With the development of the times, "leftover women" have become an inevitable phenomenon in society. Among these "leftover women", the post-80s generation accounts for a large proportion.

When talking about "leftover women" now, it does not specifically refer to old girls who have climbed to the age of 30. Many people born in 1983 and 1984 have begun to have the "consciousness of leftover women" and hope to find someone they like as soon as possible. "All the classmates around me are married, but I haven't met the right one yet. I don't have anything, I just can't get rid of the pressure from my parents."

In the era of our grandparents and parents who were born in the 1980s, there were always leftover men. There is no leftover daughter, no matter how ugly the girl is, she can still find her husband's family. Today's trend does not seem to be the case. In restaurants on the street, we often see a group of women gathering to drink and chat. In shopping malls, there are often three or four girls strolling hand in hand leisurely. If we observe carefully, we will find that there are twenty girls around. There are more and more single women aged several years old, with no sign of getting married. The trend of leftover women seems to have become a social necessity.

For the increasing number of leftover women around, some people jokingly divide them into several levels: 25 and 27 years old are junior leftovers. These people still have the courage to continue to struggle to find a partner, so they are called " 28 The 30-year-old is a mid-level leftover. At this time, there are not many opportunities for them, and they have no time to look for them because of their career, so they are nicknamed "the leftover fighter"; 31 The 35-year-old is a high-level leftover, struggling in the cruel workplace. If you survive and are still single, you are honored as the "Fighting Leftover Buddha"; when you reach the age of 35 and above, you are a special leftover guest and should be respected as the "Qitian Dayang".

In today’s social situation, leftover women can be divided into the following types:

Love-oriented leftover women

The reason why these girls are left behind is mainly because they want an expected love, but perfect love is often hard to come by.

Duoduo is 28 years old and works for a foreign-funded enterprise. She is beautiful and gentle, and likes to pursue an emotional life. She is a standard "petty bourgeoisie". Duoduo has longed for a vigorous love since college, but she is still single when she looks like she is about to turn 30. There are many suitors around Duoduo, but she still "can't find the most suitable partner." What she said is: "The requirements for material conditions are not very high, but you have to have feelings." But the reality is often that rich people have no taste, and those with taste have no money; good conditions, but poor work; good work , their own conditions are not good; overall they meet the requirements, but they are too short; everything meets the requirements, but they can’t find a common topic. After Duoduo ended a relationship, she became more picky about men. After listening to the introduction during the blind date A person's simple description, as long as he feels that any of it conflicts with his own concept of love, he will immediately reject it.

Leftover girls who are far away from their hometown

These girls grew up in rural areas. Through studying and finding employment, they finally integrated into big cities outside their hometowns. They could not find their partners in strange cities. But he doesn't want to go back to his hometown to live an ordinary and stable life, so he can only play lonely.

Xiaohui is from Anhui. She is 28 years old and has been working in Beijing for 8 years. She is still alone because she has not found a suitable marriage partner. As Xiaohui grew older, she began to be called back by her family's three aunts, six mothers-in-law, seven aunts and eight aunts to find dates, but after several unsuccessful blind dates, she still ran back to Beijing. Whenever someone asks about Xiaohui's marriage, Xiaohui admits that she is "unaccustomed" to going back to her own home, let alone getting married in her hometown.

Home girl type leftover woman

This type of post-80s girls generally stay at home, and most of them are freelancers. Because they can work at home, they avoid most outing projects. Although they have a stable income and good looks, they often have a narrow social circle and lose many opportunities to meet the opposite sex because they stay at home.

Messi is 28 years old this year and is a freelance writer. Because he writes at home every day, Messi often does not wash his face. He only needs to open his mouth to eat and drink water. He does not care about his messy hair and wears pajamas. After wandering around the room for a day, I would watch TV and surf the Internet when I was done. I usually ordered takeout for meals, and the most I could buy was to go to the supermarket downstairs or simply ask someone from the supermarket to deliver it to me. Regarding why she became a leftover woman, Messi said helplessly that she writes at home every day and sees very few people. Even if she occasionally sees one or two, it is always difficult to have the opportunity to continue to develop.

Strong leftover women

This type of leftover women born in the 1980s appear to be very smart and capable in both work and life, exuding a strong aura. These leftover women often order others from a high position at work because they have higher positions in the company. When they fall in love, they are used to ordering men in this tone. Most men cannot bear such a strong woman, so it is not surprising that such girls are left behind.

Xiao Ou is only 29 years old and has an outstanding figure and appearance. He was promoted to the general manager of the company six months ago because of his outstanding ability. Xiao Ou is very capable at work and has strict requirements for employees. , over time, we have developed the habit of bossing around in our lives. Some time ago, Xiao Ou made a boyfriend with good conditions in all aspects. However, they only got together for two months before the man broke up. After Xiao Ou's questioning, the other party reluctantly said that it was because Xiao Ou was too strong. When the two of them were together, he always felt that he was being lectured by his leader, so he had to break up. Only then did Xiao Ou discover his problem, but he still had a long way to go before he could quickly change these long-established habits.

Stunning beauty type leftover woman

Men like extremely beautiful women, and everyone strives to be the first to fall in love, but when it comes to marriage, few men have such courage. In addition, stunning beauties generally have high expectations for marriage, and it is difficult for them to fall in love with ordinary men. If such a beautiful leftover woman is unlucky and never meets a rich, handsome man without a wife, the important matter of marriage will have to be postponed again and again.

Momo has been a famous beauty since she was a child. She grew up surrounded by praises and countless suitors around her. After graduating from university, Momo became a full-time model with her devilish figure and mesmerizing face. She walked up and down the runway every day, shining brightly and attracting the attention of many members of the opposite sex. However, until this year, Momo, who is 29 years old, has not found the right person to marry. As for why she didn't get married, Momo admitted that she was not short of money, so she didn't ask for material conditions such as a car or a house from her husband. Although I have been in a few relationships, I can't always find the feeling. I think the person I'm dating has no meaning and is not the other half I want. Momo also said that some of them did not want to marry her, but just wanted to have fun or have a mistress. Such people cannot be together for life and must be passed on.

Talented Leftover Women

There is a saying: "Women should not study too much, because in the minds of men: college students are Xiaolongnu, undergraduates are Huang Rong, and graduate students are Zhao Min , the doctoral student is Li Mochou, the postdoctoral fellow is Miejie Shitai, and the even more frightening thing is the legendary Dongfang Bubai who is studying for master's and doctorate degrees. "For leftover women with high academic qualifications, if they are not able to recite Cihai Ciyuan, they don't have enough ink in their stomachs. Not many men dare to marry them.

When Feifei was in college, she was the president of the literary club. Not only did she write good articles, but she also practiced calligraphy to perfection. She was always dubbed a "talented woman" by her classmates. However, Feifei didn't get a boyfriend until she graduated from college. In her words, she was too bright, which made the boys shy away. After graduation, Feifei went to work in a foreign company and has been working there for five years now. Feifei said that what she hopes most now is to find a boyfriend and live a stable life. However, many male friends will stay away after praising her. She understands very well that it is the reputation of a "talented woman" that makes her good friends. Men have distanced themselves from him.

Many girls born in the 1980s who have passed the age of 25 have not yet felt that they are truly mature, but find that they have quickly joined the ranks of "leftover women". Should we quickly get married like our parents, get married, have children, and live a stable and ordinary life, or should we continue to live an ideal post-modern free life? It seems that the leftover women can't find the result themselves, so they can only let nature take its course.

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