Sex is certainly a human drive and instinct, but today’s love and marriage are not only to satisfy this drive and instinct. With the development of human society and culture, people's sexual drive and instinct are constantly becoming more elegant and noble. In sexual life, more attention should be paid to the feelings and dignity of both parties. The sexual hunger displayed by naked sexual mania and sexual perverts who take pleasure in torturing each other is, in a larger sense, a denial of the dominant culture of society

Female Sexual Psychology The Secrets That Cannot Be Told

1. Men: Do women always like the kind of great men who are brave in sex?

Woman: That’s what men think. What we love more is the kind of man who is gentle, kind, proactive, successful in career, and has a strong sense of responsibility. We always feel that being with such a man makes us feel more secure and dependent. We even think that such a man is truly sexy. The kind of mighty and brave warriors that men talk about have also been particularly loved by women, but that is a story in martial arts movies. Such men are idols that men pursue and imitate, but they are not what women today love.

2. Men: Do women like men wearing condoms to have sex?

Women: Men will feel that there is a layer of rubber membrane between them, but it will not affect women's pleasure, and of course, it will not bring more pleasure. However, sometimes we worry about whether the condom has slipped or is torn. This is mainly due to the need for contraception and prevention of sexually transmitted diseases.

3. Men: Are women always passive in sex?

Women: Although people's ideas have changed greatly, in most people's minds, women are still virtuous, dignified and docile, especially when it comes to sex, they must be calm, steady and restrained. Therefore, most women do not want to be flamboyant and exposed sexually. But women are by no means always passive when it comes to sex. We express it in a more subtle way. For example, prepare your favorite dinner and be extra attentive and intimate after dinner; wash up early in the evening and get ready for bed; put on a very sexy underwear when you go to bed, and show it to you intentionally or unintentionally...other than that Besides, what else do you expect women to do?

4. Men: Will women get jealous when men masturbate?

Woman: It depends on the relationship between the two people. If the relationship is normal or very good, then the man masturbates for pleasure and the woman will not be jealous. After all, there is no other woman to take away his love. Sometimes when we see what a man looks like at that moment, we may even feel particularly stimulated and excited. However, if we always fail to get along, then when we see or learn that a man masturbates without us, we will be jealous, or even feel inferior and sad.

Sexual mental health in the lives of both sexes

Indulging one's desires in an abnormal way will not only lead to negative psychological changes, but will also make both parties feel ashamed. Therefore, sexual and psychological hygiene must be promoted in the lives of couples. If this is ignored, the family structure will become very fragile. Psychosexual hygiene in married life is mainly reflected in two aspects:

First of all, couples, especially newlyweds, may have different requirements and understandings of sexual life for various reasons. This is very normal. Each other should understand, respect, cooperate with and gradually adapt to each other, and should not act too hastily or impose things on others regardless of the feelings and psychological endurance of both parties.

Secondly, you must pay attention to maintaining a good mood and emotional state, and maintain the integrity of your personality in your married life. This is very important to maintain the subject's healthy psychology and good personality. It should be considered that many contents in sexual life also reflect people's cultural upbringing, ideological quality, and psychological quality. In the sexual life of couples, any behavior that leads to and strengthens the formation and development of the subject's abnormal psychology, although it is likely not harmful to the third party and society, reflects the unhealthy psychological requirements and habits of the subject. This bad mentality should be corrected by constantly cultivating sentiments, improving self-cultivation, and cultivating lofty beliefs.

Many reasons may hinder healthy psychosexual development. For example, self-insertion psychology, excessive narcissism, violent personality traits, long-term suppression of psychological desires that need to be vented, potential masochistic and sadistic desires, bad friendships, the influence of pornographic culture, etc. Some of these factors may be used as Subconscious consciousness plays a role under the influence of bad inducements; some may act as inducements to activate potential bad psychological factors and externalize them into human behavior in different forms.

Failure to pay attention to sexual and psychological hygiene will lead to many adverse consequences: it can destroy the relationship between the couple, make one party avoid and resist sexual life, and no longer want to gradually adapt to the other party. It is possible that the female party will develop sexual frigidity, and the male party will show symptoms of sexual apathy. Premature ejaculation and impotence may cause changes in the entire personality, produce abnormal psychology, and even produce more serious consequences.

How much do you know about men’s sexual psychology codes

1. Suppressed emotions are often relieved through sex

As men, many people do not want to feel weak, such as fear, isolation, disappointment, etc., so they often use sex as a way to vent these inner emotions. At this time, if the wife wants more tenderness at this time, she will only be disappointed. Because although the husband can vent his anger physically, it does not eliminate the inner tension, and the wife will feel insulted and feel that she is a tool for her husband to vent his anger.

In fact, when men feel scared, disappointed, or nervous, they all want a loyal partner by their side, so sex is an effective way for them to regain confidence and feel relieved. Therefore, when a wife feels that her husband is nervous and uneasy, she should find a way to share it with him so that he can feel safe and tell you what is on his mind. In this way, the couple will feel closer, and the sex life that will follow will be more emotional and unforgettable.

2. I like women who have confidence

Many women believe that their husbands do not really care about her, and that conversations between husband and wife often focus on his interests rather than hers. However, there is an obvious fact that women mostly intend to "lower themselves" so that their husbands feel that he is the head of the family.

What women often overlook is that men with a pleasant nature usually like women who share the same qualities with them. Most men believe that women with strong self-confidence are more infectious to them, so wives should not be too modest in front of their husbands.

3. Don’t want to be treated like a child

The more a wife plays the role of mother to her husband, the more her husband treats her like his own mother rather than an affectionate lover. Why should a woman treat her husband like a mother treats her children? One woman said this: "Whenever my husband doesn't pay attention to me, I use the 'mother's method' of cooking him delicious food and fixing his underwear. What I really want is for my husband to pay more attention and Gentle, but what I got was a lot of thanks from a sensible child, who praised me for being so thoughtful!

By observing her mother at work as a child, a woman learns to feed her children, to give selflessly, and to pay attention to the needs of others. When she is married to a man, she will subconsciously do the same. Initially, men need this kind of care, but the more enthusiastic a woman is in playing the role of mother, the harder it is for men to repay her with love. Therefore, a woman should not treat her husband as a child, but as a capable and trustworthy friend. This will cause a lot of trouble at first, but the husband will eventually understand his wife's good intentions and treat his wife as a carefully selected woman again.

4. A wife who likes to share the bed curtain with him

In sex, there are differences between men and women. Women pay attention to warmth, while men appreciate their own interesting sex life. Because of this difference, women often complain that their husbands only pay attention to sex and that she is just a tool, while men complain that their wives are only interested in making love. To resolve this conflict, you can try to reverse the roles and let the man talk about his feelings of love, while the woman tries her best to experience physical pleasure, so that the wife can understand that her husband's sexual requirements are actually the ultimate expression of his love.

5. They are completely different before and after sex

Many husbands fall asleep after having sex. The wife thought the husband was deliberately alienating her, but the husband said he needed a break. Countless women have this experience, but what they don't understand is that men do this to control their feelings. For most men, a strong self-image is vital, and a complete loss of defense is psychologically threatening. One man said that sex was an experience in which he could express his emotions completely freely, but after it was over, he had to get out and "return to the ranks of men."