1. Should we teach contraceptive knowledge to middle school students? Some people think that there is no need to teach it, as teaching it will induce more teenagers to have sexual intercourse, while more people think that it is necessary to teach it, since premarital sex is closely related to unmarried pregnancy. All of them are, so after talking about contraceptive knowledge, it can reduce unmarried pregnancies and induced abortions as much as possible. It is completely necessary to properly carry out contraceptive knowledge education among teenagers who have entered the love period. At present, many countries and regions are carrying out contraceptive knowledge in middle schools. Sex education involves sexual intercourse, contraception, abortion, etc. For example, Japan starts sex education in kindergarten, and Taiwan has advanced sex education to the upper grades of elementary school. This can at least reduce unmarried pregnancies and help protect the physical and mental health of teenagers.

2. Is masturbation harmful?

Some people think that masturbation is harmful, while more people think that proper masturbation is harmless. The national "Sexual Civilization" survey shows that among all survey respondents, 39% have masturbated, and in universities, the proportions of masturbation among male and female college students are 59% and 16.5% respectively. The American Kinsey report pointed out that 92% of the total population of the United States have experienced self-stimulation to achieve orgasm. Kinsey also asserted: "We have every reason to believe that those research reports on lower incidence rates must be due to survey distortion." ". This is because many people think that masturbation is a dishonorable thing, or even something that should be punished, so they have concerns about admitting it. Indeed, the impact of masturbation on people is not only physical, but also psychological. For hundreds of years, the traditional concept has been that masturbation is "evil" and "harmful" to the body. "One drop of semen, ten drops of blood" consumes "Yang" and makes it difficult to live forever. This view of "masturbation horror" puts great pressure on young people's minds and is also unscientific. From a scientific point of view and from a practical effect, we can neither promote "masturbation horror" unscientifically nor unconditionally. The "theory that masturbation is harmless" is widely promoted. If it is excessive, it becomes harmful. Instead, we should let it take its course and strengthen guidance.

3. Is it possible to have sexual intercourse during menstruation, pregnancy, and postpartum period?

According to convention, sexual intercourse is generally not recommended during menstruation, because at this time, women’s endometrium sheds and there are fresh wounds on the inner wall of the uterus. , the cervix of the uterus is slightly open. If sexual intercourse is unclean, it will cause bacterial infection, endometritis or pelvic inflammatory disease, and sometimes heavy bleeding. In recent years, some scholars believe that as long as the genitals are cleaned before sexual intercourse, one year You can have sex 365 days a year, and you can have sex during menstruation without worrying about pregnancy. The vagina is lubricated, and some men like to see blood. However, the current family hygiene conditions in China cannot copy the Western sexual lifestyle. It is still better not to have sexual intercourse during menstruation. Especially during the days when women have heavy menstrual bleeding, sexual intercourse should be prohibited.

Sexual intercourse during pregnancy is generally not recommended. However, during the nine months of pregnancy, if a man has no sex, the degree of sexual tension can be imagined. In addition to advocating marginal sexual behavior and process sexual behavior to replace purposeful sexual behavior between couples In addition, you can also have sexual intercourse appropriately during the middle 4 months of pregnancy, that is, avoid the first three months and the last three months. At this time, pay attention to gentle sexual intercourse, and do not put heavy pressure on the abdomen. You can use the bed-lower position or the woman-on-man position. Inserted in the lower or posterior position.

As for the question of whether sexual intercourse can be had during the puerperium, an analysis of the sexual psychology and sexual behavior of 125 women in Shanxi during pregnancy and childbirth showed that from the perspective of sexual intercourse during the puerperium, they had strong sexual interest and restored sexual organs. Good, the overall level of sexual desire is high. Sexual intercourse at this time, one is the sexual impulse caused by affectionate sex, and the other is submission under the husband's sexual dominance and sexual possession rights, but the former is the main In addition, the survey also shows that the incidence of sexual intercourse in the puerperium is high among those with low education and engaged in manual labor, while the incidence of sexual intercourse is lower among those with higher education and engaged in mental labor. The traditional view is that 60 years after a woman gives birth to a child, the incidence of sexual intercourse is high. -80 days, the reproductive organs cannot return to the prenatal state, and the body cannot reach the normal health level. In addition, breastfeeding babies consume a lot of body, so you should try not to have sex. Especially during the recovery period, secretions from the uterine cavity are excreted from the vagina in the form of lochia, and local resistance is low. At this time, premature sexual intercourse can easily lead to bacterial infection and disease.

${FDPageBreak} 4. Is oral sex obscene?

