The rampant extramarital affairs have brought many originally happy families to the brink of collapse. But looking back, many people will find that the extramarital affairs they indulged in at the beginning were worthless, and sometimes they were just for a temporary feeling. . So now let’s understand the psychology of extramarital affairs.

Rediscover the feeling of first love

Ordinary life, boring days, apart from finding a lover, what else can make a woman who is tired of daily necessities think of herself as a princess in a fairy tale again? A lover makes a woman always feel in love and does not let her cook and wash dishes at all. And my husband always puts his smelly sweaty feet on the coffee table with a cigarette in his mouth after get off work, lazily flipping through newspapers and watching TV. After marriage, most women have to go out to work to support their families. When they return home, they have to do countless housework and educate their children. They often experience greater pressure than men. So everyone wants to find the feeling of being cared for and loved.

What's more, women face more temptations than men in their lives. Any pretty woman should have countless experiences of being entangled by men from childhood to adulthood, from before marriage to after marriage. With a man outside of marriage, a woman can recover. The feeling of first love.

Enjoy the feeling of romance

Women need understanding and support, but sometimes their husbands are not the best partners. The love between husband and wife often fades away in real life, with little time for communication and a lack of calm atmosphere. Women are often dissatisfied with their husbands: their husbands lack humor, their husbands are not diligent enough, and their husbands are not considerate enough. This is simply enough. But who can you talk to about these things? Who can understand the troubles in work and life?

Therefore, a woman needs to find a lover to talk to about her cheating, and the lover and she are not under the same roof, have no common conflicts, but can tolerate each other and can communicate with each other. No matter how much time a woman spends in expecting a surprise for her husband, she will always get nothing in return. As for a lover, when he sees a gift from a woman, he will be overjoyed and send him a lingering kiss and a passionate hug. .

Experience the feeling of passion

When the woman finished washing, put on sexy underwear, and tenderly sent a message of love to her husband, her husband frowned and wanted to sleep. At this time, the lover will keep praising the woman, then treat the woman with all kinds of tenderness, and keep asking the woman how she feels.

Under normal circumstances, when a relationship becomes stable, a woman often stays with a man because of her dependence on security and fear of loneliness. So cheating gives women a chance to think: Do I need passion and sex so much? Can they really replace my current life?

Many times the brain’s answer to women is: Indeed, I still prefer my current life, but I have at least proven that I am still capable of creating and enjoying passion. Scientists have long discovered that women who often bathe in fresh love have very good health and mental state.

Three tips to teach you how to prevent extramarital affairs

Don’t have too frequent contact with the opposite sex

If you have long-term contact with friends of the opposite sex, it is inevitable that sparks of "love" will arise. Therefore, when you are in contact with friends of the opposite sex, do not choose places that are prone to ambiguity, or in public places. Treat each other as "buddies" and "friends" in your heart, and the content of the conversation should be limited to care and greetings between friends. When talking about work and study, avoid talking about emotional topics, and try to avoid long-term eye contact.

Enrich your married life

Many married people have extramarital affairs, either because they are not new to marriage or because they are not emptied and lonely. If you meet a person of the opposite sex who you are compatible with at this time and fall in love for a long time, it is easy to step into the threshold of extramarital affairs.

Therefore, try to keep yourself busy, such as reading more books, listening to music more, or exercising more, and keep a happy mood at all times, so that you can easily get rid of loneliness. For married couples, creating more fun in life will make the couple more affectionate and stay away from the edge of divorce and extramarital affairs.

Put experience into married life

After getting married, some men pay little attention to their married life because they face the pressure of life and work. No matter how busy or tired you are, don't ignore your feelings for your family, because home is where you cultivate and rest.

For example, you can think about how long it has been since you called your parents? How long has it been since you were tender with your lover? How long has it been since you cared about your children’s studies? Only by constantly reflecting on your relationship with your family can you feel attached to your marriage.

In fact, in order to maintain the emotional stability of a marriage, both husband and wife need to learn how to regularly add different colors to their marriage life. The three methods above are good methods that the editor will tell you today. I hope it will be helpful to you and I wish you all a happy family.