After getting married, when the passion of love faded away, the good man who was once a good man seems to have become a different person, becoming lazy and not always affectionate. What should I do? Today, the editor will teach female friends four techniques to tame their husbands. Use gentleness wisely to tame your man into a good man.

One of the techniques for taming a husband: Let him choose some housework to do.

It is the nature of most men not to do housework. If you want them to do it, start with the simplest things and proceed step by step. From wiping the table to mopping the floor and doing the laundry, let him do only one thing at a time.

After finishing the work, don't blame him for not cleaning it, or wipe it again with a rag. He will think, "Since you are not satisfied, why did you let me do it?" After you finish the work, you can pat him on the back and encourage him. Ichiban.

Taming Technique 2: Show weakness appropriately and pretend to be stupid sometimes.

Often wives blame their husbands for being lazy and ask him to do something, but they can't direct him no matter what. The wife has to do everything herself. In fact, only stupid women will act like strong women in front of their husbands every day and take care of everything at home. When you want your husband to do something for you, you must first show your gentle side and say more words such as "dear", "please", "can you", etc.

At the same time, it is necessary to show the natural weakness, even if it is stupid, it will make him feel that he is needed. However, psychological experts remind you not to abuse this method. Once you rely too much on it, your husband will turn from contentment to disgust.

Taming Technique No. 3: Divert his interests and develop common hobbies.

Indulging in online games, playing football, billiards, etc. are things that many men like. When participating in these activities, men often ignore their wives' feelings. Psychologists say that at this time, don't just blame them. First, show interest in the things they like, so that they can feel supported because they are in your heart.

Try to get him to develop common interests with you. Once your husband understands your intentions, he will naturally not turn a blind eye to you.

Taming Technique No. 4: Make an agreement to organize your wallet once a week.

Some men spend money lavishly without a plan. For such a husband, don't indulge him or control him.

Try to make an agreement with him, for example, each person puts 500 yuan in his wallet and sorts it out at the weekend to see who spends the money in useful places. Let him gradually develop the good habit of saving.

3 marriage minefields that women should not cross

Achilles heel 1: Believe that ordinary happiness is true.

After the relationship between a man and a woman is established, their relationship quickly heats up. Both of them long for the two of them to go on for a long time and live a down-to-earth life. Love has too many illusions. On the surface, the life you desire is ordinary, but in fact it is difficult to maintain. When the relationship between two people has been dull for a long time, it is easy to be attracted by the temptation and stimulation of the outside world, and you can't wait to take your own steps towards the world you yearn for. At this time, cracks will appear in the marriage.

The desire for an ordinary life is actually beautiful. This desire is based on this: you love me as deeply as I love you, you cherish me unswervingly as I love my life, our love is as honey as honey Sweet, blooming like a hundred flowers. Only by laying this foundation and keeping it stable for a long time can this love be alive for a long time. In the process of laying the foundation and consolidating the foundation, you are actually trying to please the other person and repeatedly arouse each other's gratitude and love for each other.

Achilles heel 2: Believe that loving someone means trusting him completely.

When love blooms, women don't have much reason. They easily defeat themselves and constantly convince themselves to turn an ordinary man into a Buddha. They worship him, look up to him, trust him, and completely lose it. Rely on this person wisely. Only when this man was withdrawn from her life one day, did she vaguely feel that her bone marrow was hurting, her nerves were bad, and her whole world collapsed.

In marriage, a woman should trust her husband, but she should trust herself even more. Believing that he can be the whole of her life, or just a part of her life. Therefore, you must learn to be independent in marriage, and you must also learn to be a little woman. Only by standing beside this man at a distance can you let him see your brilliance. Within a certain distance, a hazy beauty will definitely appear.

Achilles heel three: Believe that tolerance can restore a cheating heart.

In daily life, any product we buy has its shelf life and maintenance period. The same is true for marriage. Marriage has a certain shelf life. When one person has an affair, the shelf life has expired and the maintenance period has also expired. Before the expiration date, this man will more or less do something wrong and hurt your heart. For example, he is not as careful or considerate as before. The reason why the warranty is still valid is because he is still loyal to your marriage.

When a person cheats and the maintenance period of the marriage expires, if one party tolerates and forgives the other for various reasons, this kind of tolerance for cheating will be a kind of torture for both parties. There will be mutual suspicion and suspicion between each other. It is better to get together and part ways. At least in retrospect, the relationship will not be so gloomy and will not cause too much pain in one's life. Marriage is a responsibility. We come together because of love. When one day love no longer exists, it will also perish. Don't leave messages, don't deceive yourself, facing reality is the best way to forgive yourself.

Although marriage is filled with all kinds of pressure, the world of love belongs to two people after all. No one can really take away and destroy a person's love, unless he is not good at managing and dealing with it. Marriage, like those flowers and plants, needs care, pruning, and careful irrigation. The best way to keep your marriage fresh is to take steps towards what kind of marriage you desire, start preparing materials first, and create the ideal marriage you want. The other party will naturally follow your steps. Help you realize your "marriage career".