1. Career is always the most important;

Someone once said that whether a man is mature or not depends first on his attitude towards his career. Most mature men will put their career in the most important position, which exceeds marriage and love. The reason why they have this mentality is because they all have a desire for self-worth. This desire is the possession of wealth and power, and the emotional need to control and be appreciated. Liu Bei said, "Women are clothes, brothers are like clothes." "Brotherhood" feeling!

2. I am used to freedom and do not want to be bound by marriage;

Marriage means responsibilities, and most responsibilities are borne at the expense of personal freedom. Therefore, for a mature man who has been accustomed to living alone for most of his life, he is absolutely unwilling to accept the shackles of marriage easily unless it is absolutely necessary. In their eyes, freedom is life and the driving force of life. Even if it is for the woman he loves, he will not give up freedom and enter marriage against his will.

3. Too much emphasis on taste, rather than excess;

Most men with successful careers and mature minds have their own unique taste in looking at and handling things. The same goes for women and their choice of marriage. They will not fall in love with a woman easily. Even if they fall in love, they will not necessarily find a time to marry into the family hastily. They like to do things according to their own tastes and plans. Even if the timing and taste are slightly wrong, they will not choose to compromise, but would rather miss out and be missing than make do and take risks.

4. Having experienced too much, one has little confidence in marriage;

In today's society, the more people experience, the less confidence they have in marriage. Because they see too much, hear too much, feel and realize too much. In their view, since marriage is less and less able to give people freedom and happiness, why are they still trying desperately to get into the besieged city of marriage? For mature people, they can completely control themselves.

5. Not getting married is also a state of existence that is understandable;

With all due respect to The Sky Is Always Blue, our current marriage is far from what it was before. Perhaps marriage is more of just a piece of paper, and there is basically no big difference between before and after marriage. Things that can be done after marriage can still be done before marriage. On the contrary, things that can be done before marriage cannot be done casually after marriage. Therefore, based on society's infinite tolerance for sexual relations, more and more people have regarded non-marriage as a normal living state. The benefits of this living state are happiness and freedom.

6. There is really too little time for marriage.

I have a friend who is in his early forties. His career and intelligence are outstanding, but he still refuses to get married. Whenever there were many enthusiastic friends around him who mentioned marriage issues to him, the most common answer he gave was: "Originally, one person's time is not enough. If there are one or two more people, they have to share it with me." I really can’t imagine it!” In fact, this is also true. Marriage is not simply about getting a marriage certificate and sleeping together, but more often requires spending time and energy to communicate, appreciate and manage. , If you can't do this, if you can't fulfill this responsibility, it's really not as good as living alone.