According to the national "Sexual Civilization" survey data, 12.5% ​​of all male college students have sexual partners, and 6.3% of female college students have sexual partners. They start sexual intercourse. The average age is 18.41%, and many of them have genital-oral contact sexual behavior. The average age is 17.10 years old, and 0.4% of them have genital contact with the same sex. For a long time, oral sex, also known as oral sex, has been considered a "dirty" and "vulgar" sexual behavior. However, foreign scholars believe that oral sex is "healthy, beneficial and wonderful" and believe that as long as the relationship between the couple is deep, the body of both parties will be healthy. Healthy, there is no inflammation in the woman’s vagina, and there are no ulcers in the man’s mouth. Oral sex between husband and wife is beyond reproach. As long as both parties feel pleasure and pleasure, it does no harm to society, others, or themselves, so it should not be condemned. Some scholars even believe that women’s genitals Rinsing is cleaner than the mouth, and men's genitals are cleaner than hands when they are rinsed. A high proportion of couples in Western countries have oral sex, reaching about half of them. Some middle-aged and elderly couples, when the man suffers from impotence, use oral sex as a prelude to sexual intercourse. , can be regarded as a way to make the penis erect in middle-aged and elderly men. Since the hygienic shower conditions in our country are still lacking, the proportion of women with vaginal inflammation is more in urban women than in rural women, reaching about 44%. Therefore, the way of making love with oral sex also depends on the person in our country. It varies, so don't strongly advocate it, and don't denounce it as "dirty" or "vulgar". This is just one of the normal ways of making love between healthy couples.

5. Can masturbation tools and sex pills be sold?

At present, there are about 9.9 million unmarried men over 30 years old in our country. By 2000, there will be 50 million singles in the country. Now there are 600,000 singles in Beijing and 420,000 in Qingdao. How to solve the problem of sexual hunger among these people? Where is the way out? Masturbation is an important way out, but masturbation tools are nowhere to be purchased, so many substitutes have emerged, which are unhygienic and dangerous. Not long ago, a doctor called for the development of masturbation tools as soon as possible, which can be sold in relevant outpatient clinics. This is also a concrete measure for social stability. As for sex drugs, there are many drugs on the market to treat impotence and premature ejaculation. However, sex drugs that improve sexual quality and promote sexual desire have not yet been sold publicly. However, sales are sold in bazaars on the China-Myanmar border and the China-Laos border. Very big. The boss from Myanmar reported that many people from the inspection team from the mainland were buying it, and the female team members were particularly enthusiastic about buying, which shows that people are in need. Why don’t we produce and sell products when the people need them, but instead let foreigners make money and fake products defraud us of our money? In the past, the sexual life of couples was mainly for the purpose of producing boys and girls and procreating offspring. Now, it is mainly for satisfying the physical and psychological needs of couples. The culture of reproduction has changed to the culture of pleasure, which requires the development of tools to improve sexual pleasure and drugs without side effects. .

6. Can couples watch sex education videos?

In recent years, China has been cracking down on pornography and strictly prohibits the private production and sale of pornographic videos. Many countries in the world also do the same, but In order to enhance couples' sexual knowledge and improve the quality of their sexual life, it is necessary for the relevant sexual science research departments to produce some sex science education videos that reflect couples' knowledge of sexual intercourse positions and sexual life. It can also be done step by step to make it truly "not suitable for children" and to watch it exclusively for couples to watch before sexual intercourse, or to screen it in schools for newlyweds, or to watch it in sexual dysfunction clinics. We should learn to distinguish the boundaries between obscenity, pornography and science in practice. This not only refers to video products such as videos, but also includes sex science books, which should also be allowed to be published publicly.

7. Is homosexuality a crime?

For a long time, many people in China have regarded homosexuality as a crime, at least as morally corrupt and of bad character. However, sexual research shows that Homosexuality is caused by many factors such as biological inheritance, environmental influences, and psychological variation. It cannot be generally classified as a crime. The specific situation must be analyzed in detail. For other sexual perversions such as voyeurism, friction fetishism, and transvestism, etc. A scientific and prudent attitude should also be adopted, and special attention should be paid to signatures in judicial practice. We should not only crack down on gangster crimes without mercy, but also treat deviants with abnormal sexual behavior differently.

${FDPageBreak}8. Is the existence of extramarital love reasonable?

Some people think that the existence of extramarital love is reasonable. Since extramarital love and the phenomenon of "side-by-side love" exist everywhere and are increasing unabated, Then, it proves that it is an objective need and has the necessity of existence. Others believe that due to the separation of love and marriage, the difficulty and tortuous nature of death, marriage and divorce, it is difficult to

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