When I was young, I saw one of my schoolmates fall in love with my own eyes. She cared a lot about her boyfriend. She would never eat delicious food for herself, but would always leave it to her partner. He is busy adding something to the other party, but he himself is dressed plainly and even out of date all year round. Later, the two of us started working, and we were separated by more than half a city. My schoolmate was always in a hurry to visit her boyfriend, regardless of wind or rain, and she even brought exquisite side dishes made by herself. And that man, in my impression, seemed to have never given anything to my senior sister. Some people say that she is "having a hot head after having her head shaved", and even worse, that she is "being a bitch". I have also asked her if she is suffering, and she always smiles and says: "Who asked me to love him? "Although I understand that the power of love is great, I still have doubts about this kind of love.

Some people say that love means being mean, while others say that there is no self-esteem in love. Anyone who has experienced love probably understands the meaning behind these words. When you fall in love with someone, you can't help but want to please the other person, want to do something within your power to change the other person's smile, want the other person to be touched, surprised, and respected... All of these wishes for love are of course good, but they are just , this kind of "offending" can only be done by two people together, and there must be a response from the other party, because true love should be mutual.

If in a world between two people, you keep giving, keep giving up your self-esteem, keep abusing yourself, and the other person just enjoys it as a matter of course and does not give you anything in return, then this kind of relationship probably cannot be called love. But it can only be called "cheating".

Let’s talk about my senior sister. After several years of unreserved dedication, she finally began to reflect on her love. She finally admitted that such love makes people very hurt and desolate. She decided to give up. At this time, her boyfriend, who was about to lose this love, finally awakened his sleeping love cells and began to think of ways to retain his senior sister. This time it was the man's turn to "be mean". Under his gentle care and careful consideration, the senior sister forgave him for his past, and the man also matured quickly and understood the truth that love requires sacrifice. People eventually tie the knot.

The ending of the senior sister’s story is quite happy, but in life, many people actually experience “bad” love but fail to achieve positive results in the end. I believe that the best love is when two people "feel bad" together, they please each other, give each other, and care for each other; if you cannot reach this state, then learn from my senior sister, know how to give up, and let the other person reflect on himself. , maybe it can also activate the love of the other person, and finally reach a good situation where the two of them commit a crime together; the worst kind is that no matter how indifferent the other party is, they just keep "cheating" until they are covered with bruises.

So, please remember, it’s okay to fall in love with someone and be “cheesy” for him or her, it’s inevitable for everyone. However, you have to keep your eyes open to see if the other person is also "cheating" for you. Two people "being mean" together is the right path of love.

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