Today, let's talk about the most beloved daughter -in -law's daughter -in -law. Daughters-in-law, if you are interested, come over and see if you are such a wife. If not, why not? If so, everyone is happy.

1. Let’s not talk about filial piety or not, but at least know how to respect.

If you are very filial, of course it is good. However, the reality is less optimistic. For many parents-in-law, a filial daughter-in-law is hard to come by. Okay, let’s not talk about filial piety or not. At the very least, you should know how to respect it. Respect the daily life of the in-laws, respect the self-choices of the in-laws, respect the psychological space of the in-laws, and respect what should be respected. Seeing that you are respected, your parents-in-law will also respect you and pamper you.

2. Be able to do housework, even if it is rarely done.

These days, there are fewer and fewer daughters-in-law doing housework, but more and more parents-in-law doing housework. The father-in-law and mother-in-law became the nanny, cooking food for the whole family, washing and clothing the whole family, cleaning the house, watering and growing flowers for the whole family, and doing all kinds of things for the whole family. Where is the wife? She is more leisurely than the princess, and even bosses around her father-in-law and mother-in-law.

Actually, it’s not a big deal for the daughter-in-law to do less housework, because the parents-in-law are willing. However, if you don't do any housework or can't do it, the problem will be big. My father-in-law and mother-in-law will definitely think like this: One day we will be gone, can such a daughter-in-law take care of this family?

3. Have your own job and don’t take advantage of your husband.

As a man, you should work hard and take care of your family. The same goes for being a woman. When your husband brings you home, he doesn’t want you to open your mouth and stretch out your hands without moving your body or fingers. Even if your husband agrees with you and has the ability to let you do this, you'd better not do this. Because my parents-in-law don’t like it.

The husband is their son, and it will make them feel bad for their son to struggle alone. As a daughter-in-law, you should work hand in hand with your husband and at least have a job of your own, no matter how good or bad the job is. How can a woman always be a spoilsport for her husband?

4. Love your husband well and cherish the happiness of love, marriage and family.

It is natural to love your husband well. Could it be that the purpose of marrying a wife is to make her fall in love with another man? However, the increasing divorce rate in China fully proves the seriousness of the problem between daughters-in-law and husbands. Of course, the responsibility lies with both parties. However, in the minds of the parents-in-law, the daughter-in-law must do well first.

You can’t mess with flowers, you can’t be flirtatious, and you can’t let yourself go out of your way. You must treat your husband sincerely, take good care of your husband, be loyal and loving to your husband, and cherish your love, marriage and family.

5. Be friendly to neighbors and avoid making enemies.

As long as it is a family, there must be neighbors, whether they are near or far. Living harmoniously with your neighbors is an enjoyable part of the family life. The daughter-in-law is the important social host of the family and must handle the relationship with her neighbors well. If a daughter-in-law is an enemy of her neighbors, it will not only be unpleasant for the neighbors, not just the daughter-in-law, but also the parents-in-law. In other words, the daughter-in-law is the representative of the entire family and cannot be careless.

6. Pay attention to your behavior and image, and don’t embarrass everyone.

Daughter-in-law, remember: in the same family, we share weal and woe. Therefore, you have to pay great attention to your behavior and image. You can’t have unkempt hair, disheveled clothes, or too fancy clothes. You can’t be rude in your hands, feet, words, despicable, or too presumptuous. Anyway, we can’t embarrass everyone. If you behave too much, others will definitely talk about your father-in-law's name and say, their daughter-in-law is really shameful.

7. Be friends with your children and don’t beat or scold them casually.

If you don’t have children, you can ignore this. However, there probably aren’t many people who don’t have children. If there are no children, my father-in-law and mother-in-law will definitely be dissatisfied. If you have children, you must treat them well, otherwise your parents-in-law will not be satisfied. If you beat and scold your children all day long, making them chirp and chirp, how can your parents pamper you? Therefore, it is better to be friends with your children. It is understandable to be strict, but do not beat or scold them casually.

8. Don’t go to your parents’ house every two days or speak ill of your parents-in-law.

Being married means having two families. One is the natal family and the other is the husband’s family. Both families are equally important and cannot be biased. However, in reality, there are very few people who are not biased, and most of them favor the mother's family over the mother-in-law's family. Originally, it wasn't a big deal to go to my parents' house in my free time. It was just to spend time with my parents. However, it would be a bit unreasonable to run to her parents' house every three days. Others must be very puzzled when they see it, thinking that it is not easy to stay in the husband's house. To say the least, it's not a big deal, just run if you like. However, never speak ill of your parents-in-law in your natal family. Many daughters-in-law make this stupid mistake, thinking that their parents-in-law cannot hear them. In fact, if bad words travel thousands of miles, even the deafest parents will eventually hear them. As a result, family war ensues.

9. Financially, don’t argue with your father-in-law and mother-in-law.

The reason why many daughters-in-law quarrel or even fight with their parents-in-law is because of one fundamental reason: money. To put it politely, it’s called economics. In terms of economic power, how should we divide it between our father-in-law and our mother-in-law? Every daughter-in-law is thinking about it day and night. Actually, do This article comes from adult.6kmall.com and is published by netizens. This site only quotes it for reference. It does not mean that this site agrees with the views of the article. If you believe that the content and intellectual property rights of this article infringe upon your interests, please contact us.