In our concept of love, we see a lot of statements about how to achieve perfect love, so perfect love has gradually formed something that we yearn for in our minds. So, for those of us who are already in love, in order to achieve perfect love, shouldn’t we also pay attention to what signals indicate that your love is in crisis?

Just take a look at these love crisis signals below, let us carry out perfect love to the end!

Signal 1: No more quarrels

You may think that couples who often quarrel are on the verge of divorce, but do you know? The two people who really wanted to divorce first basically stopped quarreling.

Arguing at least shows that you still have enthusiasm and the courage to communicate sincerely. And that kind of lazy, cold silence is the biggest sign of divorce. There are two types of quarrels between husband and wife: one is angry, and once the anger subsides, everything is peaceful; the other is indifferent, which is irreversible.

Signal 2: No more sweet talk

Sweet words are the lubricant of love, and many people like to use this method to ease the atmosphere after a quarrel. However, when love is in crisis, sweet words no longer exist.

The way you speak to your spouse is one of the factors that determine the harmony of your relationship. There are many ways to express a meaning, it just depends on how you say it. If you are no longer interested in sweet-talking your partner, this is a bad sign.

Signal 3: No longer disclose the relationship

You don't want to mention the other person in front of your friends, you don't want to tell strangers that you are married, you don't want to put a group photo in the living room... If you have these, you need to reflect on it at this time.

Signal 4: Unwilling to go on a long vacation together

When love is in crisis, you will find that you spend less and less time together. In terms of vacation, if you only choose a short vacation, it means that you have no intention of staying with your partner for too long. Sometimes this is also a sign of a rift in the relationship.

Three "recipes" to resolve marital crisis

1. Be honest with each other

Being honest with each other has always been an indispensable part of marriage. Be honest and honest at all times. When you feel that there is something abnormal in your marriage, couples, especially men, should take the initiative to communicate with their spouses regularly and honestly in all aspects of thoughts, emotions, etc., and resolve the unsatisfactory work and life problems that have arisen over a period of time. The twists and turns in life, the pain and sorrow in heart.

Tell your lover completely and frankly, and let the other person understand that your personality changes, your bad temper, and your worries and sorrows are not caused by her (him), but by other external reasons. Eliminate the doubts and worries between couples.

2. Avoid blaming

Criticizing each other is the most important thing between husband and wife. From many divorce cases, we have found that many couples still have feelings for each other, but many times they criticize each other because they cannot understand the words and deeds of the other party. Some even accuse the other party in front of friends and relatives, making the other party unhappy. Embarrassment intensifies and accumulates conflicts between the two parties, leading to a crisis in the marriage.

There is no right or wrong, right or wrong in marriage. In daily marriage life, both husband and wife should see more of each other's strengths and try to avoid complaining about each other, blaming each other, and intensifying conflicts. Discuss the matter on a case-by-case basis, and do not use the other party's faults and mistakes to slander the other party. This will only hurt each other's feelings even more.

3. Self-processing

Many couples have problems and make them known to everyone, which is not good. When there is a crisis between husband and wife, try to avoid involving family members or friends, especially parents of both parties. Everyone's family will be more or less partial to their children. If one parent's family does not Distinguish between right and wrong, and blindly accuse the other party indiscriminately, instead of persuading the two people how to improve the relationship. This will deeply hurt the other party's feelings. As time goes by, it can only make the gap between the husband and wife deeper and deeper, and the conflicts between the husband and wife become more and more serious. The final result can only add fuel to the fire and accelerate the breakdown of the marriage.

Therefore, when there is a crisis in the relationship, both husband and wife should face it proactively, deal with it calmly, and conscientiously eliminate the barriers to make their marriage happy and happy as before.