A woman who can’t flirt has no future! Don't make a fuss, this world belongs to "bad" women who can flirt! In the love field, the workplace, and the social field, ambiguity is productivity. The more you flirt, the more successful you are - this high-quality emotional intelligence is the new key for smart women to win the world!

Can you Flirting?

If talking about flirting directly reminds you of having sex, it only means that the current discussion of sex in society has gone too far. The bourgeoisie who coined the wonderful word "flirt" in the mid-19th century actually only regarded flirting as socializing, a polite reflexive action of "high-class beauty". This principle has been extended to this day and is actually more effective. Flirting has nothing to do with going to bed. It doesn't even belong to the small circle of love at all. It is just the "social foreplay" of smart people, which condenses high-quality emotional intelligence keywords such as humor, affinity, taste, artistry, etc.

There are also women who complain every day that "there are too many heartless people in the world" - most of these are also victims who don't know how to flirt. For them, a whistle can turn into a gangster incident; a compliment on a thigh can lead to a fight. They interpret a man's flirting as love, and if it's not, it's teasing.

The truth is that in modern flirting, no one is pursuing anyone else - they all understand that it is just a collective game of multi-dimensional existence. To put it simply, flirting is neither sex nor love. It is an "aerobic" exercise that activates interpersonal relationships. "Masters of flirting" can be confident and elegant, can be full of poems and books, and can be full of love... Among them, there is the goddess Duras who is popular in the European literary and art circles, and later there is Carrie Bradshaw of "Sex and the City".

So, stop clinging to etiquette and being a silly woman without interest. Flirting is the "basic etiquette" of the new social world: it is natural for men to be attentive, and it is normal for women to be moderately provocative. In the future, don’t be surprised when you hear diplomatic expressions such as “That sounds so sweet” or “I really want to take a bite out of you” – this may be the most appropriate dialogue at a cocktail party.

The more you flirt, the more successful you will be

The more you flirt, the more successful you will be, and the enjoyment of success can be great or small. If you chat and laugh with the clerk in the coffee shop, you may get a larger piece of cake; Madonna, on the other hand, flirted openly with men as early as the 1990s, and her "notoriety" has made her famous all over the world and made her a fortune. The bowl is full.

There is a saying called "attention economy". In the information age, everything is in excess, and only human attention is a scarce resource. Whoever attracts more attention wins.

Women are born diplomats. For example, one of the industries that belongs to "their world" - "public relations department" is a profession born in the environment of "attention economy". It cannot be said that all public relations masters are Flirt masters, but they are also traders who maximize beauty capital - using gender charm as much as possible in the workplace to make people feel happy, feel friendly, and willing to work for it.

The master of flirting in the "attention economy" is far from limited to the public relations industry. With smiles in their eyes and ambiguous words and deeds, they attract the attention of men and women, and the more they are in a place where there are many men, the more important they can play. You see, Tang Wei, who is over 30 years old and became famous in "Lust, Caution", staged the "zippergate" incident in front of the camera, allowing Ang Lee and the public to collectively "take a hot bath". That's all. After three minutes of uproar, the zipper was closed, and Tang Wei also made headlines. ——In modern world, ambiguity is productivity.

Only beautiful women flirt?

Have you ever wondered why the "bad women" who are like fairies today and attract attention are all ordinary-looking people? There is only one truth: not only the most beautiful people have the capital to play in the world! Another annotation of this sentence is: There are no ugly women, only stupid women.

Maybe you don’t have a proud bust, and your figure is not as breathtaking as Jessica Alba; maybe you don’t have an angel’s face, and your appearance is not as perfect as Michelle Reis, so you don’t expect to stand out from the crowd. ——This is absolutely wrong! The idea that women should be both talented and beautiful is outdated. The wisdom, taste, and conversation led by the mind...are the fatal attraction.

The talented and fashionable female writer in "Sex and the City" cannot be said to be beautiful. In the finale of the movie, Carrie's ordinary and even old face after taking off the costume surprised women all over the world, but at the same time, they can be happy: Because of a thoughtful character and a style that lives up to expectations, a woman can be charming with her ordinary appearance and make people completely forget her true age. And when Maggie Cheung wore a cheongsam and swayed down the narrow stairs in "In the Mood for Love", men and women were fascinated. In fact, "She is not particularly beautiful, nor is she particularly sexy, it's just that this woman is too flavorful." ".

