In this era where urban women advocate the freedom of being single, marriage seems to have become optional for many independent women. Especially for some women over thirty, even if they are single, they can still live their lives happily. Many of them can even be like men and care about pursuing women, or they can be happy-go-lucky and care about others. With a demanding attitude, you can truly and calmly manage the love and opportunities in your life.

So some men will say: 30-year-old women are the most suitable to fall in love with, but not suitable for marriage. First: they have an acquired disadvantage in raising offspring. Second, they are very shrewd and thorough. Third, they have experienced too many and complicated things, and they are not as simple as my little sister. This reminds me of something. One day I accidentally watched the Mango TV program "Let's Date": a girl born in the 1990s and a successful divorced man in his late 40s who has three children can develop a good impression of each other and it can go smoothly. The date was so amazing that several female guests in their 30s showed unprecedented knowing smiles.

Perhaps the true nature of life is like this. This man who was nearly 40 years old and once lost 4 million because of gambling. The man who once ignored the feelings of his wife and children because of gambling, in the end because of gambling, he changed from a prodigal to a man with a house and a car. A man in the company is not favored by women in the first half of his life, but his fame and fortune in the second half of his life will naturally be favored by women. Even the female guests present had a strong interest in him because of his background, and this man also made a smart choice. Among all the female guests, the youngest born in the 1990s, his words after a successful date were: "My family members They are all kind, and I will respect anyone who respects me. Of course, everyone knows the next sentence. The most important factor for rich men to choose women who are much younger than themselves is that they do not need women to have many ideas and be easy to manage. And this This is the purpose of a man holding hands with a girl born in the 1990s.

If a man who is over 30 and still struggling with his RV wants to find a wife with good conditions, how difficult will the road ahead be for him? Especially in this real society, a person's birth determines many unequal factors. Those who are lucky can jump out of the farm gate, while those who are unlucky basically live like that for the rest of their lives. For ordinary working-class men, if they want to live in big cities. Buying a car and a house is also a luxury. This luxury also determines their limitations and sadness in choosing women. When a person has no choice about marriage due to the pressure of life, he can only give in, let alone choose. The woman he wants to pursue. The reason why there are highly educated men in today's Chinese society who collapse and kill because of the pressure of life is a tragedy of unfair distribution in the patriarchal society and the beginning of these men's sad lives.

So when many men who have nowhere to vent their pressures in life scold today’s women online for being useless and demanding, isn’t he scolding himself for being incompetent? Because whether in marriage or love, women like men and men like them. Women all need to look at the conditions. Women will like men with good conditions. First, it proves that the man is very hardworking. Second, men with good conditions are more confident and less inferior and world-weary than men with poor conditions. : Men with good conditions are more generous and give women a sense of belonging and security. Therefore, women's liking for rich men is also a sign of a man's ability. In these days, there is no shortage of money, and it is okay for women to like rich men. Wrong? When a man has time to scold a woman for being poor and loving the rich, he might as well encourage himself to work harder to make money.

Similarly, men like beautiful women, and women who are young, beautiful, smart, and have a clean family background. When women angrily scold Chinese men for only liking little girls, we can also find it in men chasing little girls. Another kind of tragedy is that many grown men in their 30s spend huge sums of money to pursue a younger sister, but in the end, the younger sister becomes someone else's wife.

When a man self-righteously thinks that his little sister is very simple and doesn’t understand anything, he is defeated by his little sister in many battles with him. In fact, it’s not that these little girls don’t understand anything. It’s not because you brag about your connections and power in front of your little girls that they will truly look up to you and admire you. In fact, they know more about the game between you than you. If they don't talk about the "youth and money" transaction, it doesn't mean they don't know about it, but it depends on whether they are willing to pretend to admire you in exchange for another life.

In these days, whether they are young men or old men, whether they are rich or poor men, the requirements for Chinese women are still young and beautiful. This alone is a kind of Sadness, and the biggest reason for this sadness is the compensatory psychology in men's hearts. If a man lacks nothing, when he starts to look for youth and excitement in his younger sister, his life will still be a failure.

Perhaps at some point a man has lower requirements than women and simpler requirements than women. No matter how arrogant he is, when he is looking for a woman, he will still find the woman who understands him best and gives him the most love and warmth. A woman, the woman who gives him the most freedom and space. Because he knew how to read, Tony Leung would marry Carina Lau, and because of his spiritual conversion, Nicholas Tse forgave Cecilia Cheung.

In fact, men are not complicated or bad. It’s just that the helplessness of life has made them labeled too many bad guys. Just like men and women living together, it seems that women are the ones who suffer. How many people know about men’s efforts? It’s just that public opinion has always been in favor of women! Of course, it is also difficult for women. They spend a lot of time to stay strong and live like a man. The purpose is to make themselves better. They try to find a good man, but in the end they find that a good man would rather be deceived by a little girl than find a peer. , after all, it is also the sorrow of male chauvinism in the bones of men. They know that the relationship of youth material trading is unreliable, but they will not have a romantic wedding of 38-year-old Jang Dong-gun to marry 38-year-old Gao Xiaoying? Isn’t this determined by China’s national conditions?

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