Interviewee: Shuzhen, 38 years old, unmarried, boss

Shuzhen's appearance can be described as "neat and tidy". She is a typical professional woman, both in appearance and temperament. The way she spoke was also very straightforward, without any sloppiness, and she got right to the point.

I came to Shantou to work in my early 20s. I am a country girl with no relatives, and I have to work hard on my own. I started out as a waiter in a dance hall. Due to my excellent work, I was promoted step by step and became a manager a few years later. This naturally aroused the jealousy of many people.

One day, those people had a dispute with the boss over wages, so they took out their anger on me. When I got off work that night and was about to go back, I was surrounded by a large group of people when I walked to the door. , before I had time to react, several people started fighting. At this moment, a car suddenly stopped beside me, and an imposing middle-aged man got out of the car. He shouted to stop those people. He pulled me out from the crowd. Those people didn't know his origin, but they were immediately subdued by his momentum. After everyone looked at each other in confusion, they quickly dispersed.

The gentleman asked me to get in his car and took me to the dormitory. In the car, he told me that he was from Hong Kong, had investments here, and often lived in Shantou.

He also asked me some questions and told me to be more careful when dealing with those people. There was a concern in his tone that moved me very much. Really, I have been alone outside for a long time, especially when working hard in that kind of situation. I have seen a lot of warm and cold relationships and tense situations. Very few people care about me so much, especially a stranger.

In a moment, tears of gratitude blurred my eyes. In the next week, that gentleman kept asking people to protect me secretly, but I was completely unaware of it. I only discovered this later. After knowing this, my gratitude was beyond words. From then on, he and I became good friends.

He is 15 years older than me. He is from Chaoshan. He went to Hong Kong to develop. After settling down there, he went to Shantou to invest and set up a factory. I admired his courage and personality, and he also admired my working ability. Gradually, we became closer and closer, and exceeded the boundaries of ordinary friends.

Of course, this was my will. I grew from admiring him to loving him, even though I knew that he already had a family and could not give me any "status".

At that time, an entertainment city happened to be inviting bids. Because I had accumulated a lot of experience in this area, I was eager to try it, but I was suffering from lack of funds.

After he knew that I had this idea, he encouraged me to bid and told me that he was willing to invest. With his words, I was a hundred times more confident, and I won the bid in one fell swoop, and immediately started to renovate it in full swing.

While the entertainment city was being renovated, we started to have differences. I found there were many things about his character that I couldn't accept, which made me very tired, so I broke up.

He also felt that it was not good to continue like this, so he agreed. However, the so-called breakup only meant that there was no longer that kind of relationship between men and women. As for the business cooperation, they continued. It was at this time that I found out I was pregnant.

At that time, I thought about aborting the child because he and I had broken up and the child was born without any explanation. But then I thought, after all, the child is the fruit of our love. No matter what happened between the two of us or how far we have reached, the child is innocent, and I should give birth to him.

I told him that I wanted to rest for a while. He asked me what was wrong. I didn’t say anything, but he sensitively thought that I was pregnant and asked me to abort the child. I refused, so he acquiesced.

A few months later, I gave birth to a son. When I gave birth to the baby, he came to the hospital to see me. He told me that he could not make any commitment to me and the baby now. He said that he needed time and asked me to give him 5 months to deal with some things. I These are regarded as his promises to me and my children.

But since then, he has never seen our mother and son again. After the child was one month old, the entertainment city opened as scheduled. We agreed in advance that he would make the initial investment in the entertainment city, and I would run it by myself after it opened. In addition to my salary, I would share the profits with him in half.

After I opened the business, the business was very prosperous, with a profit of at least 7 to 8 million yuan every month, but I didn’t get a penny except for my salary. The reason was that he told me that he also had other businesses. I want to invest and need money. Anyway, I'm not in a hurry to use it right now, so I just lend it to him first.

That’s true when I think about it, not to mention that I have such a relationship with him, so what’s the difference between us? Since he wants to use it, he can take it first. I don’t care about it. We even wrote an IOU or made an agreement. There is no agreement whatsoever.

In this way, the business of the entertainment city became more prosperous day by day, and the scale also expanded day by day, from a few hundred square meters at the beginning to several thousand square meters later. It was one of the best in Shantou at that time.

I run such a big stall by myself, inside and out. It can be said that I devote all my body and mind to it. My mother also takes care of the children. I work day and night. They work on the ground, but they still only receive wages and no dividends.

Until 2002, part of the space we rented was taken back in advance, and the business space suddenly became much smaller. As a result, the business was greatly affected, so we decided to close the business and find another way out. During the five years of business, as our business location and scale continued to expand, he said that the profit share he would give me would gradually decrease, from the original 50% to 30%. This was only a verbal agreement.

