Foreplay plays a very important role in a hearty sex, but we also need to note that if your foreplay is incorrect, not only will it not have the effect of helping your sex, but it will also make your sexual life worse. , ended in defeat. So, what should you pay attention to during sexual foreplay? Foreplay like the following is not allowed.

Things to avoid during sexual foreplay

1. Rude actions

Although occasional small violence is helpful for sex, women do not want it to happen often. However, when many men are sexually excited, male hormones are secreted in excess, and the most primitive male aggression in the body is revealed. They ravage women's soft bodies roughly. Don't think that women will enjoy it. In fact, they may feel scared, and you may hurt her.

2. Monotonous repetition

This kind of foreplay is often monotonous and repetitive, and has no fun at all. It is worse than not having it at all, and it will seriously dampen a woman's desire. If she tells you that her ears are her arousal point, and you keep blowing in front of her ears, it will also make her feel numb. Sexual foreplay is a spice for sexual life. It should increase interest and stimulate women's desires, rather than reduce women's sexual desires and make her more boring.

3. Strange smell

Although smell is a way of flirting, it also depends on the smell. Women like the smell of men, not the smell of sweat and sourness on you. Many times women are not used to men's breath and body odor. This makes it difficult for women to bring up sexual desire, and may even make you feel dirty. Therefore, a man must keep his breath fresh and his genitals clean before sex, and his body should not be sour or smelly, so that a woman can trust you to give her body to you and make her feel comfortable.

Three tips for couples to flirt with each other

A. Long-term flirting

If you are a bit timid and unable to maintain confidence in social situations, then "long-term" flirting is more suitable for you, that is, making a fleeting noise to a "romantic stranger" from a distance sigh. Sometimes you'll experience this kind of "long-term" flirting yourself. In its most basic form, someone yells at you, "Oh, what a beauty." The person is at a distance from you so that you are not offended, just amused, and truckers love this.

"Long-term" flirting is very common because it doesn't require a lot of courage and carries little risk. Don't be rude when flirting. Your goal is to make the other person smile, not flinch. Don't think that this practice is just for men. Today's women are no more capable of taking this lightning step than they used to be. A recent study showed that men find women who flirt to be more attractive than women who don't, so be bold and make sure you don't leave a bad impression on others.

B. Advanced flirting

If you are not satisfied with "long-term" flirting and want to have a more permanent communication, you can consider the following flirting techniques:

The role of praise: The object of compliment should be directly the other person, rather than just praising a certain object. If you say, "I like your tie," the man will be confused, not knowing whether it is the tie you like, or him as a person, so you should say: "You look very cool in that tie. Make your eyes look extra clear."

C. Show cheerful and easy-going charm

You can mention that you saw him at that boring party, you can bring up a topic she talked about last week, you can tell him that you like his new haircut, you can tell her that you How leisurely and fascinated I was when I heard her laughter for the first time.

By using these flirting methods correctly, you will find that it can bring more excitement and happiness to your sex life, because people tend to like the new and dislike the old no matter what they do, so you need to make some changes to get back the old ways. Passion and enthusiasm for sex.

You might as well play four small games before sex

1. Lip and tongue stripping

In the past, I always played rough stripping games, which is really not conducive to sex. Try stripping with gentle lips and tongue. Fix your hands, and then use your mouth and tongue to slowly peel off and roll off her clothes. While taking off, you might as well stimulate her sensitive areas. If there is music to accompany it, it will be the icing on the cake. However, you should pay attention to the thickness of the other party's clothes, otherwise it will take five or six hours to take off clothes.

2. Blindfolded Hide and Seek

One of you should cover your eyes with a handkerchief to ensure that you are completely invisible, and let him determine the location of your partner based on the sounds he makes, and then find him or her in the shortest possible time. Of course, the rules must be clear. It's not just a matter of finding it. The loser must be punished. The punishment is that the loser must "serve" his lover in a sexual way that he is least willing to do at ordinary times. When visuals are ineffective, sexual fantasies take wing, which is the secret to this game's success. But be careful not to pile up too many messy things in the room. The one who is not blindfolded, you have to protect the safety of the blindfolded one!

3. Sexual desire lottery

This is a bit like the games we usually play. Both of you find some small pieces of paper, write down one by one the sexual behaviors you have secretly longed for or been curious about, and then collect them in a hat or a big bowl. Then pull out a random card and discuss the topic above. If both of you agree, try this approach. This method is great for sharing each other's desires. However, you should pay attention to the fact that it is better to make your requests step by step, otherwise it will be a trivial matter if you are rejected, which will frighten the other party and make you stop playing this game in the future. You will be responsible for your own profits and losses!

4. Body makeup

The bristles of women's makeup brushes are rich and delicate, and they give you a trembling feeling when they brush against your body. I casually grabbed a powder brush with rich bristles and gently touched his face, ears, and to his pelvis and inner thighs. He later told me that he had never experienced such temptation before. So I later tried a series of things such as shoe brushes and toothbrushes. Needless to say about the texture of the brush!