The sweetness and happiness of love belong to those who pursue it. However, for women, it is often not as easy as imagined to express their affection and reveal their inner admiration. Women also have the right to pursue their own happiness, but in the pursuit, they cannot enter the 7 "minefields".

1. Women chasing men are not suitable for protracted battles

During the pursuit of a girl, the time should not exceed three months. In the meantime, if the boy does not introduce you to his boss, female friend or colleague alone, and does not take the initiative to call or send text messages to you, he will not be able to accept you as you imagined, or he will not be able to treat you as you treat him. Being nice to you, not openly acknowledging you, not saying he loves you means that he has rejected you in disguise and is just enjoying your care. At this time, you should learn to give up. If you really can't bear to give up and still love him deeply, then you have to find ways to change the way to make him take the initiative to fall in love with you.

2. Women chasing men are not suitable for chasing and fighting

Invite him to participate in activities many times, and if he always refuses, it means that he doesn't have that kind of interest in you, so it's better to stop. If you want to show your feelings, you can borrow some special props or dates and say "I like you so much" in a joking tone. If he means it, he will take it seriously. If he doesn't mean it, he will just think you are joking, and naturally he will not lose face.

3. It is not appropriate for a woman to chase a man and leave evidence

Note that girls cannot express their love by sending text messages or writing affectionate love letters. Be careful that these "written" evidences may become bragging rights for the boy being pursued. Men are like this, they have a skill to win women's hearts. And many times, through the exaggeration of boys, the girl who takes the initiative to pursue can easily form a frivolous impression in his mind.

4. Women chasing men are not suitable for siege warfare

Some girls take it for granted that making a fuss about the boy's father or relatives, or having an influence on the boy's circle of friends and colleagues, will lead to the fact that the two are in love. In fact, the concerned inquiries from the boy's father and the friendly jokes from friends and colleagues will actually form a rebellious psychology in the boy's heart. He will have questions like this: "Why is it that when the whole world knows about something, only the protagonist of the incident is still in the dark?" "Where?" The girl's sincerity gave the boy the impression that she was very thoughtful and scheming, making the boy think that the girl had ulterior motives and other agendas.

5. A woman chasing a man cannot win his love

Taking away someone's love is the most despicable thing. Although everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, if it is based on the pain of others, it is a different matter. This is a very important rule for women to pursue men. Therefore, before a girl implements her pursuit plan, she must understand the other person's situation clearly. The most important thing is to make sure that he loves her without any hesitation.

6. Women should not throw themselves into the arms of a man

Are there any girls out there who are so stupid as to say, "If I go to bed with you, I'm yours"? Yes, there definitely is.

Girls are very emotional by nature. Once she falls in love with someone, she will ignore them and be "righteous". Therefore, many girls will show a kind of ambiguity in their words and actions, touching the boy she is pursuing with a certain part of their body, or looking closely, as if this can force the boy to submit.

Yes, boys give in easily and accept all who come! Because male hormones can easily create false impressions for girls, often the last words a girl gets is: "Going to bed with you doesn't mean anything." But what if a girl gets a stern rejection from a boy? The girl will be even more ashamed. No matter what, the one who regrets it is himself.

7. Women chasing men are not suitable for the following "feat"

* Send flowers: Challenge his true nature as a man to the maximum extent. You must know that chasing a man is already a challenge for a woman.

* Pulling banners: The most popular trick for men to chase women in 2006. If you use it on women to chase men, they will scare you away even if they are interested in you.

* Tell him I love you directly: If he is shy, he will not know what to do because you are too fierce; if he is extroverted, he will be embarrassed because he has lost the right to say "I love you" for the first time. accurate.

* Hand-to-hand combat: Summer is coming, and hand-to-hand combat is easier for him to resist. However, if the only thing he can't resist is that you expose too much of your body and take advantage of him and run away, you will die in an ugly way.

* Self-bragging: From an outstanding employee in the company to a child genius, he thought that portraying himself as Hillary would force him to take the initiative, forgetting that what people need is a wife, not a CEO.

* Sit back and wait: The long-haired beauty waits downstairs at the company or at the door of the house every day. It sounds like a ghost story to both listen and read.

* Give lavish gifts: You can’t afford to support a man who falls in love with you because of lavish gifts. If he is not such a man, why would you spend money on giving lavish gifts?

* I sink to the dust: "You may not love me now, but I am willing to wait." "I know I am not worthy of you, but I am the person who loves you most in the world." Even if you get this kind of love, In the future, when a man changes his mind, he will also be able to say plausibly: "I didn't even love you in the first place, but you were the one who kept stalking me."

* Pretend to be a free full-time hourly worker: Meticulous care can be used in vain, and it can be used in vain.