For the vast majority of men and women who have entered marriage, the sweetness of love and the happiness of marriage make us feel that both life and sex are quite perfect. However, as time goes by and the couple becomes familiar with each other, we feel that the days begin to become dull and the sex becomes boring, thus losing interest in it.

However, life is not just about sex, there are also trivial matters from other aspects that can make us upset. When facing these bits and pieces, there will also be disputes between each other because of some issues of opinion, which will lead to more and more conflicts between each other and an increasingly disharmonious sexual life. In the long run, it will hurt the couple's emotions.

So, as married people, what should we do to keep our marriage fresh and the relationship between husband and wife to be as strong as ever?

Pay attention to your appearance

This issue is often overlooked by people. What we call appearance mainly refers to appearance and dress. Usually, we can do well before marriage or during the newlywed period. But as they became familiar with each other, and after a long period of marriage, both parties began to neglect their own grooming, and began to slowly expose their shortcomings.

This can easily cause the other party to lose their freshness and expectations for each other, and it is also a huge invisible threat to the harmonious sexual life between husband and wife. Over time, the other person will become bored. Therefore, after marriage, you should pay more attention to your appearance, modify it appropriately, and show various styles that are sometimes delicate and sometimes wild. You should not be careless in dressing up in bed.

Add interest to life

First of all, we must have a correct understanding of the life of two people and the life of one person. Therefore, after getting married, do not measure your married life according to your living conditions and requirements when you were single. When two people get along, mentality is the most important. If two people can be cheerful and generous when getting along, and can add a little fun to life from time to time, then the two people will get along very happily. On the contrary, many problems will arise.

As for boring sex life, we need to change the inherent pattern and make sex full of passion and fun. For example, change techniques, shift positions, add sex toys, etc. There is no constant layer of sex. As long as you put a little thought into it, you can have fun doing it.

Get familiar with your partner’s scent

When men and women admire someone, they are often obsessed with the scent of the other person. Therefore, both men and women are very sensitive to each other's smell. However, when having sex, other smells are likely to destroy the "sexual" agreement between each other. Therefore, after marriage, you should continue to become familiar with each other's smell, and don't let other smells affect your sex life.

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Back to love

As time goes by, the passion between husband and wife also slowly passes. In order to maintain the passion between you, it is recommended that you do some of the things you did when you were passionately in love. Just the two of you ride bicycles, go swimming, and go to the movies; enjoy the simple and boring time together, you leaning on him and him holding you, the simplest happiness and sweetness.

Relive the passion

No matter how long you have been together, you should never stop having sex. It is difficult to maintain a marriage without sex. If the sex life between you is no longer what it used to be or has been stagnant for a period of time, try to melt him with some thoughts, send text messages, candlelight wine or give him a massage to regain the original enthusiasm. Let’s turn the clouds and rain together.

Pillow stories

If a couple finds that their sex life is not so harmonious, you might as well buy a few love novels or erotic novels, and read them to your lover while lying in bed at night before going to bed. Let the plot and atmosphere in the novel rekindle your passion.

Interactive games

In today's society, couples spend less time together. If you just stare at the TV or computer after get off work, you will spend less time together and communicate less. Try playing games with him, such as checkers or Monopoly, to relax and increase interaction. Play until the children are asleep and the adults can start other games.

The relationship between husband and wife requires everyone to manage it carefully. If you don't manage it carefully, it will affect your relationship and even your sex life.