Most dreams related to love are sweet, but if the lover in the dream looks like a boss or a good sister, what should people do? In addition to providing explanations from the perspective of sexual psychology, can erotic dreams also provide guidance for the broader reality of "life"?

Most people have had interesting erotic dreams. No matter how good your relationship is with your partner and how perfect your sex life is, you're going to have the odd erotic dream at some point. The male protagonist may be a sexy neighbor, or a man that a sister loves, and sometimes he becomes his boss or even his best friend in real life. While you are still dreaming, you can enjoy that feeling; but once you wake up from this deceptive fantasy, you will immediately be enveloped by a sense of guilt - especially when you see your boyfriend just lying there. Be by your side.

In fact, dreams do not always reflect reality truthfully. They can sometimes become unbelievable and even bring to the forefront the things you most try to avoid. But don't worry, you don't really want to push the nationally famous billionaire over the conference table and have a row with him. The meaning of this kind of dream is more about career than passion, so you don't need to be anxious about it. Why not let us uncover the secrets of erotic dreams together.

Scenario 1: Making out in public

In real life you are obviously a shy person, and some things would rather be done in the dark with the lights off. But in the blink of an eye, you are in a dream, and you are actually making out with your lover on a busy street with people coming and going, and the curious gazes of the people around you no longer make you feel any discomfort.

In fact: You want to make a part of your life public. Perhaps you are worried that your relationship with him will not be recognized, and you are eager to make your relationship public. Maybe you feel that others are pointing fingers at you behind your back and spreading rumors. And when such a dream appears, the most likely reason is that you are worried that the person you are dating will not be accepted and recognized by everyone.

Wake up: you should face the "secret" head on. In the past, you were either afraid of not getting approval from others, or you wanted to leave some space for yourself, but in fact, subconsciously, you still wanted to make everything clear.

Scene 2: With the boss Yun Yu

This sounds scary, but surprisingly it happens quite often. As a result, you didn't dare to look at your boss's face for a whole week. Once you saw him, you thought of the two of you lingering on the table. Of course, you couldn't help but blush, ears, and heartbeat speed up.

In fact: this type of dream does not mean that you have a crush on your boss, but it means that you hope to be as successful as him/her. "It indicates the formation of a close working relationship between you and your boss," says dream interpreter Libby Pelham. "It may also mean that you desire power." Having sex is a shortcut to developing an intimate relationship, so such a dream expresses your proximity to the source of power. desire. Another explanation is that you want your talents to be recognized.

Wake up: Make a list of what your boss represents to you and what needs he or she can meet for you. Make an appointment with him/her to discuss promotions, salary increases, or some of your ideas. (Be sure to forget the passion in the elevator in your dream when you meet.)

Scene 3: Good sisters become lovers

First of all, you are not a lesbian. However, the person who is with you in the dream is the good sister who grew up together! What exactly is going on? Why on earth do you dream about being passionate in bed with her?

In fact: You are seeking support from your peers while feeling internally lacking some of the benefits that come with same-sex friendships. If you only deal with men at work, have few opportunities to meet good friends, or have not been able to talk to her about your inner feelings recently, you will have such a dream. It may also mean that you wish you were more like that sister. "This kind of dream usually means that you admire certain personal qualities in the other person," explains Pelham. "You want to emulate them, or you like men with similar qualities."

Wake up: Try it Make time for your friends. Even if you're so busy that your plans for a get-together can only be put on hold for now, don't forget that you still need her (just in a different way).

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Scene 4: Falling in love with a big star

Everything depends on who he is. There is no doubt that Brad Pitt is sexy, but dreaming about Mr. Bean is a bit confusing. In fact, there is nothing unreasonable - this kind of dream does not mean that you are eager to have physical contact with male celebrities.

In fact: it implies that you are eager to live out your celebrity addiction. If it were George Clooney, you might expect security, money, and the feeling of being cared for by a powerful man. Dreaming about Madonna means that you admire her confidence and sexiness. "Maybe you're attracted to them, but maybe you secretly want to be the center of attention," Pelham reveals. "In a nutshell, you want attention and charisma."

Scenario 5: Transforming into a sexy porn star

Your sex life is smooth sailing, but in your dreams you are changing into various tricks that you dare not try - no matter what they are , even if just a thought flashes through your mind when you are awake, your face will be as red as a cooked lobster.

In fact: the occurrence of this situation shows that subconsciously you desire a more exciting life. Maybe your relationship with your lover has lost its original passion, or you are strongly looking forward to a more unrestrained sex life. "A lot of erotic dreams can't be taken at face value, but dreams like this one can," says Pelham. "Thinking about things you wouldn't normally try means you're ready to take a deeper dive into your sensuality. Dreaming about those flowers This gives your subconscious a chance to introduce them to your conscious mind to see if they are acceptable. "

Wake up: Take a good look at your sex life and ask yourself if you're tired of it. , and why we get bored. If your relationship does come to an end, it's time to face reality. And if the routine of having sex makes you tired, you can make a list and play some new tricks to spice up your love.

Scene 6: Having sex with your best friend’s boyfriend

Dreaming about having sex with your best friend’s boyfriend is simply digging your own grave! You'll be stung by guilt, and feel a twinge of panic whenever you see your best friend's face...but does that mean you're envious or even jealous of the things your best friend has? Or is your sneaky heart trying to tell you something else?

In fact: Unless you are really planning to steal your friend's boyfriend, such a dream does not mean that you are planning to poach her. It just means that you are deeply attracted to a certain part of this man's personality. "The dream itself is kind of disgusting, but it's actually beneficial," Pelham explains. "You dream about him because he represents a certain quality that you admire. This quality may be physical or mental. . If you are in a relationship yourself, you may want similar qualities in your partner. "

Wake up: Once you figure out what it is about him that attracts you - Whether it's his mannerisms, his sense of humor, or his looks - you can start looking for similar qualities in others. It's not him you want, and the dream about him is just an inspiration. Of course, it definitely doesn’t inspire you to actually become a third party.

Scene 7: A good horse turns back to eat grass

What is that heartless man doing in your bed again? If you miss him, that's even worse - shouldn't you have broken up in the first place? Dreams about your ex-boyfriend are always upsetting—either you wish you'd never see him again, or you fantasize about still being with him.

Fact: Although you may miss him sometimes, more often than not you dream about him because you have unresolved issues. You want closure. Maybe it's about something unsaid, regret, or hidden anger, but this type of erotic dream hints at your desire to contact him. "You don't necessarily miss him, but because of the emotions he arouses in your heart."

Wake up: If you really need to apologize or want to wish him well, then contact him ——But don’t hide your selfish intentions, especially when the other person already has someone else.

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