The object of a thief is something that does not belong to him. The effect is to satisfy his own selfishness and his own desires. The means are various and the method is to deceive others. Infidelity and legal marriage are twins that are born and have existed in the world since the patriarchal clan. From the half-opened door of an ancient Chinese nunnery to the windows reserved by modern ladies late at night, there is a hint of ambiguity and eroticism.

Full and warm, lustful thoughts and extramarital affairs seem to have become the tireless filling of desires after having plenty of food and clothing. However, the more open the society, the more complicated the relationships between people. In today's materialistic world, having an affair cannot be pure and safe, and there are many hidden dangers.

Cheating is very dangerous

You can't decide the rules of having an affair alone. Why should someone else give it to you if you want it? Unless you go to a prostitute or a duck, but it's better to steal from a prostitute. From a physiological point of view, when a woman is penetrated, she feels more loss.

It is a dream to make a woman, especially a woman who lives at the bottom or in the lower class of power, not be utilitarian in her affair. Even if the impulse is purely instinctive at the beginning, after the impulse, the woman needs to convince herself and make herself feel If you pay for that man without injustice, then you will have no regrets.

In fact, some women seek material and rights compensation as a kind of psychological self-protection. Once the man leaves ruthlessly, the woman can still recall how good that man was to her.

Of course, many men will also use some practical help to seek psychological balance during an affair, and regard such behavior as a kind of emotional contribution. In this way, an affair always has the flavor of exchange. When a man sends expensive gifts, passion is stirred up and another affair occurs. The resulting series of complex problems affecting relationships and marriage can only be understood by men and women who have affairs, "like a fish knowing whether it is warm or cold when drinking water."

Some people cannot have an affair

You cannot have an affair with someone who lacks mental ability, and you cannot have an affair with someone who has emotional problems. Some people are in a bad mood, and you think you are being kind when you care about them, but the other person seems to see a life-saving straw and regards this concern as love (maybe she needs love in her heart), so you will feel that it is a mistake to hurt her at this time. It's a sin, and I'll explain it later. The result is that it sinks deeper and deeper, and the outline becomes darker and darker. Not only are they not human inside and out, they may even contribute to the other party's suicide.

On the contrary, some people have just lost a relationship, and having an affair with someone is caused by anger. They will seduce you first and then attack you, saying that there is no good thing in the world.

In the end, all the hatred that was hurt has to be repaid by you. A hysterical person can't have an affair. She couldn't deal with her emotions in the first place, so she thought she could find someone to help her manage the affair. As a result, her emotions got even more out of control, and she was either exhausted or angry to death.

People with personality disorders are not allowed to have affairs. If you meet such a person, you will be unlucky for eight lifetimes. One is borderline personality disorder, like the woman in "Fatal Attraction". She is sweeter than honey when she is good, she even has no self-esteem, and she wants to die with you when she is bad.

People with morbid personalities should not touch her, as they think she looks pitiful, like a sheep or a little white rabbit. Such people have no independent personality and must have a symbiotic relationship with others to gain a sense of self.

The body is just a relationship that she controls you. She is not happy at all during sex, but she pretends to be conquered by you. In fact, having sex with you is to make yourself feel that you are still caring about you. You can't have an affair with a celebrity, and celebrities are not suitable for cheating. Celebrities are burdened by fame. Once their affair is exposed, they have to give up their marriage, family, and even their status and rights.

Because he wants to prove that it is love that is at fault, not moral corruption. Celebrities often live a miserable life. There is a novel about a reporter who has been having an affair with the mayor for two or three years. The reporter's only wish is to sleep with the mayor. The mayor said, "I'm sleeping with you." The woman said it wasn't this kind of sleeping (making love), but sleeping in the traditional sense. The mayor categorically said that it couldn't be done! If you can't even meet this requirement, what's the point of having an affair with a celebrity?

Strangers are best for having an affair

So, what kind of person is suitable for an affair? I think I should say "stranger", someone who doesn't know you and you don't know her. They are just people who are attracted by their senses and have pure desires and physical impulses. For such a person, you need to have a safety principle. You need to establish rules of the game. She cannot take the initiative to call you to make an appointment, let alone reveal her home address to prevent others from coming to your home to find you. She must also strictly keep secrets from anyone, and even Can't see a psychiatrist. You can't leave her any written evidence, you can't give her expensive or romantic gifts, and you can't accept things like clothes and ties that only your wife cares about.

You need to prepare another phone, and make sure that the other party will not record. When texting, you must hide your email and address... During the tryst, the other party is not allowed to wear lipstick or perfume, and your hair must be controlled and nails must be trimmed. As long as you can't bite or scratch, you can't leave kissing bruises on your body. Don't let your secretions stain the other person's clothes. Remember Clinton's lesson. The evidence is in that dress. Afterwards, you should be able to take a shower, brush your teeth, and carefully check your clothes to see if there is anything in them, including the woman's hair and body scent, and don't leave any clothes behind for the other party to take away.

As the saying goes, there is no airtight wall. On the premise of choosing a good prey, an adulterer must also be alert at all times to being discovered by people who should not discover it. Safety is always the first priority in an affair. In addition, affairs that are less frequent are more lasting and passionate.

Having an affair is very exciting, but I still advise those who have not had an extramarital affair to persist if they can. There is a price for being happy outside of marriage. Remember what Mr. Lin said, don’t think that you have failed if you don’t have an affair. If you can't keep up with the trend, in fact, the highest state between men and women is "not being able to steal".