When almost everyone hears the word "affair", the first thing that comes to mind is the man. If they are a couple, it naturally refers to the husband.

It is generally believed that men have many affairs. Among people in the literary and artistic circles or athletes, the decisive factor for some couples or lovers to part ways is that the man has an affair. In contrast, there are few examples of breakups because the woman Hongxing cheated on her. As is well known, the ratio of men to women having affairs is 3 to 1, or 5 to 1.

So, why do men have affairs? Especially as a husband, is it easier for a man to flirt with women? Junichi Watanabe launched an analysis.

Men’s physical strength is declining

First of all, from the perspective of men’s physiological characteristics, as mentioned above, men’s pleasure has been awakened since adolescence, and this pleasure actually occurs on a consistent basis. a slow downward trend. Specifically, men suddenly begin to awaken their sexual consciousness around the age of 15. After the age of 15, almost all men can experience a kind of intoxicating pleasure, and when they have sex with the opposite sex for the first time, the pleasure reaches the extreme. , men are greatly satisfied both physically and psychologically.

Compared with men who can get pleasure for the first time, women’s first sexual experience is accompanied by a lot of uneasiness and timidity. Even if the object is a man they like, women can hardly enjoy pleasure. However, as the number of sexual intercourse increases, women's uneasiness and pain gradually disappear, and they gradually begin to feel sexual pleasure. When sexual experience accumulates to a certain extent, they eventually reach climax. Especially for married women, their sexual pleasure is further enhanced after pregnancy and childbirth.

I once observed a pair of men and women. The man felt the most intense pleasure when he first made love, and then his pleasure gradually decreased, showing a downward curve. In contrast, the pleasure a woman feels during sexual intercourse is extremely weak for the first time, but will gradually increase in intensity afterward, showing an upward curve.

How long will it take for the downward curve of male pleasure and the upward curve of female pleasure to cross after a relationship between a man and a woman occurs? The circumstances vary from case to case, but it is an indisputable fact that there will always be a crossover at some point in time.

Men's love relies on comparison

There is another reason why men are prone to having affairs that deserves consideration, which is what should be called "men's plural tendency in love."

Specifically, it means that a man can love a woman and at the same time turn his attention to other women. Men can be said to be a passionate and uncertain animal.

On this point, women are completely different. If a woman is currently in love with man A, then she will only have man A in her eyes, and then by some chance, she will fall in love with man B again. Man, then everything about A will be completely forgotten, and all her thoughts will be focused on B again.

In other words, women’s love is concentrated. Compared with women's "all or nothing" approach, men are animals who can fall in love with multiple women at the same time.

Therefore, even if a man says to a woman in love: "You are my favorite", what he means is only the word "first favorite", and there may be other words such as second favorite and third favorite. I like it, it’s not too much to understand it this way.

It can be seen that if women’s love is called concentrated, then men’s love can be called comparative.

In short, men will not focus on one point. They will constantly look around and are always interested in new things. Therefore, men can be said to be careless and prone to having affairs. animal.

Of course, there are men who do not flirt with women and are not interested in the women around them; on the contrary, among women, there are also women who constantly turn their attention to other men's playfulness. But these can only be said to be some exceptions, a minority. It is an indisputable fact that most men, compared to women, have a plurality tendency to have extramarital affairs.

Most of the women who cheat on themselves are because they don’t have anyone they really like, so they float in mid-air. If there is a man they really like, many women will be surprised. down to earth.

In short, men’s plural tendency in love, coupled with the gradual weakening of men’s sexual pleasure as the frequency of sex increases, are two major characteristics of men’s sexual performance. We can be sure that this is also true. This is why men are more likely to have affairs than women.

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Men are more likely to "return"

The above analyzes the husband's occurrence from both physical and mental aspects. Reasons for extramarital affairs: Many women may feel sincerely disappointed with their husbands or men after reading this. But even so, wives don't have to worry too much. Because the reasons why men are prone to have affairs described here can also be the reasons why men are prone to sober up from affairs. To be more specific about this point, it is precisely because it is easy to have affairs, so the foundation of an affair is very shallow, and at the same time it is also This leaves room for husbands to correct their mistakes.

Let’s continue the analysis along this line of thinking. At the beginning, I wrote that when a man’s sexual desire is high, it is difficult to suppress it, and he pays great attention to the quick effect of sex. At the same time, once the sexual desire is satisfied, it will immediately show its original shape. .

And as mentioned before, men’s sex is a kind of pure, venting sex. Sexual pleasure will not deepen with the increase of the number of sex. On the contrary, men’s sex is easy to get bored. , so that even if a man has an affair, it will not last too long. Generally speaking, the probability that husbands' affairs will come to an end after a period of time is quite high. Coupled with the ambiguity and indecision in a man's character, even if a man wants to spare no effort in loving the other person from the bottom of his heart during an affair, he does not have the energy.

In other words, husbands are animals that are prone to affairs and should not be careless. However, because men are prone to change their minds, men's affairs are always happening constantly and are in a state of flow. The object of love will not always be concentrated on a woman.

To put it simply, the husband's affair is not as serious as it seems on the surface. After a certain period of time, it will almost become calm.

In this respect, a husband's affair is different from his wife's affair. When a wife has an affair, she is very different from her husband mentally and physically. Therefore, although a wife is not as prone to having an affair as a husband, once an affair occurs, many people do not stop easily. Of course, this aspect also varies from person to person. This does not mean that all wives are like this, but generally speaking, they do have this tendency.

In short, the husband’s affair is not as serious as it seems, nor is it a terminal illness. The reason is that most of the husband’s affair partners are single women. If a man is too entangled, he will also treat single women. This is a burden, and many women will leave because of this. Even if this is not the case, many single women are surprisingly clear-headed when interacting with men with families, and some women are even looking for the right opportunity to break up.

You can be sure that your husband’s affair will generally not get out of hand. Especially when there are children, most husbands' affairs will become calm after a period of time. In this regard, the husband's longing for his children and his love for the family are surprisingly persistent. Through these phenomena, we can also see the common characteristics of men as a gender, that is, they are weak in character and afraid of loneliness.

In short, although the number of husbands' affairs may be large, it is easy for them to return to their original shells. Even if they run away from home and live with other women, the rate of returning to the family is still high.

On the contrary, the wife's affair is just the opposite. Once she runs away from home, it is difficult to look back. Compared with husbands, the rate of wives returning to the family after having an affair is actually very low.

Therefore, there is a novel called "Father Is Back", but there is no such novel as "Mother Is Back". In this regard, we can see that husband and wife have completely different determinations about having an affair.

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