Sexual mysophobia is also common in both sexes. The reason is that people believe that sexual life is dirty, so they fundamentally resist sexual life. Excessive sexual mysophobia will affect the normal sexual life between couples, which will lead to infertility for everyone. So why is this?

The main cause of sexual mysophobia is the gradual formation of certain stubborn concepts in the person involved. Some people have been taught the dogmatic education of "loving cleanliness and respecting hygiene" since childhood. They go too far and believe that nothing is clean. They set many rules and precepts in their daily lives to achieve high standards of "cleanliness". After marriage, people will naturally bring their mysophobia habits into their sexual life, and they will have a sexual mysophobia mentality, and they may even look a little sloppy in their daily lives. However, due to the lack of correct understanding of sexual life, sexual intercourse between men and women is regarded as just an act of carrying on the family line, and normal sexual life is regarded as the most dirty and criminal act. Under the control of this abnormal sexual psychology, various manifestations of mysophobia will appear in sexual life.

The mysophobic behavior of sexual mysophobics in their sexual life will seriously affect the quality of their sexual life, and may also lead to emotional imbalance or breakdown in the couple. Even those who tolerate the sexual mysophobia of their sexual partners will have negative emotions such as depression, causing both parties to have abnormal psychology and completely lose the interest in sexual life. The most serious thing is that women with mysophobia get up immediately after sexual intercourse to clean inside and outside, causing the semen to overflow and the sperm to lose the chance to combine with the egg, thus leading to long-term infertility.

To correct sexual mysophobia, we need not only the guidance of a psychologist, but also the support of a sexual partner, as well as self-psychological adjustment and behavioral restraint. Among them, self-elimination of incorrect concepts such as "everything is unclean" and "sex is dirty" is key. In addition, the correction of mysophobia is a relatively long-term and complex psychological and behavioral adjustment process. It should not be done too hastily, otherwise it will be counterproductive and even cause serious psychological disorders such as sexual frigidity or complete refusal of sex in the mysophobia.

Sexual mysophobia manifests itself in several aspects

In fact, sexual mysophobia exists in many people's lives, some are serious and some are mild, but no matter what, it has seriously affected the sexual intercourse of couples. So do you know what are the common manifestations of sexual mysophobia? Now let’s take a look at the common manifestations of mysophobia.

(1) Physical mysophobia - a mysophobia caused by an unscientific attitude towards one's own or the body of the opposite sex, especially the reproductive organs and their physiological phenomena, such as feeling that they are ugly or dirty;

(2) Behavioral mysophobia - some women subjectively distinguish their sexual behavior as good or bad, dignified or debauched, and limit themselves accordingly to pursue good or dignified sexual behavior;

(3) Mental mysophobia - aversion to what is actually normal sexual behavior, sexual gestures or sexual language, or excessive pursuit of purity, blaming oneself for sexual indulgence as a dirty soul and moral depravity.

It is not easy for ordinary people to realize that this is mysophobia, and it is even more difficult for them to understand where their own or their partner’s mysophobia comes from. They often think that the other party must “not love me, or do not really love me”; while their own mysophobia is It's just "hygiene" or even "elegant taste".

Introduction to prevention and treatment methods for sexual mysophobia

To prevent and correct sexual mysophobia, we must first view the sexual behavior between husband and wife correctly. If you feel that you are disgusted, reluctant, or regretful when kissing, caressing, or having sex, you should not just look for the crux of the problem from the relationship between the couple. Instead, you should consider whether you may be suffering from a psychosexual disorder. If necessary, you can seek help from a psychological counselor. Psychological desensitization therapy can also be used to correct it and replace sexual mysophobia with positive sexual enthusiasm.

For sexual mysophobia, we should fundamentally eliminate their misguided understanding that everything is unclean and sex is dirty. We can also take the following measures: Husbands should pay great attention to cleanliness and hygiene, treat their spouse's sexual mysophobia correctly, and avoid Inducing a spouse's aversion to sexual life. Couples should not only increase the "transparency" of sexual organs between husband and wife and understand their functions, but also bathe and wash each other together, get along as naked as possible, and connect this experience with the good feelings in the couple's life to make their sex life more enjoyable. It has become an indispensable measure for couples to communicate emotionally. Both parties can get fun and pleasure in the process, so that sexual mysophobia can be corrected and slowly eliminated in the process of achieving "one pleasure and one pleasure".