Men all like silly girls. This is a law summarized by some "smart" girls. Therefore, there is a reasonable explanation for the emotional unsatisfaction. Those girls with good educational backgrounds, high incomes, and smooth career progress lamented that "high places are too cold" and blamed men for not wanting to face the reality that "men are inferior to women" and not wanting to put too much pressure on themselves, so they chose to stay away. , or just try it. There was some truth to this, so their idea gradually caught on. However, should men tell themselves whether they really like silly girls?

Stupid vs. Understanding

I met Mr. Z on the Internet. He has always paid close attention to the studio I opened and sometimes gave me some suggestions. When I brought up the subject, he told his story.

I divide girls into three types: one is really stupid, with low IQ and EQ, and men don’t like it; the second is smart girls; I like the third type, they are smart but often pretend stupid. Men all have self-esteem, and a girl who plays dumb can take care of this characteristic. If a man satisfies his self-esteem, he will love the girl very much when he looks back. Men are prone to making small mistakes, but a girl who plays dumb will turn a big deal into a big deal with a tolerant attitude. Small and trivial matters will be eliminated, and the man who made the mistake will be full of gratitude to her.

I like to talk about the world. I am always the protagonist at class reunions. My friends praise me for being well-informed. My girlfriend Ke Ying, who is a doctor, often looks at me with approval. But sometimes, after the party, I would receive a "prescription" from her. Those notes were either hidden in my pocket or tucked into a book. The words on them gently corrected some of my statements - I Naturally, I appreciate her acting stupid at the time and reminding her afterwards.

What touched me the most was that she actually used the method of pretending to be stupid to forgive me for the emotional harm I had done to her. Keying and I have been in love for more than a year and are planning to buy a house and get married. But at this moment, my beautiful girlfriend Jiali, who had been in love with me for three years but had ruthlessly abandoned me, suddenly came to see me. I originally thought that I had been bathed in Keying's sunshine love, and there would be no more ripples in my heart. But maybe, it's because I loved her deeply and tried to keep her again and again; maybe it's the self-esteem and vanity hidden in a man's subconscious that makes me always look forward to the moment of saving face - Carrie's reappearance, unexpectedly I was flattered and at a loss. I frequently went to her appointments and used excuses like working overtime to excuse Keying. The most insane move was that I actually agreed to her request to travel to Hainan together. That day, I told Keying that I was going on a business trip tomorrow. In the past, whenever she was free, she would always go to the airport to see me off, but I had a "ghost" in my heart. This time I tried every means to persuade her not to see me off the next day...

The scenery in Hainan is very charming, but I have no intention of admiring it. The man who once promised to take Carrie abroad has not been heard from since he went to the United States; but now, Carrie actually regards me as a life-saving straw, insisting that I apply for Canadian skilled immigration, and even talks to himself about our plans. various futures. Because I love her, I used to be used to her willfulness and selfishness, but with the understanding of Ke Ying as a comparison, I feel very uncomfortable now, and I begin to regret it.

I didn’t dare to call Keying, so I dialed the number to my home. My mother told me that my father had been feeling unwell for the past few days, but Keying was so good that she came to give him an infusion again. My mother asked me: "Are you bullying Keying? Yesterday I asked casually, have I received a call from you? Her eyes were red, but she insisted that her eyes were uncomfortable. She also comforted her who was lying in bed. Your father said that she will always take care of him. Son, there are not many girls like this, you have to cherish her!" I felt very sad after hanging up the phone from my mother. At this time, an idea suddenly appeared in my mind. Sad: It seems that Keying knows all this, she just pretends not to know! That day Jiali came to the company to look for me, and all my colleagues saw it; this time I took my leave again, and the sensitive Keying only had to make a phone call... I didn't dare to think about it anymore, I just felt that I was going to lose Keying.

That night, I thought a lot, and I will never forget the gloomy days when Carrie left me. I was extremely decadent at that time, but Keying used every bit of care to comfort me. But my current actions hurt her feelings and self-esteem so much! I can't lose her, I want to go back and ask for her forgiveness.

On the plane back to Shanghai, I decisively said "No" to all the requests made by Jiali. This was the only time I said "no" since I met her. I knew it was Keying who gave her the request. gave me courage.

At the moment of reunion, Keying held back tears and pretended to be happy, which made me feel heartbroken. I understood her thoughts and didn't explain anything. I just held her tightly in my arms with gratitude.

