[Introduction] Some people say that love makes women reborn, but many women say that love is their life. In the world of emotions, we have no doubt that women are weak. On TV, newspapers and other media, the victims of love are often women.

Women have to consider how to choose a man who can accompany them throughout their lives and truly love them throughout their lives. Then you should pay attention to the following five types of men when choosing a man. These men are often easy to crush women's beautiful dream of life - eternal love.

1. Paranoid men

Men like to make decisions to show their dignity and status. This is completely understandable. However, if a man values ​​these things too much, he often appears paranoid. This is not only reflected in work, but often also in life. Living with such a man is often very painful for women, who become slaves to men.

Xiao Zhang and her husband Xiao Xiao were introduced by friends. When we first met, Xiao Zhang felt that her boyfriend was very opinionated and would express his opinion immediately on everything. Xiao Zhang felt that such a man was very smart, so he easily let this man take over his body. However, as the relationship increased, Xiao Zhang felt that her boyfriend was becoming more and more domineering, and there was no room for negotiation on anything. Xiao Zhang wanted her boyfriend to change this habit several times, but her boyfriend thought that Xiao Zhang did not respect him. Four years passed like this, and Xiao Zhang broke up with her without any other choice. Unfortunately, she wasted four years of her best youth.

2. A man who is not good at communicating.

In the modern fast-changing society, communication has become a fashionable term, and communication has become the main means for people to solve problems. Today, with the divorce rate rising, many couples divorce due to poor communication. Communication can not only resolve misunderstandings between husband and wife, but also enhance the relationship between husband and wife.

Bai Jing and her husband have been married for three years. Before getting married, Bai Jing felt that her husband didn't talk much, and it was Bai Jing who did most of the talking when they met. Bai Jing told her parents about her feelings, and her parents said, "Silence is golden." Bai Jing didn't care. After getting married, Bai Jing found that her husband was silent. When he came back from get off work, he only watched TV or played games. Bai Jing took the initiative to talk to him at first, but finally found that her husband was not interested in Bai Jing's words at all. Bai Jing thought her husband was having an affair, but after a period of observation, she found that there was no such thing. Once, Bai Jing lost her temper in a hurry, and her husband just said perfunctorily, "Why are you talking? Are you tired of talking?" Faced with a husband who had no communication with her, Bai Jing could not imagine what the future would be like. She couldn't bear it anymore. , Bai Jing chose divorce.

3. A selfish man.

Everyone has selfish nature, but the degree of selfishness is different. Husband and wife should take care of each other, be considerate to each other, and give to each other.

Ivy’s husband is a very selfish man. Ivy is very independent. When they were in love, her boyfriend never bought anything for Ivy. On the contrary, Ivy always buys things for her boyfriend. Ivy was careless and didn't care. However, after getting married, this shortcoming of the man became apparent, making it increasingly unacceptable to Ivy.

After five years of marriage, the husband never gave Ivy a penny. When he went to Ivy’s parents’ house during the holidays, the husband never spent a penny. Sometimes when the family needed to buy something, the husband never paid a penny. No money; even when Ivy's parents were sick and hospitalized, her husband didn't spend some money to buy anything to comfort the elderly... Ivy and her husband quarreled many times, and her husband promised to change his shortcomings, but once the incident was over, he took no action again. So Ivy became desperate and finally ended her marriage.

4. A man who has no ideals and is lazy.

A man’s ideal is a woman’s best cosmetics. Although women can also create careers, we must consider the impact of tradition on women. Husband, honor and wife are all what women long for. If a man has no ideals and no ability to act, the family will undoubtedly have no hope, which can only bring despair to the woman. A woman marrying a man is to a certain extent a man's present, but to a greater extent, it is a man's future.

When Yu Qian and her husband first met, her husband liked to play chess, was very good at it, and was famous in his workplace. Considering that men generally change their minds easily after getting married, Yu Qian felt that if her husband loved playing chess, nothing would happen to her marriage, so Yu Qian married her lover. But after getting married, Yu Qian found that her husband was just addicted to playing chess and had no interest in work. He simply didn't want to make progress. Seeing that his colleagues are getting promotions and salary increases, my husband still doesn't care. Yu Qian quarreled with her husband several times, but her husband remained indifferent. Life at home can only be so stagnant, and even Yu Qian, who is ambitious, has no ambition. Seeing men from other families working hard for the family, Yu Qian regretted it to death. In desperation, Yu Qian ended her five-year marriage.

5. A man who changes his mind when he sees different things.

It is understandable that men are naturally interested in the opposite sex. However, after a man gets married, he needs to be responsible for the woman and the family. This is the quality that a man should have.

Koizumi is very obsessed with Jin Wei. The reason is that Jin Wei has very good literary and artistic talents. He has won first prize in a national violin competition and is the chief violinist of a national-level troupe. Every time I listen to Jin Wei play the piano, Xiao Quan is so intoxicated. In this way, Xiaoquan and Jin Wei lived together for 8 years. While living together, Xiaoquan discovered that Jin Wei was very obsessed with women and often did not come back at night. Sometimes when the two quarreled, Jin Wei would not go home for several days. Xiao Quan was very uncomfortable, but since he loved Jin Wei very much, Xiao Quan endured it time and time again. However, Xiaoquan's tolerance did not arouse Jin Wei's conscience. On the contrary, in order to be with a woman, Jin Wei actually dueled with others, stabbed the other party to death, and was imprisoned himself. After Koizumi learned the news, he cried bitterly. Ten years of love was ruined in the hands of her boyfriend, just because of a woman.

When choosing a lover, women not only need to be emotional, but also need to be rational. When love cannot last long, or when a man is no longer reliable, a woman must learn to cherish herself. Love is called romance when you are young. Wasting youth is equivalent to wasting a woman's life. Youth is inherently short-lived for women and needs to be cherished.

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