Why do men change their minds easily? Why do extramarital affairs or third parties occur? The women all cursed "Chen Shimei", but little did they know that cursing "Chen Shimei" would not get him back. You must know that it is the nature of all human beings to like the new and dislike the old. It is precisely because we like the new and dislike the old that we have new movies, new culture, new products, new machines, new countries, new systems, new history, new world...the wheels of the times will roll forward. Since it is human nature to like the new and dislike the old. Society is developing at a rapid pace. As a woman, how can we not be eliminated by the times? How can we make a man love you and pamper you? How to make your man "can't put it down"?

1. Strengthen your own quality and keep up with the times.

Thus keeping up with your husband or boyfriend. In modern society, men's values ​​and views on family have changed a lot. A silly, obedient girl who doesn't know what's going on in the world cannot hold the heart of a strong man. From ancient times to the present. I have never heard of any famous dignified and courteous ladies who can be favored by men. However, Bao Si, Ci Xi, Da Ji, Wu Meiniang, Li Shishi, Su Xiaoxiao, Sai Jinhua, etc. all make men want to die. He is smart, witty, proficient in music, chess, calligraphy and painting, and talented.

Many public opinion polls have found that what men prefer and need is a smart, trendy and thoughtful partner. In modern society, it is no longer the wife’s job to take care of the children, cook and wash clothes, and has long been taken care of by nannies. , kindergartens, high-end hotels and restaurants have been replaced.

2. Full confidence.

Men like confident women. Confidence can turn a mediocre face into something radiant. To cultivate and protect your own charm. Charm does not come from your face. I am opposed to having a knife or a gun used on my face. I thought, I would never get plastic surgery. Nature and truth are the most beautiful. We just want to find ways to protect ourselves carefully. Slowing aging can be done. My sister called me from France and told me that she wanted to have plastic surgery. I immediately told her categorically: "If you have plastic surgery, I will never like you again. I like the way you look now. Your face is not important at all."

3. Don't lose love until you lose it. self.

This type of woman is most likely to be abandoned by men. They paid the most and lost the most. If you give everything you have to the other person as a gift, the other person will think it is too easy and will put it aside without mercy. Many of my male friends are divorced or have bad relationships and have third parties. And their wives were blameless. I asked them why? They said they didn't know either. After thinking for a long time, he answered me: Maybe I am not the one chasing you!

4. Give the other party a certain amount of freedom and enough space.

It is very important for couples to maintain a certain distance. If you suffocate men, men will hate you. Keep the other person fresh about you. If he hangs out with you all day long, one day he will feel bored. Let him do his own thing and be with you eight hours away or at night.

5. Remember that marriage is only an obligation, not a right.

Never hurt a man’s self-esteem, and always give him face! After getting married, many women regard their men as their private property. He shows off his face at every turn and throws the table. Throwing the bench, or just being angry and silent. Walking away in front of others, etc., often making noises in serious cases, and disciplining her husband in public is not gentle as a woman at all, and looks bossy. The politeness and gentleness that I had when I first fell in love were gone. His true colors were exposed. You must know that a man marries you, not sells him to you, so why should you make others angry? All people want to save face, especially men. If you don't give him face even once in public. Even if you are willing to cook for him for a year, you will not be able to make up for it. Even if you go home and argue with him, it is much better than arguing in front of others. However, it is best not to quarrel, especially not to quarrel over trivial matters. Some things should be settled at the point, and should not be ignored.

6. Adapt to the other person and don’t try to change the other person.

Remember not to talk too much. Don't be a gossip. Remember no one is perfect. The rules themselves are not perfect. Seeking common ground while reserving minor differences can get rid of the nagging women's diseases that all men hate.

7. Anyone can live without you, don’t hang yourself from a tree.

You and your husband were strangers to each other, but you became a couple by chance. The so-called "naturally matched" is just an adjective. No couple in the world is created by nature. If they are together, they will be together, if they are not, they will be separated. It is no big deal. Even if there is no carrot, the table will still be complete. The sky cannot fall. The world will not come to an end. Don't place your hopes on others. Don't hand the reins of your destiny into the hands of others, control your own destiny. This way you won’t be at a loss during times of change. Pessimistic and world-weary. It was a mess.

8. If you still want to lose him despite all your efforts, then don’t let him go.

Originally, there is such a kind of man (including women, of course) in the world, who is naturally free-spirited. A person who plays with the opposite sex to satisfy his selfish desires is not worthy of a family at all. If you are unfortunate enough to meet this kind of person, you are very unlucky. When you think you are unlucky, throw away all your illusions about him, leave him and find your new life again, and don't wait foolishly for him to change his mind. And your beautiful years are wasted for him. In this world, you must first take care of yourself. If you don't take care of yourself, then I have to tell you. No one will take care of you. Don't care too much about the age difference. You don’t necessarily have to find a man who is better than you. There is nothing better than having two people who are in perfect harmony together.

This article comes from adult.6kmall.com and is published by netizens. This site only quotes it for reference. It does not mean that this site agrees with the views of the article. If you believe that the content and intellectual property rights of this article infringe upon your interests, please contact us.