Until the end of the business, in this process, I made more than tens of millions of dollars through my hands, and the part I deserved was probably several million at least. However, I won’t get a share. None of it was taken, and it all went into his pocket. According to him, it was used to invest in other industries.

I know that his life was not very good in those few years. It was not easy to do business in Hong Kong. When he came here, the factory he set up at the beginning also suffered losses and he was heavily in debt. In fact, he relied on the entertainment city to make money. To invest the money and make a comeback.

I understand him very well and feel that it is my duty to help him. Not to mention that I had a relationship with him and had the fruit of love. You have helped me in difficult times, so I should repay you!

So I have never argued with him about money, and I have never asked him to give me any notes or agreements. I think that doing business depends on integrity, and the same goes for friends, not to mention They are extraordinary friends.

It has been three years since the entertainment city closed its operations. Logically speaking, he should give me some indication on the share of the money. Regardless of whether the money is cashed or not, he should at least let me know how much I should get. However, , to this day, he has not mentioned a word, he rarely even calls me, and he has never asked about our children or his biological flesh and blood.

Is it because he is unable to fulfill it? No, as far as I know, another industrial business he invested in with the profits from the entertainment city is also very good. In addition, according to rumors, after breaking up with me, he found another girl from out of town, and he was still in that girl’s hometown. I bought a house for her.

So, since he has the ability to support his "second child", he must have the ability to pay me back the portion I deserve, which is my hard-earned hard-earned money!

I made a phone call to him and mentioned this matter. What I never expected was that his answer to me was: "Do I owe you money? Bring me a note." , if you can get it, I can afford it.”

Oh my god! Is this what he said? I really can't believe it! In this life, he is the only man I have ever loved. I have always regarded him as an idol and enshrined him in the supreme position in my heart. Although I have no relationship with him for a long time, this does not matter at all. It weakens his status in my heart. I really can't believe that such words come from the mouth of this man who I regard as a god, and from the mouth of the man I have spent my whole life loving! Could it be that all the vows are just a man's nonsense, and all the love is no match for a "note"? I was speechless for a moment.

For so many years, I have been raising my child alone. For his sake, I have never mentioned the child’s father to outsiders. Even for the child, I have never told him who his father is. Try to downplay the concept of father in the child's mind, but the child never asks about it.

On several occasions, the child came face to face with him, but he pretended to be a stranger and I didn’t mention it. What am I doing this for? Not for him? Because he is now considered a "reputable" figure in Shantou.

However, what he said really made me upset. I really am not a woman who takes money very seriously. I have been working hard on my own since I was a child. From a country girl who has never seen the world, I have become a successful woman in the eyes of many people. I have never seen any money. Pass?

In the process of growing up, the hardships I have endured and the ups and downs I have gone through may not be comparable to many girls of the same age. Because of this, I also have a deeper understanding than many people. Realize that in this world, there are some things that are far more precious than money, and there are some things that no amount of money can buy.

I have never forgotten that night 10 years ago, when he and I first met in a crisis. The image of him stabbing at every opportunity has always been in my heart and will never be forgotten. The emotion of that moment was enough for me. Give a lifetime of love without regrets.

Therefore, I have worked hard year after year but I enjoy it; therefore, I have the heartache of seeing each other but not being able to recognize each other, but I still smile; therefore, I also have a smile on my face. Time and time again, I would regard his "words as unsubstantiated" as a promise worth a thousand dollars... But just these words of his made the idol who had been enshrined in my heart for a long time fall to the ground in an instant!

At the same time, I suddenly realized that, in fact, he knew very well that my "weakness" was kindness, and he took advantage of my kindness again and again. And when kindness becomes the prey of "scheming", it is no longer a woman's advantage but her fatal wound. This is my Achilles heel!

After watching the movie "Qiu Ju's Lawsuit", the most profound impact is this line. It comes from the mouth of Qiu Ju, who is fighting a lawsuit with a big belly and perseverance: "I want it." It’s just a statement.”

Yes, I feel like I am a bit like Qiu Ju now. I am going to sue him. I don’t have any reason, just because he can admit that he owes me money. Even if he doesn’t pay me back a penny, I will admit it. . All I want is an explanation!

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Bystander Quotes

Commitment

A word is a promise, a promise is worth a thousand dollars, and a word is spoken. A horse is hard to catch...

Haha, these are all "ancient sayings" related to promises.

The meaning is clear, it is nothing more than that a person should mean what he says, and cannot talk nonsense or break the promise.

To talk nonsense and not to believe what you say is actually equivalent to farting.

Looking at it, there are quite a few people who like to "fart"——

Just now, I swore to the sky, and I vowed to do so, but in the blink of an eye, I completely "forgot" it.

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