For most adolescent children, the enlightenment of their sexual awareness does not happen overnight. The sexual consciousness enlightenment of adolescent children is generally divided into four stages. During these four stages, they will develop a staged recognition and understanding of "sex".

Of course, among these sexual consciousnesses, consciousness controls behavior, and their behaviors (such as falling in love) will also respond accordingly.

1. Rejection Stage

The sexual conflict period lasts about 1 year. At the beginning of puberty, there is a short period of time when teenagers always want to stay away from the opposite sex, especially girls. This is mainly related to physiological factors. Due to the emergence of secondary sexual characteristics, teenagers feel confused and shy about the drastic changes that have occurred in themselves, and instinctively become alienated from the opposite sex. Some people even feel disgusted with the opposite sex.

2. Admiration stage

In the middle stages of puberty, young men and women often have a spiritual resonance with, admire and love those in the surrounding environment who are particularly outstanding in sports, literature, art, knowledge, and appearance (mostly older people of the same or opposite sex) , longing for them, and trying their best to imitate the speech and behavior of these elders, and even become fascinated.

3. Admiration Stage

As they grow older, when they reach the late stage of puberty, and as their sexual development matures, young people often become interested in the opposite sex of their own age, and hope to have the opportunity to contact the opposite sex, or to participate in various situations. Will find ways to attract the attention of the opposite sex to herself. However, because teenagers are emotionally unstable and have strong self-consciousness, they are prone to conflicts during the contact process. They often quarrel or even break up with each other over trivial matters, so the partners they interact with often change.

Four. Stage of falling in love

After youth, comes adulthood.

Young people focus their friendship on a person of the opposite sex they love. They often stay together with each other, like each other, help each other in work and study, take care of each other in life, look forward to a happy life after marriage, and start to organize a future family. Make preparations. At this time, young people pay less attention to their surroundings. Young women are often full of romantic fantasies, yearn to be loved, and are prone to sentimentality, while young men have a strong desire to love others and thus gain the satisfaction of a sense of independence, and they are often in a more excited mood.

There is a certain relationship between sexual awareness and academic qualifications

According to a survey on male sexual awareness in Guangzhou, 46.2% of men have sex twice a week, and 15.4% have sex once a day. Among men, the higher the education level, the more likely they are to use foul language during sex. 43.5% of graduate students chose "like to talk vulgar words during sex", while only 38.7% and 34.4% of those with university and primary and secondary education chose this option.

Do highly educated people prefer sexual language?

Many citizens have different opinions on this statement. "Graduate students should use less foul language than primary school students, right? The higher the education level, the more civilized sex should be." Citizen Mr. Qi believes that "vulgar words" should refer to "flirting words", and those with higher education know how to create a sexual atmosphere.

In order to enhance the interest and create a sexual atmosphere, no matter how explicit the language is, there is no such thing as "vulgar" in the sexual language used by couples.

High-income men have high quality of sex life

It is generally believed that work pressure will lead to a reduction in "sexual interest" and sexual ability of high-income men. However, surveys show that sex is often used by them as a means of reducing stress.

In "Qualitative Research on Sexual Life Quality and Lifestyle of High-Income Men", "high-income people" are defined as people with an annual income of more than 150,000 yuan. Among the interviewees, there are only six people with an annual income of 150,000-200,000 yuan. Most of the interviewees have an annual income of more than 200,000 yuan, and there are many people with an annual income of 1 million yuan. The highest-income interviewee has an annual income of 10 million. The survey conclusion shows that these high-income male respondents generally have a higher-quality sex life.

High-income people themselves have higher overall quality, and high income also brings them self-confidence and increases their "sexual charm." Moreover, because they are generally freed from housework, they have more time and energy to focus on leisure activities and physical health, which also promotes the quality of sex. In addition, work pressure does not hinder their sexual interests. On the contrary, sex is often used to relieve stress.