Both men and women want to have a happy marriage, but many times, their marriages are not satisfactory. As a wife, she must know her husband’s hidden negative psychology, and pay attention to and help him eliminate some of the dark sides of his psychology in life to prevent her husband from having extramarital affairs.

These 6 unspeakable secrets will cause men to cheat, women should know more about them!

First, due to excessive work pressure

If the work pressure is high and the pace of life is tense, it is easy for men to take their work emotions home. As a result, when they go to bed, they are still thinking about work and cannot sleep well. Most modern women are no longer housewives because they have their own careers. They often work hard and are tired when they get home. At this time, men and women are most likely to have conflicts and their emotions will be more irritable than usual.

Second, because my wife is too capable

Modern society has given women more opportunities, and women are becoming more and more capable. The emergence of strong women has broken the original domestic image. Competent women make it difficult for men to get close to them, so men have to rely on other women. Find what it feels like to be a man.

Third, differences in ideas

Men and women are different, especially in their ideas. Men's perceptions will change dramatically as the years go by, while some women tend to stay where they are and stagnate. In this way, many problems arise, and a generation gap will follow. So, women have to work hard to keep up with men.

Fourth, marital discord

If the family is not harmonious, the husband and wife often quarrel, and the sex life is not harmonious, the husband will feel that the home is a mess. The husband had to go outside to find the sustenance in his heart. The reason why many husbands have extramarital affairs is because the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, and they cannot feel the warmth of home and the tenderness of women at home.

Fifth, aesthetic fatigue appears

Eating just one dish for a long time, even if it is delicious, can sometimes be boring. When a husband faces his wife, he will have aesthetic fatigue. The husband's aesthetic fatigue towards his wife is not limited to his wife's appearance. It may be because the mental interaction is poor and they have developed a sense of boredom with each other.

Sixth, because of loneliness

Many divorced couples live apart because they do not have a normal sex life. In order to make a living, men will inevitably encounter times of difficulty and despair. When a man is physically and mentally exhausted, his wife cannot provide comfort and encouragement. When a man is fragile, he needs another passionate woman to soothe his lonely and frustrated heart.

In short, the reason why a man has an affair, in addition to being particularly carefree, may be that his family cannot meet his psychological needs, which puts him under excessive psychological pressure. Therefore, a woman must pay attention to her husband's psychological changes and help her husband eliminate psychological disadvantages so that he can overcome the difficulties and return to the family.