1. Don’t force your partner to have sex.

There are certain differences in the sexual abilities of men and women, and individual sexual abilities will also decline with age. This is a natural law. Of course, sexual desire is also affected by work, emotion, health, etc. There are differences in sexual desire between men and women. It always exists, so you cannot ask your partner to be consistent, otherwise the intercourse may become mechanical and the "sexual interest" will be lost over time.

2. Don’t have sex too regularly and rigidly.

Sex life is too regular and becomes a "system", with regular, quantitative, fixed points, etc. Too rigid time or sexual intercourse will make the sex life lifeless, low in excitement, and even make the partner feel Boredom, feeling that sex is a kind of coping between husband and wife, and it is easy for partners to feel nervous and depressed about sex.

3. Don’t joke about sex too often.

There will always be sexual signals during sexual intercourse between husband and wife, and the other party should respond positively. Joking a little during sex can also add fun, but it must be moderate. For example, if you often send out inappropriate signals during sexual intercourse, it will be like Like "the boy who cried wolf", when there is a real request for sex, the partner may misunderstand it as a joke and ignore it, causing conflicts and leaving no trace of love.

4. There is no need to take a bath after sex.

The hygiene of reproductive organs is very important. Both husband and wife should clean their external genitals before sexual intercourse. For example, if they have sex just after taking a bath, simply clean them. However, you have your own opinions on sex. Always Rushing into the bathroom or asking your partner to wash off immediately afterward may cause a lot of unhappiness. The lack of "post-sex fun" will also affect the quality of sex.

5. Don’t seek too much for novelty and difference in sex.

The sexual life of couples has become more lively in today's open world. Many people have seen "Category III movies" or books describing the details of sexual life. They will inevitably want to try it, which may make their sexual life more lively. More fun and happier. However, we need to pay attention to the differences in sexual concepts between husband and wife. If it is difficult for your partner to accept this, you should try to stay consistent or adopt a gradual and excessive approach to change slowly. Otherwise, your partner will definitely be worried, confused and even unhappy. "Good intentions" Instead, they do bad things.”

6. The woman will not have an orgasm every time.

In recent years, there have been many articles introducing female orgasm, which makes both men and women want women to have orgasms frequently, or one-sidedly pursue the so-called orgasm effect. This is unrealistic. Experts point out that, Female orgasm is affected by many factors, so sexual intercourse between husband and wife: as long as you feel satisfied and happy, psychological pleasure is the most important.

Everything has a limit, and sex life is no exception. Pay attention to the above aspects, and then think about whether there are other situations that make sexual partners feel excessive. If so, change them. Let sex become a burden and keep the husband and wife harmonious and the family happy.