Men like silly girls. This is a law summarized by some "smart" girls. Therefore, there is a reasonable explanation for the emotional unsatisfaction. Those girls with good educational backgrounds, high incomes, and smooth career progress lamented that "high places are too cold" and blamed men for not wanting to face the reality that "men are inferior to women" and not wanting to put too much pressure on themselves, so they chose to stay away. , or just try it. There was some truth to this, so their idea gradually caught on. However, should men tell themselves whether they really like silly girls?

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Silly vs Cute

As soon as they met, Mr. C declared that he liked girls who were "silly and cute". He has a very profound theory about this: Men are most afraid of girls being scheming and too sharp. No matter how mature a man is, he is still a child first in front of his lover. He not only hopes that the woman he loves will give him motherly tolerance and understanding, but also hopes that she will have a childlike innocence and be able to get along with him innocently and truly - with him. With this kind of "silly" girl, men feel safe and warm.

I have a hobby: playing cards. When I rarely have free time, I invite my girlfriend and another couple of close friends to the tea house, and we play 80 points 2 on 2. The terrible thing is that my former girlfriend, who graduated from the Department of Mathematics, was very good at playing cards, very competitive, and unforgiving. Every time I made a mistake, she would either look down on me, or pay for it on the spot, and let me play with my friends. Very shameless in front of me. Originally, the purpose of playing cards was to relax, but after being disturbed by her, it turned into doing homework, which was very exhausting and exhausting. Later, we broke up, of course not over something as trivial as playing cards, but as you can imagine, her self-reliance on intelligence and sharp personality would also be reflected in other things, so I had no choice but to run away.

Now that I have a girlfriend, we still play cards together when we have time, but the atmosphere is different now: if I occasionally make a mistake, my girlfriend will smile tolerantly or make a face; when it comes to the critical moment of victory or defeat, From time to time, she would secretly give me secret codes. When I win, my girlfriend claps and cheers; when I lose, she wants to punish me, but this punishment makes me feel more comfortable than the reward - she wants me to take her back and carry her up to the second floor. to her door. So sometimes I lose on purpose! Her name is Lulu. There are many stupid things about Lulu. For example, she would spend a whole day making birthday cards for me instead of taking a few minutes to go to the store to buy them. Another example is that she is very good at dressing up, but she never lets me accompany her to the store. When two people are together, they should do something that both of them are willing to do. I especially like to see her smile, it is a sincere and bright smile. Compared with those girls who have a deliberate or cunning smile, Lulu is so stupid that I can't help but cherish her deeply.

Men like silly girls. This is a law summarized by some "smart" girls. Therefore, there is a reasonable explanation for the emotional unsatisfaction. Those girls with good educational backgrounds, high incomes, and smooth career progress lamented that "high places are too cold" and blamed men for not wanting to face the reality that "men are inferior to women" and not wanting to put too much pressure on themselves, so they chose to stay away. , or just try it. There was some truth to this, so their idea gradually caught on. However, should men tell themselves whether they really like silly girls?

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Stupidity vs. Courage

It is the most free-spirited way to talk about this topic with Mr. A. He is a member of our company and got married six months ago.

Never misunderstand a man! The "stupid" used in silly girls that men like definitely does not refer to their IQ. A girl like that will become unattractive to men over time. The "silly" girl I like is the kind of girl who looks silly but has a good heart. Men always have self-esteem or vanity, so girls who pretend to be smart and very exposed cannot capture men's hearts; but girls who are as smart as they are foolish can charm men.

This is how my Ruyun fascinated me. She uses her intelligence in study and work. She is very easy-going and tolerant in life and never cares about anything. She is really silly. A year ago, my old house was demolished and divided into two new houses with two bedrooms and one living room. My parents were extremely embarrassed at the time: my brother and his family of three had been living together in the old house, so we should give them a new apartment now; but Ru Yun and I happened to be getting married. After much deliberation, the two elders finally decided to buy an old house to live in, two new units with two bedrooms and one living room, and one for each of their two sons. After I found out, I felt that this was not good, so I took the initiative to express my position to my parents, brother and sister-in-law: Ruyun and I have relatively high incomes and can buy a house with our own loans. My parents, brother and sister-in-law were very moved after hearing this. They took out the money they had saved for a long time on the spot and "sponsored" us to buy a house.

I am filial to my parents, but can Ru Yun make it right? I was a little uneasy: after all, it was a suite! I "talk to myself" This article comes from adult.6kmall.com and is published by netizens. This site only quotes it for reference. It does not mean that this site agrees with the views of the article. If you believe that the content and intellectual property rights of this article infringe upon your interests, please contact us.