There are some things you shouldn’t understand after divorce
It is said that she is a happy woman. Her lover and her family have won her the admiration of many people, but she just doesn’t know how to cherish and grasp the happiness in her hands, until happiness finally comes from her. Willfulness and conceit quietly depart. I am so lucky to have married a man who dotes on me
When he pursued me, my parents and I were moved by his sincerity. He said to my parents: "Uncle, aunt, please believe me, I will build a happy home for He Jue! I will not let her suffer the slightest grievance or hardship!"
I am an only child. , I have hardly done any housework since I was a child. He didn't know how to do it either, but for me, he started to learn it, starting from the simplest ones. He always takes care of things for me that I think of but cannot do, and always helps me do things that I ignore as well as I want. In short, the days after marriage were exactly as he promised, and I felt no grievances or hardships at all. Indulging in the happiness he created for me, I told him more than once: "You will spoil me rotten." He said: "If I don't spoil you, what can I do?" I often say this about myself in front of my friends. She is the happiest woman, making them all jealous. Really, apart from my parents, there is also him who dotes on me so much. What else am I not satisfied with?
I originally thought that life would go on like this, but when my daughter was under 3 years old, He was promoted to Business Unit Manager, responsible for the entire Southwest region. After he was appointed, I was really happy for him, but he asked me, "Do you want me to sit in this position?" I said I very much hoped. He asked again: "Then I will be very busy in the future. Can you take care of yourself and the family?" I was completely excited at the time and told him without thinking, "Don't worry! I will be a good wife and mother."
For no reason, I made myself look like a resentful woman
I was still in a strong state at first, but I was spoiled by him. Without him, I felt like there was no backbone in the family. Finally, I was overwhelmed by this difficulty. I called him in the middle of the night with my daughter in my arms and cried. I said I was going crazy, please come back quickly. A few hours later, he appeared in front of me, looking exhausted.
In order to take care of me without delaying work, he began to travel between the two cities. He would come back on Friday night to take care of our mother and daughter's life for the next week, and drive all night back on weekend nights. Unknowingly, things started to change between us. I learned to nag and complain, and I would lose my temper at him and my daughter at every turn, making myself look like a resentful woman. And he was getting thinner and thinner. In fact, I know he is tired and stressed. My mother also reminded me to change myself appropriately and not to go too far.
My birthday has become a trigger between us. It was Sunday and he got up very early and was busy. I invited many friends behind his back just to show off my happiness. Because they always say that men who have a successful career will definitely become bad. A bunch of us were having a good time, and he was providing us with attentive service. In the afternoon, his cell phone rang. Something important happened at the company and he needed to rush back immediately. I heard him explaining to the other side, but he failed, and my mood suddenly became very bad. He first apologized to my friends, then took my hand and said, "I'm sorry! Wife." I felt my friends snickering, and I pushed him hard, "Go! No one will leave you." Then he locked the door and cried. His cell phone rang desperately, and more than an hour later, my friend told me that he was gone.
I regret that I gave up the man I loved so much
That night, I kept waiting for his call, but he didn’t come back even after dawn. I called his number and said before he could say anything: "I want a divorce!" After that, I unplugged the phone line and turned off the phone. I thought he would come back to me immediately, but he didn't. While waiting, I tried to connect the phone line several times, but I was so spoiled by him that I couldn't lower my head. He came back on Friday night. I wanted to rush up to him and lean into his arms, but my pride did not allow me to do so. I got angry and threw the drafted divorce agreement to him. He kept looking at me with a pained face. He asked me, "Have you thought about it?" I said coldly, "Yeah." He said, "Okay, I respect your decision." My heart went cold and I almost shed tears.
He changed no matter what he said! My friend’s words echoed in my ears again: "A man with a successful career will definitely change!" Gritting my teeth, I said cruelly, "I will go through the formalities on Monday. Who doesn't? Go away, you bastard!”
That’s how we got divorced. He didn't ask for anything, he just took the child. Returning to the empty home felt like a dream. I wanted to check what time it was, so I turned on my phone, which had been turned off. Suddenly, a lot of messages came in, all from him a few days ago. "My dear, are you still angry? It's too late and I won't call you. Something big happened in the company and I have to work overtime. Good night!" "He Jue, I'm on my way back. I know you're angry. I'm sorry. !" "He Jue, forgive me for being busy with work and neglecting you, don't be angry, I beg you! Can you please answer the phone?" "He Jue, I love you, please remember my promise: 'I will do it for you. You build a happy home! You will not suffer the slightest grievance or hardship!'" "If you think divorce is the best way for you, then I am willing to bear all the pain!"...
My tears blurred my vision and I couldn't bear to watch anymore. I felt like I was having a dream, a very ridiculous dream. I actually got divorced, and it was with the man I deeply loved and the man I relied on deeply.
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