It is difficult to analyze the phenomenon that happiness has nothing to do with whether you are a virgin or not, but you can look at this issue in reverse. That is, among those who are happily married, it does not matter whether the wife has been passionately in love before, or the concept and openness of the woman. From a certain perspective, many people who are open-minded, able to get along in society, and have very strong mobility seem to live a happy life for the rest of their lives, and many even marry famous men and live a dazzling life.

On the contrary, many traditional women live a traditional and weak life after marriage, which does not guarantee a happy marriage and future. Because the changes in men are uncertain, there are also many traditional people among divorced people. Even with the development of society, more and more people whose parents are responsible for blind dates will get divorced. In these cases, virginity or not is no longer relevant. No matter how important it is.

So, women who simply think they will be happy if they are virgins are wishful thinking; for female compatriots who are not virgins, this is not a decisive factor, because a person has to look at many aspects comprehensively. But I admire those women who remain virgins only for their own beliefs and not for the opinions of men.

Being a virgin has to pay a lot of money

I have a friend. When she was studying, a classmate in the female dormitory made fun of her for being too traditional. In a university environment, this kind of teasing is a bit The meaning of irony, simply put, is that this woman is too backward. This advantage has turned into a disadvantage in certain circumstances, and it has been under pressure from all parties. In today's society, there are very few people who can engage in platonic spiritual love. My friend's experience always felt like the price she paid was too much. She started dating several boyfriends, but they all told me that she didn't have any boyfriend that lasted more than three months. It's a simple truth. If a woman thinks you love me, you can't hurt me; if a man thinks you love me, you will believe me and be willing and do anything. In many cases, sex is indeed enough to make everyone more understanding and emotional, and it can also resolve many conflicts. When a man is alone with his girlfriend to a certain extent, he cannot help but want to have sex, which is not wrong.

The result of this is that men with strong self-esteem often make requests but are rejected, and their self-esteem is hurt a lot. Naturally, they have a lot of resistance to this girl. Later, I felt disappointed and hopeless. Then those who insist on being a virgin will give up one man after another because of this concept in the process, and the men will leave one after another. Maybe one day, it is not ruled out that this girl who has always been a virgin feels very unhappy after getting married, or feels that men are inferior to others. She misses the person she fell in love with, but unfortunately she has missed it.

Unless you encounter some other special circumstances - either this woman is excellent, outstanding in some fields, preferably a star; or she meets a man who appreciates many aspects of this woman, including pursuing her. , beliefs and even status, etc., and have consistent views in many aspects. Otherwise, how to persist is a huge challenge.

In most cases, many girls who have been virgins have not really experienced the taste of love and have not experienced the feeling of passionate love. As a result, many such girls actually don’t understand love, and they don’t even know how to deal with love matters. Such women lack charm in the eyes of men, are often very traditional and shy, and have no romantic characteristics. Not to mention sexual skills and creating a sexual atmosphere that conquers men. On the one hand, men don't like their women to have too many relationships with other men in the past, but on the other hand, men prefer that their women have excellent sexual skills.

If there is no ability to manage love and enjoy love, then even if the woman reaches the marriage age and is ready to find a man to marry, she will continue to miss her favorite partner due to lack of ability. At this time, once a woman loses confidence after repeated setbacks in love, this situation will become a vicious cycle. In the end, she saved her body and married an undesirable man.

If the person you marry in the end is not your favorite, then it is very necessary to remain a virgin for this man, which needs to be discussed by everyone. I advise those who want to be virgins to learn more and gain control over love.

Most men don’t have a virginity complex, so it’s not worth bothering with.

I want to tell you a story here. This story is the allusion of "sitting in a pregnant woman without chaos". Modern sociologists have analyzed that there are three possible reasons why this happened. One is that the man has a physical problem; the other is that the man has a problem with his sexual orientation; and the third is that the woman is too ugly. Some latecomers even analyzed that being alone in a room with a woman at night and doing something to her is a crime, but if you don't even have the thought of doing it, it is an even bigger crime. After all, emotions and desires are human nature and should not be taken too seriously.

Most men don’t have a virginity complex. Men like virgins just to show their possessiveness. From a purely pleasure perspective, men don't like having sex with virgins, and they will find it very boring. In modern society, most men don't really care whether their wives are virgins, because most of them are not virgins either, unless the wife has no other advantages. Men just don't like knowing that their women belong to someone else.

But I would like to give a piece of advice to my female compatriots: Never let your husband know too much about your past intimate relationship with your ex-boyfriend, let alone the details of your past sexual encounters with other men, otherwise men will feel very uncomfortable. .

Finally, I would like to express a point of view: I despise men who want to marry virgins when they are not virgins, but I strongly despise women who mend their hymens to get married, and support men to expel such women immediately once they find out.

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