There are no real winners in sexual punishment
Every time my neighbor A Mei quarrels with her husband, no matter who is responsible, the husband always admits his fault. Why can she be "invincible"? Ah Mei's trump card is "sexual punishment". When her husband refuses to admit his fault, she will send him to the sofa in the living room to sleep alone, without giving him any chance to be intimate. Within three days, her husband will definitely surrender. Ah Mei once told me this experience proudly, and I asked her: "But don't you also suffer losses in your sex life?" She looked upright: "For the final victory, such a sacrifice is worth it!" However, once After the quarrel, Ah Mei's husband actually slept on the sofa for half a month without lowering his head. Only then did Ah Mei realize the seriousness of the problem.
After repeated questioning, I found out the truth behind the failure of the "sexual punishment". The husband had fallen in love with someone else. During the divorce, her husband said: "I am a man and I have normal physiological needs. It is meaningless to punish me with sex."
After the divorce, Ah Mei became so thin that she lost her human form. My face was gloomy, but I still said: "I won, and I did not lose my dignity in marriage." I was speechless for such a victory.
Passionate sex is an indispensable part of a couple's life, but blindly combining sex and self-esteem as a means of controlling marriage is obviously counterproductive. In fact, sex in marriage can also be a way to win, but the result of victory should be a win-win situation, where you can enjoy sex and enhance your relationship at the same time. The real winner in marriage should be the one who turns "sexual punishment" into "sexual motivation".
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