A marriage and love survey report pointed out that the biggest reason why most Beijingers are single is that their social circle is too narrow and there are too few opportunities. Experts analyze that the acceleration of urbanization and the expansion of university enrollment have led to a rapid increase in population mobility. As people move, the channels for making friends and social circles are gradually shrinking, often resulting in the social circles that they were once familiar with disappearing. A condition of near-thirst.

1. Death and Equality

Tie Ning said that old man Bing Xin told her not to look for her, but to wait. Tie Ning always remembered what the old man said. As a result, the wait is 50 years. She has enough patience for love. Because she said that she had high expectations for marriage and would rather not have one than have a makeshift marriage.

Modern people will say freely and easily that we will not get married because we are old, let alone get married for the sake of getting married! However, who of us can endure loneliness and grow old together with ourselves in our lives? Like Tiening After all, there are only a few people who have enough patience to wait for 50 years. Who dares to say that he can be optimistic and alone all his life? In life, you always need to find someone to grow old together with.

Therefore, what Zhang Ailing said: I want you to know that there is always someone waiting for you in this world. No matter when or where you are, you know that there is always someone. Such a person. It is the warmest comfort for the leftover people who are waiting alone.

2. Blind date type

The definition of blind date is through the exchange of messages between matchmakers, and the men and women agree on a date to meet. Once regarded as a product of the old times, blind date has become popular in the current Beijing love life. Various blind date methods have been performed one after another and developed in a diversified way. "Marriage search for a child", "online marriage search", "television marriage search"... Among them, marriage search on the Internet has become the most convenient and popular way for "leftover men and women" in the E era. Some experts predict that the method of dating will continue to heat up in the days to come and will become a part of lovers' lives.

It is undeniable that the role of blind date is immeasurable. Especially stupid older young people who have no courage in love, no confidence in themselves, and stay away from the opposite sex. They really need a matchmaker, otherwise it will be difficult to sell them. However, as there are more and more blind dates, if good things have not yet come true, the expectations for blind dates will be greatly reduced. It's like buying a lottery ticket. If you buy too much and still miss a penny, when you see the lottery ticket, you will warn yourself not to be stupid again. So I was quite resistant to blind date, a game that puts men and women who don't know each other and have nothing to do with each other together and tell you that you want to get married. However, people are a body of contradictions. Even if they don't really believe in something, they still have the mentality to try again. Maybe fate will come at some point. Therefore, various funny or sad blind date stories will be staged every once in a while.

3. Game type

Everyone has his own love, but when love retreats steadily in the face of reality, people begin to feel the existence of love helplessly, so they use games to Treat feelings with the same attitude, go for a one-night stand with an empty heart, and what happens after sex? All the passion last night is gone. Men say that women are emotional animals. Women love to fantasize, thinking that they can use their bodies to keep men, so they start Intentionally or unintentionally, they use the banner of their bodies to please men, so men really take the bait. They will not let go of the prey they get, and they will not cherish the prey they have obtained. The cycle continues in the long run, so people are like I saw through love just as I saw through the world of mortals, so my feelings became so numb that I would rather be single than get married.

In a marriage-oriented society, the institution of marriage is considered to be the most stable institution in social management, and the bilateral monopoly between husband and wife is considered to be the most reliable of all relationships. Therefore, marriage is regarded as The ultimate destination for all. Therefore, single people who are outside of marriage are somewhat discriminated against from concepts to systems. Therefore, emotional excess is not conducive to social stability.

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