The hidden marital crisis of premature ejaculation
One afternoon a few days ago, a couple in their 30s came to the men's department of the hospital for treatment. The husband looked gloomy and kept his head down. I asked, "What's wrong?" "Premature ejaculation," my husband replied feebly. I asked: "How long does it take to insert the vagina into the vagina to ejaculate?" My husband said: "The short one is 1 minute, the long one is 3 or 5 minutes." Unexpectedly, as soon as the husband finished speaking, the wife suddenly asked: "Where are 3 or 5 minutes? You have always been less than 1 minute, and now you haven't had sex for half a year." After hearing this, the husband blushed and lowered his head. Even lower, I dare not speak anymore. My wife said to me, "You have to take a good look at him. He has been like this since we got married. I don't know why. Can it be cured? If it can't be cured, we will really have no way to survive this day."
Many patients with premature ejaculation can obtain sexual pleasure and achieve sexual satisfaction during sexual activities. This is determined by the sexual physiological characteristics of men. However, premature ejaculation can make it difficult for women who have difficulty in stimulating orgasm to be emotionally high, and it can also make men feel extremely frustrated and may lose their "sexual" interest in sexual life. In the long run, it will inevitably have a serious negative impact on the sexual harmony between men and women.
The most common problem in sexual disharmony is premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation prevents sexual partners from being satisfied in their sexual life. Dissatisfaction and disharmony in sexual life within marriage may be an important trigger for individuals to seek extramarital affairs. Behind premature ejaculation lurks a huge emotional crisis for couples.
Some couples who have been married for many years, although the man has premature ejaculation problems, and although the wife may have never experienced an orgasm, on the surface, the husband and wife are in harmony, respect each other as guests, and have sex on a planned and regular basis. Everything seemed so harmonious and perfect. However, behind this is often the unspeakable pain that women have buried deep in their hearts.
The treatment of premature ejaculation should be attended by both husband and wife. As long as both parties cooperate closely and combine it with drug treatment methods approved by the Food and Drug Administration, satisfactory results may be achieved.