With the in-depth research on sexual dysfunction, it has been found that some patients who have not been successfully treated have subconscious repression of sexual desire. This repression is often related to early experiences, and it can span a long time and affect adulthood. sexual function.

There was a patient with primary hyposexuality. His parents had been at odds with each other since he was a child, and they were often noisy. However, they gave birth to 11 children in a row. The patient believed that his parents were "just like pigs, leading an emotionless sex life." Since then, he has been silently suppressing the "animal sexual desire" "inherited" from his parents, and has no interest in sex life at all. There is also a female patient with low sexual desire. When she was a child, she went to the hospital with her mother. When she passed by the delivery room, she heard the mother yelling. Her mother told her that giving birth is the most painful thing for a woman. After getting married, she had no interest in sex life and had pain during sexual intercourse every time.

The subconscious is the spiritual life that individuals cannot perceive. It is composed of human physical desires and impulses and has a strong storage of psychological energy. This kind of stored charge always strives to penetrate into the consciousness, causing excitement and tension in the consciousness. There was an impotence patient who had strong sexual desire when he was 20 years old, and had erections and nocturnal emissions. However, after getting a girlfriend, these phenomena disappeared. It turned out that he had a very deep affection for his mother. When his mother died in an accident when he was a teenager, he was extremely sad. His wife and mother were similar in behavior and conversation. Although he was not aware of any connection between them, subconsciously, the patient found his long-lost mother. The Oedipus complex inhibited his erectile function and sexual desire, resulting in Impotence.

These problems can easily lead to sexual disorders

Sexual aversion and asexuality

Sexual disgust is often related to problems such as pubertal development, such as poor physical fitness or lack of self-confidence during adolescence. Another reason is that there is a history of sexual trauma in childhood or adolescence, which forms the experience of "traumatic learning" and associates sex with being insulted or in pain, which promotes the emergence of sexual aversion. Because this kind of physical and mental trauma creates a stereotype, it creates resistance to normal sexual life, resulting in sexual dysfunction.

Low libido

Most infertile people with complete low libido only have sex once a month or less than once, but they can passively obey when their spouse asks for sex; situational low libido only occurs in a specific environment or with a specific sexual partner. Low sexual desire does not exclude the possibility of women achieving sexual arousal and obtaining sexual pleasure when passively receptive to sex.

Hypersexuality

Hypersexuality is also called excessive sexual desire or excessive sexual desire. Traditional Chinese medicine calls it easy to have sex. It refers to sexual excitement that occurs too much, too fast, and is too intense and exceeds the normal state. Young people have normal sexual life 1 to 2 times a week. It is normal for newlyweds or those who meet again after a long separation to have sex more frequently. And those with hypersexuality, that is, having sexual intercourse every day, or even asking for sex many times day and night, cannot satisfy their sexual desire even if they fight for a long time.

Erectile dysfunction

Including impotence, weak penile erection, priapism, etc.

Pain during sexual intercourse

Painful intercourse is a common sexual dysfunction. When it comes to painful intercourse, most people think that it is only a female experience. In fact, clinically, it is very common for men to experience pain due to various reasons during sexual intercourse. This directly affects the quality of sexual life and men's interest in sexual life. Pain during sexual intercourse in men usually includes several sexual dysfunctions such as tingling of the glans penis or foreskin during sexual intercourse, groin cramping during ejaculation, soreness in the perineum and lumbosacral area after ejaculation, and burning pain in the urethra during urination after ejaculation.

What needs to be done for adjustment disorders

1. Express feelings

In order to obtain true sexual satisfaction, both husband and wife should frequently communicate about their feelings in sexual life, promote mutual understanding, thereby satisfactorily solving the problem of inconsistent sexual desire intensity between husband and wife, and coordinating the orgasms of both parties, so that sexual intercourse can be achieved. Life tends to perfection.

2. Update the connotation

Couples who have been married for many years sometimes feel that their sex life is monotonous and boring, and they gradually develop boredom. This is a taboo in married life. At this time, both husband and wife should boldly try to have sex at different times and places to enhance the romantic color.

3. Imagination fun

Emotional imagination can enhance sexual excitement for both parties. In the process of sexual life, the husband can imagine his wife as the passionate and bold woman he loves, and the wife can imagine her husband as the idol she loves. Both parties do not have to feel guilty about this, which can enhance each other's sexual desire. But never tell your spouse the secret of your fantasies, otherwise it will be counterproductive.

4. Avoid anger

Occasionally quarreling between husband and wife does not mean that the relationship between husband and wife is already very bad, but if you ask for sex when the anger is not gone, the result will be trouble. The anger will not go away for a while, so it is best to stop having sex temporarily. Once the argument has subsided and both parties have reached an understanding and then fall into the arms of their spouse, they will get the sweetest sexual satisfaction.