It is always very late before my wife comes back to the bedroom. I leaned on the bedside and read a book, and my wife didn't say anything. She spread the quilt and fell asleep, giving me a cold and silent back. Sometimes I come close to me and want to be intimate, but my wife gets very impatient and says, "You don't mind my wife's hard work. It's like fighting a war every day. She's so tired that she has no emotion at all. She says I don't know how to feel sorry for others and considerate of others."

I don’t know when, our lives became dull. My wife's company was originally a state-owned enterprise. After it was converted into a joint-stock company, she was promoted to the head of the department, and her work is much busier than before. At this time, the child was about to take the junior high school entrance examination, and the homework was very heavy. After get off work every day, the wife always had endless housework to do, and she had to help her daughter with homework after meals. Originally, we had a clear division of labor and we each used our strengths. I tutored my child in Chinese and foreign languages, and she tutored me in mathematics and physics. However, my child was very good at liberal arts subjects. I didn’t need to point fingers, so I had no choice but to wander around the outside room, watch TV, read books, smoke and drink. Tea, sometimes I walked into the study room and saw mother and daughter chatting together. When they looked up and saw me, mother and daughter would kick me out with "the same hatred". Although it was a bit of a joke, I felt very lonely. There are no more people in the family.

It is always very late before my wife comes back to the bedroom. I leaned on the bedside and read a book, and my wife didn't say anything. She spread the quilt and fell asleep, giving me a cold and silent back. Sometimes I come close to me and want to be intimate, but my wife gets very impatient and says, "You don't mind my wife's hard work. It's like fighting a war every day. She's so tired that she has no emotion at all. She says I don't know how to feel sorry for others and considerate of others." It was like I was a beggar asking for alms, always saying a lot of nice things, so my wife acquiesced to me and let me hug her from behind, but she didn't react at all. At that time, I would feel very sad and guilty. I felt that I was too demanding in this regard, that I was causing trouble for my wife, and that I was destroying her body. I always had to make my wife tolerate me with great patience. I remember one Sunday, my child went to school to make up for extra classes, and my wife and I were at home. I suddenly got into the mood, closed the curtains and asked to have sex with my wife. My wife looked at me like I was a monster. Even children do this in broad daylight. When you get older, you won't be ashamed of yourself and make me look disgraced. I turned around and went out angrily, went to have a drink with my friends, and came back drunk in the middle of the night. My wife woke up from her dream and complained that I had no sense of family responsibility and went out alone to have a good time and drink, as if I were lecturing my subordinates. Finally, she inexplicably said that my mind was unhealthy.

At that time, I finally made up my mind to find another woman in my field of vision.

The woman and I both belong to the chemical industry, but we are not in the same company. We have no personal relationship because we have exchanged phone numbers for business contacts. One time when she went out to do errands, a thief took her bag. There was a driver's license, ID card and money in the bag. The thief took the money and threw the bag away. It was picked up by a kind-hearted person who found things in the bag. Call me on the phone and send me those important documents. I informed the woman and she was very surprised and said she must thank me properly.

She invited me to dinner that night. The women running the business are all good drinkers, and we talked about work and family while drinking. She said that she was originally from Qinghai, and her husband went to Shenzhen to start a business a few years ago, so she became a "free girl" and her life was very boring. After dinner, we took a walk in the hotel garden. We were both a little tipsy, and our hands came together unknowingly. She said that the tree in front of her is called lilac, and it is also called "Two-Double Plum" in the northwest, which means that the flower can bloom twice in the same year. She looked at me with affection in her eyes, and everyone felt that something was about to happen. She thanked me again, this time with a kiss. Hot kisses fell on my neck and ears. I felt the wind blowing in my mind and my mood became excited, but in the end, we said goodbye calmly. As we were driving, she said I could call at any time and laughed at me for being a silly man with a bit of a fussy attitude.

After breaking up with that woman, we were really "done". In front of my wife, I felt guilty and felt a heavy sense of guilt. With repentance, I decided to change myself and let my family feel the warmth of my existence. Every day when I get home from work, I rush to help my wife with housework. I play some relaxing music during meals and tell social news to my wife who has no time to read the newspaper. In the evening, I help my wife check the materials for writing papers. I no longer act like a man. .

My wife senses my changes and always looks at me with strange eyes. When doing these things, I really feel the hard work of my wife. She should be like a strong woman in the workplace, leading her 20 or so people to work hard, and when she comes home, she works hard without complaining. I think the love between husband and wife must still be stored in her heart, but she has just put it aside temporarily in her busy life.

Finally one day, my wife came home and was very excited. After I revised her paper, it was published in a ministerial-level professional journal and won an award. At dinner that day, we made an exception and drank white wine. My wife's eyes suddenly turned red and she said apologetically: "I've been neglecting you lately, which makes you feel wronged." I chuckled and changed the subject, and talked about the wedding of the Kirgiz people in Xinjiang. They need to be tied to become husband and wife. Marriage inherently has a rope that is too gentle to resist and too cruel to argue, tying two people together. The temporary grievance is for the happiness and beauty of their future lives.

When I went to bed that night, my wife quietly leaned into my ear and asked me if I wanted it tonight. I was so happy, but I wanted my wife to see the things stored in the computer. It was a little trick I had planned long ago. When I was lonely and bored, I collected a lot of information on the Internet about how couples live in love. The intention is very clear, I just want to remind my wife that sex is something that cannot be ignored in the life of a couple. Sex is also an important force that encourages and helps the family to face life and society. In the perfect blend of the couple's lives, one can feel the depth of sharing weal and woe and helping each other. affection.

Finally, my wife slipped onto the bed like a kitten and gently shook me awake. Her face was red and her eyes were filled with tears. I also smelled the faint fragrance of my wife's perfume. My wife said that she almost lost her mind because of her carelessness. Then she suddenly hit me on the shoulder with her fist and said that I was a bad, bad person. She showed her something that made people's blood boil. My wife hugged me and acted coquettishly, saying that she missed me so much at that time. I felt the warm time of first marriage again. We returned to the sweet love of husband and wife that we had not seen for a long time, and even the moon outside the window danced happily for us. It was the last quarter of the moon that night, and it was already late at night, but I felt that it was a new dawn in our life as a couple.

Editor’s note:

It is not an easy process for two people to go from meeting, getting acquainted to knowing each other, and then from knowing each other, falling in love to getting married. But marriage is never the grave of love, it is indeed another beginning of love. In a marriage relationship, problems of one kind or another may easily arise for various reasons.

The problem is never a matter of one person, because it always involves both parties. As the story says, the wife not only has to be busy at work, but also has to do housework and take care of the children when she comes home. She is so tired that she definitely doesn’t want to do it again. On the contrary, the husband hangs around the house every day, watching TV, reading, smoking and drinking tea. Of course I can't understand my wife's suffering. After feeling guilty about an affair, the husband also began to change, sharing some work and housework with his wife, and he also realized the hard work of his wife. The estrangement between the two parties was slowly resolved, and sexual happiness was finally regained.

When couples get along, they should communicate more, understand each other more, and think more about others’ perspective. I believe that the palace of marriage will always be gorgeous!