached to.
Seventh, learn to be calm. When a man occasionally meets a beautiful woman, it is best to pretend not to see her when he takes a few glances at her, out of sight and out of mind. He just wanted to take advantage of it, so why bother with it?
Eighth, reduce verbosity. In order to reduce the noise in this world full of pollution, and so that your husband will not be upset and leave home, I don’t ask you not to nag, just talk less.
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Three disciplines for a good married man
First, say "I love my wife" at least three times a day - preferably when you wake up in the morning, when you come home from get off work, and when you get into bed at night hour.
The second is to go home as early as possible after get off work - business requires socializing, and so does your wife.
Third, your wife has many advantages. You should tell her loudly at any time - she has many shortcomings. You are already distressed enough. Please don't remind her at any time.
Eight things a good married man should pay attention to
First, pay attention to your wife's clothing and hairstyle, and give her praise - if she perms her chestnut hair, it is fashion rather than wheat. Sui, if she applied makeup and powder, she would be stunning, not a monster.
Second, pay attention to your wife's mood and don't argue with her - if she is unreasonable, she is acting coquettishly instead of acting wildly, and if she punches you, it is because she loves you and not flatters you.
Third, pay attention to handing over your income and let your wife manage it - if she doesn't give private money, it's because she is good at management and not stingy.
Fourth, pay attention to surprising your wife on special days - her birthday, anniversary of first meeting, wedding anniversary, Valentine's Day and Women's Day.
Fifth, pay attention to reporting your whereabouts at any time when you are on a business trip - do not have your pager or mobile phone running out of battery at the same time.
Sixth, be careful not to stare at a beautiful woman for more than 5 seconds when you meet her on the street - and quickly point out the flaws in that beauty compared to your wife.
Seventh, pay attention to understand the truth that "the wife is always right" - when she does something wrong, please take the initiative to assume the responsibility that you should or even should not bear.
Eighth, finally, be careful not to be sentimental and think that many women are interested in you - just like the beautiful girl who moved in across the street. You always said that others like to lie on the balcony and look at you. Later we We all know that she is cross-eyed, and we must remember the lesson this time.
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