Whether a woman receives attention and popularity has little to do with whether she is beautiful; flirting is not about wearing clothes that expose the body to the maximum extent and spraying expensive perfume to show off. A woman who can flirt can be charming in all kinds of ways, but she can be average-looking or older, but she must be full of wisdom. Therefore, instead of spending time and money on liposuction and breast augmentation and Botox injections, it is better to practice this new high-IQ game. His true ability.

New feminism is a bit "bad"

Modern women go a bit too far in their own salvation. Their world is getting bigger and bigger, they earn more and more money, their hair is cut shorter and shorter, and they are less and less dependent on men, so they are too lazy to spend time flirting. They think that since they can get an MBA, how can they do it? Can't find a man you like? But such ambitious women just look more like brothers to men. Another group of women fall into the trap of being a “good” woman. But it is obvious that even the top quality of good women, the "beautiful girl", is no longer popular. Instead, various "desirable girls" and even "evil girls" are triumphant.

So it’s time for feminism, which is charging forward, to adjust its pace and shake hands with the “badr” new-era femininity. Look through this year's Forbes Women's Power List: Merkel in a low-cut dress or Oprah with a lotus tongue, which one doesn't know how to mobilize women's advantages and increase their success weight? On the other hand, if you look at the candidates for the most frustrated list, they will definitely include the "man-like" hardliners headed by Hillary Clinton. And look at the list of new idols and muses that are becoming popular all over the world: there are no more super beauties who are silently patient and "obedient and four virtues" no matter how men cheat and act wildly; all the sweetheart idols in Hollywood have also collapsed long ago! Being deviant, winning by surprise, having a restless heart, and appealing to the public's sensory nerves... are the way to be a king today.

Modern women are increasingly aware that they may be able to climb to the top of the Empire State Building and shout to heaven that they are as strong as men - but unless men and women are biologically identical, this is actually just a lie. ! When we liberate ourselves as warriors, we inevitably lose something. So whether we are talking about the G8 summit or the impact of OPEC on Nasdaq, women can still be tender and affectionate - learn to dominate the world more sexy. What could be more feminist than this? And the question of whether to insist on being a "good" woman is superfluous, because under the tight spell of "good", an unhappy woman's heart is wrapped.

Beauty traps can win the world

If you think that only beauties can pull off honey traps, you are out of luck - what kind of skills can beauties have in using beauty traps? Besides, how can there be an ugly girl in the world?

German Chancellor Merkel is not a beauty in the traditional sense. However, looking at the tricks she used to win the election again not long ago, it is a typical "beauty trap"! Before running for the election, Merkel took the lead and resorted to a "honey trap". She changed her past dressing style of political strongmen and wore a black low-cut evening dress to attend events. The sexy image she showed that day and the size of her cleavage simply sparked an "international controversy." In response, Merkel's answer shocked the world: "It's simple, because the German Chancellor is a woman."

This is just the beginning. On the poster for the re-election campaign, it is Merkel herself. Wearing a large photo of a low-cut evening dress, and carrying a humorous and flirtatious slogan such as "We can still give more." The impression in our minds that politics and politicians are boring and sitting upright is refreshing with the stunning appearance of Merkel's beauty trap - wearing a big-breasted outfit is equally lethal, and even adds an unprecedented level of affinity. When the Iron Lady bends down in her sexy evening dress, what she shows people is not only her deep cleavage, but also her wise heart.

Carla Bruni is a beauty, but she is 40 years old. It was such a middle-aged woman who struck out in one fell swoop and used her "honey trap" that had not changed for 20 years to get Sarkozy, one of the few "men with nuclear weapons" in the world, and became the first lady of France. It is said that Bruni and Sarkozy fell in love in less than 60 minutes from the moment they first met. At the banquet where they met, Bruni ignored social etiquette and used the informal French "you" to the powerful president. Not surprisingly, Sarkozy was attracted like a "magnet" by the only beauty in this environment who "doesn't respect herself that much" and calls herself "you". This was something they could stop after 3 months. Entering the marriage hall and getting confirmed.

Winning the world in a woman’s way has a new interpretation today. Who says strong women can't pull their collars lower, reveal more of their backs, and cut their skirts higher? Being young and beautiful is not necessarily the key to winning people's hearts. It also shows that this so-called "beauty" has a higher content. The results of high-IQ flirting, whether with the public or with men, prove that "honey traps" are always more attractive than hard work: In September 2009, Merkel announced that she had been successfully re-elected as German Chancellor; It’s also clear that what Luni got was more than just a man with nuclear weapons. From a has-been model and lace artist, she has become a social celebrity and the center of the world.

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