Women are getting stronger and stronger. No one wanted to ask a man for help. Men are also becoming more and more confused. Where can a man who is no longer needed find his dignity and strength?

When we are young, we naturally accept help from boys without being reminded. If you don't dare to go home after school late, boys will volunteer to escort you; if you don't do your homework well, boys will step up to help you. At that time, although boys’ shoulders were small, you could rely on them.

Girls grow up day by day, and society educates us with facts one after another: men cannot be relied on, and we can only rely on ourselves; if we accept help from men, we will pay the price one day; in the final analysis, men help you. Picture... There are also some men who use practical actions to educate us: they will fight you for a taxi on a rainy day, step on you secretly in a workplace fight, use their power to ask for benefits from you... Once you find a man, he will open the door for a woman, Immediately regard him as the new good man. We are less and less afraid to expect anything from men.

Originally gentle women have become helpless and sharp, and men will regard them as competitors. Men and women become like hedgehogs, afraid of other people's thorns, but also want to keep a warm distance. Such men and women may seem strong, but in fact they are very tired.

Actually, this was not the case. It was just messed up by overly nervous people. Women need men just as men need women. Men's help can generally be divided into two types: one is an expression of love, and one is willing to go through fire and water for the woman she loves, even to the death. It is enough for a woman to have such a man in her life. What we are talking about is more of another kind, like a lively Lei Feng, helping the women around them. This is not only a friendly expression for them, but also an expression of their own demeanor. The more such live Lei Feng there are, the more harmonious our gender environment will be, and the deeper the understanding between men and women will be.

Some radical feminists reject male help, believing that this kind of help is based on the psychological relationship of uneven strength. This is an undesirable attitude. In their simple theoretical system, it is very This or that, black or white, the relationship between men and women is in opposition, which is not beneficial to men, and it is also not beneficial to women.

Men like to be needed and valued by the opposite sex. For this feeling, they are willing to sacrifice a lot, including strength, experience, patience, and even love, but they are not willing to do thankless things, and they do not want to be looked at by others. They become big fools who only work hard, and they don’t want their good intentions to be misunderstood. They are cautious and afraid of being hurt.

You must know that helping women is a happy thing for all men, but not all men are willing to help. If you are a smart woman, you will definitely understand Which roles are men most willing to take on:

He is most willing to be your - workplace consultant

Based on the principle that opposites attract and same-sex repels, this is the best place for women in the workplace to seek help. The subject is definitely male. No matter where they are in the workplace, women can usually find suitable male help seekers around them, such as male bosses, male colleagues, male subordinates, or male friends around them. Men usually appear more decisive, rational, and logical in the workplace, so their experiences are easier to summarize and repeat. And because of their natural enthusiasm for women, a smart woman can find their psychological entry point, You can get their sincere help without asking for anything in return.

The seemingly unintentional guidance when you do something, the cover-up for you without realizing it when you make a mistake, and the direct transfer of his many years of experience... are all their habits and methods, but , the woman being helped must repay the favor and "treat the other person in his own way" at the appropriate time. This is in line with the principle of treating each other with courtesy, and only in this way can the helping relationship be long-lasting.

He is most willing to be your - travel guide

If you are still worried about where to go on vacation, quickly ask the men around you, anyone will give you a lot good advice. Not to mention routes, they might even be able to help you find out discounted air tickets. Because every man desires to be a living map. As for what to do and what to eat when you get there, they are very knowledgeable and can give you advice that could fill half an LP.

And a man on the journey is more alive than Lei Feng. Helping women carry bags and boxes is very voluntary, especially when you act very weak, it can stimulate their loving nature. And you just need to smile or express gratitude, and the man will work hard like clockwork.

Planning routes, finding cars, and finding hotels during self-guided travel are also things that women are afraid of but men are happy to do. Smart men will automatically and consciously serve as the leader of the action team, arranging food and accommodation arrangements, and come here For a man who keeps in touch with the outside world and lets women enjoy the fruits of his labor, his charm index will increase exponentially. He will work hard for a while and be happy for a long time.

What a smart woman has to do is to let go and have fun like a man. Don’t complain or feel tired, don’t dislike this or that. Your happy laughter is the perfect way for a man to serve you. Motivation, and for a woman who is grunting and chirping all the time, even if a man takes good care of you in a gentlemanly manner, he is probably saying in his heart: "I won’t go out with you again next time."

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He is most willing to be your love backup

A love backup is the man who will always be by your side when you are broken up or have relationship problems. He will never become your boyfriend. Friend, you will never fall in love with him either. A happy woman will have such a love backup, which may be your ex-boyfriend, someone who has admired you for a long time, or your close friend. When you get along with him, you usually don't talk about love, but when you are frustrated, he can hold your hand with his kind hands and say: "If you are not married by the time you are forty, I will marry you." ”

Anyway, he knows you won’t take it seriously. A love spare tire will accompany you to eat, chat, and go shopping with you just like a boyfriend. If you want, he can probably go to bed with you, but the spare tire is just a spare tire. It is okay to use it in an emergency. In their heart We also know that accommodating someone when they are in love is like building a seven-level pagoda, which is a good deed to save those in distress. It's just that both parties have to be careful. It's good to make a lie into reality. If you're afraid, it won't be true, and the lie won't last. It's not worth it to be embarrassed at both ends, and to lose an old friend in vain.

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