Boys are often relatively simple and can easily show whether they are interested in her or not. There is nothing to hide. But many boys don't know whether some of her behavior hides the possibility of love, or is just out of gentleness and elegance.

Being nice to me = liking me, this is the way boys think. But in the psychology of girls, gentleness may be just a common little mask, and the real small signals of goodwill are often shown in other places.

1. When talking to you, which direction does your body face?

No matter how she smiles and speaks gracefully, to know whether she is attracted to you, please first look at the direction of her body.

When she is sitting, even if her upper body is leaning towards you, as long as her feet are facing the opposite direction to you, or are tucked upright, it means that her heart is not given to you yet.

If you are standing and talking, observe the distance between the two of you. Generally speaking, anything within fifty centimeters is an intimate distance. But wait for a moment and look at her body language. Is it defensive? For example, are you crossing your arms? If not, she is basically not wary of you.

2. Behavior when saying goodbye

When you are about to break up, for example, you have arrived at the station and you walk away in two directions. After she takes two or three steps out, does she turn around and look at you? If she just walks away and never looks back, it means that you are just friends. (Superior-subordinate relationships and customer relationships are a separate matter)

3. Eyes don’t lie

Ask her the simplest questions first, what she likes to eat and what she doesn’t like to eat. What you want to observe at this time is her line of sight. NLP, which studies neuro-linguistics, has a set of sight theory, which believes that when people have two emotions, like and disgust, the direction of their eyes is unconscious, but it is specific. So, know her emotional baseline and remember the "like" and "dislike" eye directions. Next, ask a question that connects her to you in a natural way. For example, ask her if she wants to go to a certain restaurant with you? Now look at the direction of her gaze. Is it "like" or "dislike"? You'll know if she really wants to date you.

No matter what she says, if her eyes are not on the "like" side, I'm sorry, it may just be social etiquette.

4. SMS frequency

You are still in the testing stage, try sending mood text messages that have nothing to do with work or business. If you reply immediately, it means that you care about each other; if you reply within two or three hours, add something like, "I'm busy at work, I'm sorry I just saw you", and you can continue to pursue it. On the contrary, I suggest you give up. (The other person doesn’t like text messages, so that’s a different matter.) If she often exchanges text messages with you, and also likes to send photos, such as which store she is in now, what interesting things she saw, etc., then good feelings are about to come out.

Which characteristics of men and women can best attract the favor of the opposite sex

Goodwill is expressed through body language, not words. Even if you're just walking together, you can tell whether the other person cares about you by looking at the size of her steps and whether her rhythm matches yours.

Being attracted to someone of the opposite sex is sometimes just a momentary thing. So which characteristics of men and women can best attract the favor of the opposite sex?

The famous British fashion magazine "Style" summarizes some of the latest scientific research.

Men like women with red lips. A survey by the University of Manchester in the UK showed that when a woman puts on lipstick, men's eyes stay on her lips, eyes and hair for 7 seconds, 0.95 seconds and 0.85 seconds respectively.

Men like women with long arms. Researchers at the University of New South Wales in Sydney, Australia, found that men have little resistance to women with long arms. Long arms mean that women have longer legs.

Men like women wearing red. British psychologists found that red can quickly grab men's attention and arouse men's fantasies.

Men like women who understand humor. A survey of young men and women in their 20s by the University of Western Ontario in Canada found that men like women who understand humor, while women like men who can express humor.

Women are attracted to deep voices. Research from the University of Aberdeen in the UK shows that men with deep voices are more likely to impress women. A deep voice reminds women of attractive factors such as good physique and masculinity.

Women are attracted to men who don't like to smile. A study from the University of British Columbia in Canada said that men who like to smile and have fun all day long are not "sexually" attractive to women. Those with cold and dignified expressions are favored by the opposite sex.

Women are attracted to men with scars. The American magazine "Personality and Individual Differences" pointed out that small scars on the face will increase women's liking for men. Small scars are often associated with words such as bravery, masculinity, and decisiveness.

10 sexual signs that make women attracted to men

1. Deliberately wink at him and often act coquettishly in front of him.

It seems a bit crazy for a man to wink at a woman, or at least to be considered effeminate. It is extremely normal for a woman to wink at a man. In other words, it is a woman's exclusive right to express her interest in a man.

2. When seeing him with other women, his expression is unnatural, even in a trance.

It's not just the fault of a woman who is jealous of her husband or boyfriend. As long as it is a man she likes, if that man is playing with other women instead of her, she will be extremely unhappy inside. Even if that man is not her boyfriend or husband.

3. Either proactively and obediently obey what he says, or deliberately disobey and play opposite.

After a woman falls in love with a man, she will listen very carefully and even study everything the man says. If a man says that she looks good in what she wears today, she may still dress the same tomorrow, or she may dress ugly on purpose. No matter how she dresses, she is trying to attract men's attention.

4. When you know that he encounters a problem, you will always help him immediately and cheer him up.

If it is not the man she likes, no matter what problems the man encounters, women often don't pay much attention to it, and even if they do, they won't be very active. If the man she likes encounters a problem, the woman will be more anxious than the man and will think about him when she eats, drinks, or defecates.

5. Pay great attention to his whereabouts, and often ask his friends where he has been, who he went with, and what he was doing.

A woman pays so much attention to a man's whereabouts that if she doesn't have any evil intentions, then she is 100% attracted to him. Let me ask, if a woman has no feelings for him, it is none of her business where he goes, who he goes with, and what he goes for? Does she need to be so boring to inquire about it?

6. For him, dress up as beautifully as possible every day, and let him look at you as much as possible.

As the saying goes, women should look good to those who please themselves. In fact, even if a man doesn't "please" her, as long as she likes him, she will "tolerate" him. Therefore, she did not hesitate to put in a lot of effort into dressing up, hoping to make everyone love her so that the train would get a flat tire when she saw her.

7. I often talk to him, and it seems that I can’t finish talking to him no matter how much I talk to.

Everyone knows that women like to talk. No matter how heavy her heart is, as long as she talks about it, she will feel much better. However, a woman will not just talk to anyone. Except for the so-called listening experts, she will only look for the man she likes. Because in this way, the man can also know more about her and promote communication.

8. When you go out to play, tell him your whereabouts and invite him to go with you directly or indirectly.

For a man she likes, a woman not only pays attention to his whereabouts, but also wants him to pay attention to her whereabouts. Therefore, when going out to play, a woman will always tell him where she is going, who she is going with, and what she is going to do. In fact, a woman has a great purpose in doing this. She wants him to go with her.

9. Care about his food, food, housing and transportation, and be as gentle and considerate as his mother.

If it's not the man she likes, a woman doesn't need to be caring or gentle. Because women's care and tenderness are not given easily. Only when she likes a man, she will often ask him if he has eaten well, tell him not to stay up late at night, and remind him to pay attention to safety when going out.

10. Observe and study what he likes, and then actively and willingly support him.

Women observe and study men much more carefully than men observe and study women. If the man she likes likes to collect stamps, she will unexpectedly give him a few stamps that he has always wanted. If the man she likes likes to play, even if she doesn't like playing, she will go out of her way to watch him or play with him with a smile on her face. I have to say, the woman is so cute.