What gender issues are men and women considering? From the age of 20 to 30, and then to the age of forty, and then into the age of 50, men and women have different physiological and psychological differences, and their experiences of sexual relations and married life are also very different.

20——29 years old

Young, competitive and energetic, boys in their 20s always want to prove that they are men. However, there are inevitably traces of immaturity and impetuousness in them. 20-year-old men have not had enough fun. They are more willing to accept short-lived love and are unwilling to learn to stay together for a long time too early. Therefore, they are more willing to experience the most fashionable relationships between the sexes, such as one-night stands, online dating, etc.

Problem 1: Addicted to lust

Scene: Although he knows that being addicted to pornographic websites is harmful to his body and mind, Ajian just can't control himself. When he comes home from work every day, he locks the door and browses pornographic websites.

Expert Tips: Beware of getting sick if you are too addicted to pornographic websites! This is not sensational. According to a clinical statistics from men's department, long-term addiction may cause prostatitis, epididymitis and azoospermia! To "quit addiction", you must first consciously remind yourself, consciously resist unhealthy websites, and focus your energy on study, work and other colorful activities. If the situation is serious, the bad mood may have caused biochemical changes in the brain, which cannot be improved simply by psychological adjustment. You must seek help from a psychological specialist for various clinical examinations and targeted treatment.

Problem 2: No sexual interest

Scene: The married life of a couple has somehow become more and more difficult for Ms. Ji to invest in. Every time her husband's "routine" happens, she feels helpless and disappointed. The romantic passion of the newlyweds and the sweetness of the sex life are unknown to her. Unconsciously, it gradually goes away.

Expert’s Tips: A married couple will only feel bored and numb if they live a static life. Bring interest into your marriage and you will feel that life becomes wonderful. Friendly caresses, erotic massages, candlelight dinners, placing some flowers in the bedroom, or lighting plant-scented candles, the romantic atmosphere is suitable for both men and women. The atmosphere of trying more different methods can make you mentally happy and improve your "sexuality".

40——49 years old

As the saying goes, "A man has forty-one hurdles," and you may enter menopause after the age of 45. Entering this age group, many men are struck down by unexpected physical weakness and loss of sexual desire. In order to prove that they are "still young", they sometimes engage in extramarital affairs to reduce their frustration.