Married life is a kind of knowledge, and it is a university knowledge. You must treat it carefully. Housework is the factor that arouses the most affection between couples. Therefore, I advise those who never do housework to maintain their marriage by starting with small things.

According to the British "Daily Mail" report, the most likely place to cause conflicts between couples is actually the tiny place in the kitchen. A survey of 1,427 housewives showed that 32% hated it most when their husbands made a mess in the kitchen while cooking, ranking first among all options; followed by piling used dishes, pots and pans in the sink. Accounting for 30%; closely followed by not throwing away garbage on time (19%) and not putting food in the refrigerator in time (16%). Suzanne Holler, brand director of the hot spot survey company responsible for the survey, said that in fact, the kitchen can be said to be the heart of a family. A kitchen is needed to feed oneself, and a kitchen is also needed to entertain relatives and friends... so the most quarrels occur here. Strange.

In addition, after putting their children to bed, 70% of husbands choose to sit down and watch TV or DVD, but 77% of wives choose to clean the room, 51% choose to do laundry, and 40% prepare breakfast for tomorrow. On the one hand, there is enjoyment and on the other hand, they continue to work. This has also become the source of many wives’ complaints against their husbands. Surveys show that women often have to complete at least five tasks after returning home from work every day, such as washing clothes, checking emails, shopping, putting away and ironing clothes, cooking, etc.; while men only need to complete three "tasks" at most. These include pastimes such as playing computer games, chatting with friends and drinking alcohol.

In this regard, social behaviorist Jenny Hugh said that to maintain a harmonious family atmosphere, you might as well try the following five methods:

1. Let everyone participate in housework to experience the hardships. The husband tries to tidy up the kitchen and iron clothes, and the wife tries to repair small furniture and change light bulbs;

2. Use a variety of home cleaning and organizing tools, such as cute trash cans and storage boxes, and vacuum cleaners with multiple suction nozzles that can remove dust from every corner, making boring housework full of fun;

3. Establish a family duty schedule, take turns taking out the daily chores of taking out the trash, and those who do more housework can enjoy more initiative in the TV remote control;

4. Shop rationally, save time and money, and avoid disputes;

5. Spend more time with your family on weekends to enhance understanding.

There are techniques to strengthen the relationship between couples

A family without a normal sex life will be very terrible. Over time, the family may evolve into alienation, extramarital affairs and divorce due to the lack of sex life. Sex clinicians point out that 97% of cases of sexual life disorders are not caused by physiological factors. The following are 10 solutions to sexual problems provided by experts that will help couples have a harmonious and happy sex life.

Problem: Too busy at work, too tired, and exhausted when I get home at night

Sex psychologists at the University of London say that stress and fatigue are the biggest killers of sexual passion! A person who does not have time and energy to enjoy sex will mean that he does not have time and energy to enjoy a good life!

Solution: Make some lifestyle adjustments. Give yourself a time to relax, eat well, rest well, and exercise appropriately during this time. Only when you are completely relaxed can you get along better with your lover.

Problem: Lack of sexual fantasies

Many couples gradually lose their sexual interest in life, partly because they lack sexual fantasies.

Solution: Get yourself sexually aroused in a variety of ways. Experts point out that many women have never experienced sexual pleasure and urges in their lives, which is very sad. At the same time, experts suggest that men and women who have no sexual impulses can try reading pornographic books to stimulate their sexual fantasies and sexual impulses.

Problem: The other person’s bad mood makes the spouse’s sex life dull

Psychoanalysts say that if the other person holds resentment, anger and tension in their sexual life, their sexual life will be disharmonious. For couples who have been having sex for a long time, cultivating good emotions during sex is crucial.

Solution: Face the negative emotion with the other person and resolve it. Husbands and wives need to communicate and ask each other about their feelings. If they cannot accept each other's sexual life, they need to speak up and work with their lover to resolve the negative emotions in their sexual life.

Problem: Destroying a couple’s sex life during childbirth

Medical experts point out that couples should not have sex before and after the baby is born. The husband needs to adjust and control himself at this time, prioritize family life, and postpone sexual needs for a while.

Solution: Adjust and control yourself reasonably. Before giving birth or for a period of time after giving birth, the husband cannot have sex for several months. In this regard, they need to correctly understand this problem and realize that sex life is only a part of family life. During the childbirth period, the wife’s physical condition is not suitable for sex. Behavior, as a husband and future father, you need to be aware of this.

Problem: The husband is vindictive towards his wife if she doesn’t want to have sex

During the sexual life of a couple, if the wife is unhappy during sexual intercourse, the husband will think that the wife has an opinion about him or has lost favor with him. Even in the future sexual life, the husband's behavior will be more insistent and impose his will on others. wife.

Solution: Husband and wife consider each other and understand each other. When a husband is very eager to have sex, if the wife has no sexual interest at all, it is best to be considerate of her husband's emotions and cooperate with her husband to achieve pleasure during sex. If a wife looks cold to her passionate husband, it will make him feel uncomfortable. At the same time, when you are passionate, you need to caress the other person slowly to seduce the fire of desire in the other person.