As the saying goes, "Love grows over time." It is indeed natural for a young man and woman who get along day and night in the office to develop feelings for each other through frequent contact.

Secondly, modern young people have a lot of pressure in life. Apart from work, they rarely have time to expand their social circle. If you want to find a beautiful relationship on the bus to and from get off work, the chance of finding a beautiful relationship is basically zero. , so finding your significant other in the office has become the most realistic way.

Another reason that cannot be ignored is that many young people in the workplace today are the first generation of only children in our country. Most of them are single and have few acquaintances, and they have no relatives or friends to help introduce potential partners. Their main activity circle is naturally prone to becoming a "hot spot" for emotions.

Office romance is a sensitive topic, but it is also a whirlpool that some young office workers cannot avoid. In this small world, opposite-sex colleagues of similar age get along day and night, and the topics of communication range from work to life. Accidentally, a romance arises at the right moment. Is office romance good or not?

Wandering and distracting from work

Wu Weiyang (25 years old, sales manager of Baolihao):

As for office romance, I am Not optimistic. Why do you have to choose to have a relationship in the workplace? Under normal circumstances, many company bosses don't like it. Open love relationships internally will not only reduce work efficiency, but even affect your own development prospects. Once the relationship fails, they will no longer be able to continue working together, and may even have to find a new job in order to avoid each other. Why bother? If it were me, I would not make it public and do it underground. If it is exposed, I will find a new job. Haha, it’s a joke!

Wang Yansheng (28 years old, general manager of the University Town Education and Training Center):

I do not support office romance. On the one hand, it is easy to form small groups and informal organizations. On the other hand, work emotions are easily affected. When a person makes a mistake and is criticized, it often involves the emotions of both people. Moreover, when two people work in the same unit, sometimes they quarrel and get emotional, which can affect the work status for several days. From a manager's perspective, although I won't openly oppose it, I definitely don't support it either.

Yang Xiao (24 years old, civil engineer):

If two people flirt in the office and flirt intentionally or unintentionally, they will not only be distracted from work, but will also give others goosebumps. Office romances may involve no distinction between public and private affairs at work, especially when one of them is a leader, who often prioritizes the other half at work, leaving other colleagues with objections.

If something unpleasant happens, it may not only affect the person involved, but also the entire department and company. Therefore, this kind of love should be avoided as much as possible.

If you love, you will love.

Wang Dongliang (24 years old, company employee)

Love is free. When fate comes, you can't hide. If the girl in the office is really suitable for you, and both parties get along well, how can you not have feelings? Then haven’t we all become work machines? In addition, if the company is responsible for finding suitable partners outside the unit for all our single employees, we will No comments either.

Mr. Fang (30 years old, employee of a government agency):

As long as it does not affect work and is not an extramarital affair, there is nothing to make a fuss about in office romance. Moreover, the moon comes first when you are close to the water. If you are so close to yourself, of course you have to "take action" first if you have a good partner. When people in the same office fall in love, both parties become more expressive and work extra seriously in order to leave a good impression on each other. For example, a young man in our office is interested in a girl who has just joined the work. He has been particularly enthusiastic and proactive in his work recently. He is rushing to do everything from copying, proofing, and writing documents. He is also more patient in his work and life. This is also It is helpful to improve work efficiency.

Mr. Ji (26 years old, computer teacher at Xiamen University):

Office romances are commonplace nowadays. In fact, it is somewhat similar to the romance between classmates. Since they are in the same company, they are very close to each other and can be together every day. They can get to know each other better and see if they are really suitable for each other. They can also pave the way for future marriage.

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“Many benefits”

1. Every day you can face the person who makes you a little bit attracted. Not only will your aversion to work disappear, And the goodwill is increasing day by day;

2. When men and women work together, the work is not tiring;

3. Without supervision from the leader, the man will work hard to express his talents and improve work performance; the woman will also try her best Show your cute side and let other colleagues in the office get a little "joyful";

4. Be more flexible at work, because you always know that there is another person who is willing to provide you with everything you need. ;

5. It saves you a lot of time in looking for date candidates. Since there are so many beauties where you work, why bother searching on the streets at night?

6. Both parties The time together is long enough for both parties to know each other's ins and outs, without having to come together because of misunderstanding;

7. At the very least, he doesn't have to rush to pick you up after get off work, nor does he have to rush to pick you up after work. I'll take you to work in the morning and lose two hours of sleep, and you don't have to worry about adjusting your different schedules---you can "advance and retreat together" at any time, doesn't this also improve work efficiency?< /p>

8. Dating with colleagues can at least save gas money or rental fees. Of course, none of us choose to date our office colleagues just to save on car fare.

"Lots of consequences"

1. The first consequence is that you are distracted and can you still concentrate on your work? This is also the first reaction of many bosses to office romance;

2. Emotions Many times it is irrational. Once emotions exceed reason, it will be detrimental to the development of work. Moreover, being in the same office is likely to involve interest factors, so how should we break up?

3. It is not conducive to the "back-to-back" salary system in many companies. How can two people in love not open their hearts. At that time, if you have a grudge over different wages and bonuses and even cause an uproar within the company, it will be bad for both you and others;

4. From the perspective of the relationship between lovers , no matter how good the relationship is, it requires distance. Being together day and night is likely to further intensify some minor frictions, and without the sense of distance, it is easy for everyone to lose the feeling of love. The disappearance of the sense of mystery will cause the disappearance of curiosity, and the disappearance of curiosity will reduce the enthusiasm for getting close to you;

5. Think about it, if one day we break up and everyone is still in the same office, It's so embarrassing and unnatural to look up and not see you when you look down.

From the pros and cons, we can see the inherent troubles of office romance. Nowadays, many companies have clear regulations: no romance is allowed between colleagues. If such a situation occurs, one party must leave. The reason why the boss imposes such a "ban" is often very good. A career planning expert believes that in addition to the five "disadvantages" mentioned in the above-mentioned opposing views, the embarrassment of office romance also includes: If you date a colleague of the same level, then the competition between you at work is likely to If you hurt your feelings, it is likely that one of you will leave the company; if you date a subordinate, you are likely to be criticized by others and suspected of favoritism. To put it more seriously, once the two parties have a stalemate, you may also be accused of sexual harassment; if you are dating your boss, then in the eyes of your colleagues, your professionalism and ability will immediately be reduced by three points, and you may become He became the center of office discussions and became isolated and helpless.

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