"Thirty-year-old" means that when a person is 30 years old, he should start a family, start a career, make a difference, and be able to face all difficulties calmly.

The popular saying of "the seven-year itch" is a turning point in a relationship. After being married for a long time, the novelty is lost. As a result, fatigue or boredom brings the marriage into a "bottleneck". If no effective method can be chosen, the marriage may end.

I would like to ask: What do men in their thirties think about marriage and happiness?

In my opinion, being able to marry a good wife is the most important thing in a man’s life. The greatest blessing.

"Good wife" and "good woman" are actually very vague terms. How does each man define "good" in his heart? Indeed, he has his own standards, and there are tens of thousands of disputes. I'm afraid Only the public generally agrees: "The suitable one is the best."

1. I recall that I really didn’t know why I wanted to marry a wife.

I have always thought that I was not a fool, but I just couldn’t figure out why I married a wife back then. Frankly speaking, when I was in love, I really liked many girls. I loved and was loved. It seemed that I worked hard, got excited, depressed, and cried like everyone else. It's a pity that it seems that no one is destined to have a perfect ending with his first love. Obviously, the difference between marriage and love is "conditional relationship"? Maybe there is no relationship at all. Anyway, the person you get married is not necessarily the one you love; those who love you cannot live together for a long time. As a result, many people are confused and marry their wives in the process of dating for N times, but they don’t know why they are getting married? Is it to complete tasks for their parents? Or is it just to follow the crowd and "blindly follow the herd"?

Good times should be said to be the result of hard work between the couple. No woman is born to be able to "run a house". Of course, a daughter-in-law with a good tutor will make faster progress as a daughter-in-law, while a woman who is lazy and lazy will simply "spend the family." "Being poor while living rich" and "being rich while living poor" are largely related to women's financial management habits. For example, if you have a daughter-in-law who has little potential, and if you have noodles every day at home, and rice and rice, can you really not know how to eat them together? How can men not suffer! I suggest that when some women complain that men "get less", You also need to consider whether "you spend too much". Regarding the issue of "cutting off sources" and "opening up flow", we can only advocate that if you don't have the ability to "open up flow", you must learn to "cut down on sources", and it is especially taboo to "muddle along" in life. A good life does not mean "you can get drunk today if you have wine today, but you will have no money to drink cold water tomorrow".

3. Women are easily spoiled.

Almost all women have a kind of laziness lurking - "reliance", and men are naturally a pair of shoulders. Many times, when there is no pampering from men, women often habitually pamper themselves. I really worry that some women are spoiled. It is better to rely on oneself than relying on heaven and earth. It is actually very important for women to be independent.

4. Every man is selfish.

It is a common problem for all men to eat from the bowl and think about the pot. However, women after getting married have some self-restraint in this regard. When it comes to cheating, regardless of the factors, it is irresponsible for the marriage. Every man is selfish. He thinks of ways to make a fortune outside, but does not allow his wife to sneak a sip of soup at home. In fact, many women are quite self-disciplined.

In short, being able to marry a good wife is a man’s blessing in life.

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