According to a survey by the United Nations Health Organization: In the past 10 years, the number of singles in the world has tripled. Among people over the age of 25, there are 1.25 billion singles worldwide. A related survey in China also showed that China's marriage market has entered the "leftover" era, in which "leftover women" are under greater social pressure than "leftover men." Leftover women are coming in large numbers, alone, and their "sexual well-being" has become a social issue. Sexual life is a woman's normal physiological need. If she is in a state of sexual inhibition for a long time, it will bring about a series of serious physiological problems. Dear sisters, we cannot fight against the sky or the earth, but we cannot fight against our own bodies. Love can be absent occasionally, but sexual happiness cannot. Because the body is our own.

★Leftover women level:

Leftover women aged 25-27 years old. These people still have the courage to continue to struggle to find a partner, so they are called "leftover fighters";

Mid-level leftover women aged 28-30, there are not many opportunities for them at this time, and they have no time to look for it because of their career, so they are nicknamed "the must-have guests";

High-end leftover women aged 31-35, in the cruel world Surviving the struggle in the workplace and still being single is revered as the "Fighting Leftover Buddha";

Super leftover women over the age of 35 are revered as "The Great Leftover".

★Leftover women take action

The period of sexual inactivity does not mean the asexual period, and not having a boyfriend does not mean that you must stay away from sex. We are definitely not trying to teach you to be a bad woman, but we think there is really no need for you to suppress your desires and live with your own needs. Don't let your leftover girl era become a pitiful sexless era.

The remaining fighter: Sansan

Leo Cashier

Interview: Editor Qing Qian

A year ago, her boyfriend contracted a sexually transmitted disease when she hired an escort while she was on a business trip, and unfortunately passed it on to her. She was deeply hurt by that incident. She has been afraid of sex ever since. By chance, she discovered a fun online sex store, and a little yellow duck with a vibrating egg attracted her deeply. Sansan couldn't help but buy one. Unexpectedly, it was quite useful, and she has been using it regularly ever since. Visit an online sex store. Now, she often buys kawaii-style sex toys for her female friends. She said that the shape of sex toys must be cute, so as to fit the euphemistic and reserved character of women. At this point, she suddenly took out an egg-shaped keychain, shook it proudly and said: Can you imagine this is a vibrating egg?

Sansan’s thoughtful advice: You must pay attention to hygiene before using sex toys. Quality is also a big issue. There are not just one or two reports about vibrators getting stuck in the vagina. In addition, don’t rely too much on sex toys. If there is a man who is attractive enough and willing to treat you well, then his role is definitely better than sex toys. When visiting sex shops, take the time to pay attention to men.

The must-have customer: Tian Yuan

Virgo company staff

Interview: Editor Qing Qian

Tian Yuan and her boyfriend have known each other since they were 20 years old They were in love and lived together for seven years. The reason for their breakup was simple: they no longer loved each other.

But a seven-year relationship can be broken off just by saying goodbye? After the breakup, Tianyuan and her boyfriend still maintained a good relationship because they had many friends in common and had more opportunities to meet. Once, they went to a friend's wedding together. Tian Yuan drank too much, so her ex-boyfriend took the initiative to send her home. The night was great and naturally, they got into bed. Afterwards, they both felt wonderful. There was no emotional involvement, no responsibility for each other, and no worries. From this, they suddenly thought that it would be good to have a physical date once in a while.

Tianyuan’s thoughtful suggestion: EX (ex-boyfriend) also has this function, which I didn’t expect. Very few people are so determined that they never have any contact with their ex. For most leftover women, even if they are left now, they still had an ex a long time ago or not long ago. So, why not come to ONS with EX once in a while? But the purpose should be simple, don't expect the old relationship to rekindle, and don't ask too much about his current situation. Even if you kill him, don't ask him whether he still loves you. When the hormones are released, saying goodbye casually is the best ending.

Fighting the Remaining Buddha: Xie Ning

Sagittarius Freelance Writer

Interview: Editor Qing Qian

From the appearance, she may She always wears jeans and sneakers, but she always wears beautiful and decent underwear, and Durex is never missing from her handbag. "You never know which handsome guy you will be in bed with in the next second." No, she is definitely not a pervert. On the contrary, she takes every romantic encounter seriously. She enjoys sex and thinks it is wonderful. "I know you misunderstood. Not every adventure will lead to an affair. Not every affair ends in bed."

"I like romance, but that doesn't mean I want to sleep with a man at any time. Only when I love you very much will I give my body to you. This is my limit. Sometimes I know that we will never see each other again, but I just don’t want to leave any regrets." Xie Ning said this with a calm and beautiful expression. , for Xie Ning, a love can only be remembered unforgettably once it has been delivered to the body, that you have loved it before.

Xie Ning’s thoughtful advice: Always look forward to a romantic encounter, but also be prepared to separate at any time. The first half is beautiful, the second half is sad. This requires some practice. After all, not everyone can endure the pain of a long separation after the joy. Some people envy me that I can float around like the wind, but I really envy those girls who can settle down and stay with the man they love until they grow old. Maybe this is the imperfection of life.

★The "Sexual Cultivation" of Leftover Women

1. Face your own sexual requirements. Girl, don’t stick your orchid fingers up there and say, I don’t need sex, I never have sexual urges. This can only mean that you don’t know yourself very well. You are inexplicably irritable, feeling depressed and uncomfortable, and want to find an outlet. How could you know that it’s not hormones that are to blame?

2. Try not to be a mistress. We do not rule out the possibility of mistresses becoming regular employees. The fact is that more mistresses become fast food for others and are laughed at for being childish.

3. Respect each other’s sexual feelings. Even if you have tested countless men, do not underestimate his sexual ability. Express care and love to him in the best way, share sexual experiences, keep sexual secrets between two people, and do not talk about certain things with sisters without scruples. How long can a man maintain? Respecting others means respecting yourself.

4. Don’t simply choose people based on their sex. No matter what the reason for being left behind is, a sexual relationship with an emotional basis is more likely to satisfy women psychologically and physically.

5. Necessary fortification. If you are not the person you like, don't have dinner with him alone. If you are not ready to have sex with him, don't agree to go to his place for a sit-down. A woman always has the right to say no, but she has to say no politely.

6. Durex is not only used for contraception, but also for preventing sexually transmitted diseases. Although the reason is simple, there are always sisters who foolishly make concessions and have to go to the gynecologist. You can have sex, the principle is, wear a condom, regardless of whether he has been sterilized or not, and whether you have had a ring inserted.

★Editor's statement:

Everyone has the right to enjoy sexual happiness. Sex is not a gift of love. Although sex based on love is much more romantic, When there is no nourishment of love, there is no need to give up the right to enjoy physical pleasure at the same time. No matter which method you choose to solve it, only by facing up to your physical needs and mental health can you be a smart contemporary woman. Of course, you must remember to protect yourself at all times, not just physically, but mentally and reputationally. In the Internet age, all kinds of "doors" are rampant. No matter how the handsome guy who sleeps with you says he loves you, you must remember that we love love, and we must have no worries.

Let us shout out our slogan: Love is absent, sex is justified.

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