I saw an article in the newspaper, "The Golden Rule of Marrying a Wife" summarized by a male compatriot. I had nothing to do, so I took a self-test, firstly to have some fun after dinner, and secondly, to test myself and make up for my shortcomings so that I can become an immortal. Let's see how I go about it.

——Kindness;

This is the basic virtue of being a human being. It is natural to put it first, and it is applicable to both looking for a wife and a husband. I have been taught this since I was a child: the world is wide when you have kind thoughts. I think I can be kind to others and not hide any treachery; I can treat all sentient beings kindly and be equal and tolerant. It cannot be called great loyalty or great kindness, and he can clearly distinguish between right and wrong. Article 1, consistent.

——Xianxian;

This is actually a very beautiful word, but it has lost its flavor after being used indiscriminately by some people who are deeply affected by feudalism. According to the modern Chinese dictionary, virtuous means being kind-hearted and kind to others. Looking back at his true colors, I completely fit him. However, the dictionary does not say that this word is reserved for women.

——Be well-educated, thoughtful, and tasteful;

This item is placed in the third place, which is correct. After the moral standard is the taste standard. However, the standards may be strict or wide, and the requirements may be high or low. I strive to be well-read, but I am only miscellaneous but not refined; I understand the principles of human affairs, but I am not yet able to practice them in all aspects; my mind is not a mess, but I do not have superior insights and thinking; I am not willing to be mediocre and pursue taste, but I still He is a layman. Overall inspection, basically consistent.

——Full trust, relative freedom;

Men say that women should know how to ask for help, but they must never ask questions. Women should know that red sleeves add fragrance, but it doesn’t matter whether they read books about saints or pictures of beautiful women at night. People always need freedom. Haven't you heard the famous song "If you want freedom, you can throw away both"? No matter how loving you are, you need your own private space and time. I agree with this from the bottom of my heart. But (fear is the word "but" in the world), freedom is relative. Absolute freedom means letting oneself fend for oneself. If that's the case, why not just live alone? This freedom is based on trust. Without full trust, there is no freedom. Freedom is also mutual, for both parties.

——Have a stable income;

How realistic. Love is not just about flowers before and after the moon. Without a certain material foundation, we can’t fall in love with the northwest wind singing the empty city plan. Talk about love. Having an income is not enough, you also need "stability". Isn't this because we don't want our female compatriots to become a burden to them? Woman, you have to be self-reliant, self-reliant and self-loving first, and then fall in love. Weigh my useless work to meet the standards.

——No excessive material desires;

Look, just now we were asking our female compatriots to be self-sufficient and take care of themselves, and we also asked her to be easily satisfied and not be greedy, otherwise it will become His burden. Having said that, human desires are endless. What does "too much" mean? It's just that everything is relative, and everything should be done in moderation. Think about it, I'm not greedy, it's easier to get rid of.

——Reject the feasting and feasting;

This is very straightforward. It is so easy for people to be tempted by the feasting and feasting, and then make mistakes again. You can’t go to the colorful world, and you should stay at home honestly. Husband teaches children well! I just want to say that I am not interested in these, but the word "living and drinking" is not commonly used for female compatriots.

——Don’t be overly enthusiastic about the opposite sex;

Haha, this gets to the point, and the previous part was foreshadowing this. As a woman, you should look at your eyes, your nose and your heart. You are the only one in your eyes. There is no one else in your heart. Your heart should be focused on the virtuous and virtuous. Be as quiet as a virgin and act like a lady. How to sing that song? I don’t want to see you getting drunk late at night anymore, and I don’t want other men to see your charm. To put it bluntly, your tenderness is as gentle as water and as passionate as fire, and you can only show it to me! But fellow men, have you done it yourself?

——Innocent, a little childish;

Oh my, I totally fit this criteria. I said that I always look the same as sixteen or seventeen. It turns out that my subconscious mind Just to maintain a touching childlike innocence! No wonder some people say that men don’t like women who are too smart and mature, and children who are too easy to coax and deceive. However, it can only have a little "childishness". If it always looks like a child that has not grown up, don't exhaust him to death.

——I like reading and music;

Needless to say, for me, life can be done without you, but it cannot be done without books and music.

——Have strong working ability and special skills;

What does this mean? It definitely doesn’t mean that you will become a strong woman, but that you will be able to join a family and get out of society, and preferably make money to support your family and become well-off. Besides, you are so busy at work, how can you have time to ask about a man’s secrets? By the way, I'm good at traveling, is that a skill?

——Don’t be ugly, and don’t be too pretty;

Although I am ranked so low, I am still very concerned about my appearance. I'm definitely not ugly, and I'm definitely not a great beauty, so I'm okay. Haha, fellow men, you feel sad when you are ugly, and you feel uneasy when you are beautiful, is this what you mean? But there is a saying that a wife is someone else’s good-looking, but a son is one’s own good-looking. How to explain it?

——Be in good health and understand health care and basic medical knowledge;

My wife is a cross-dresser by profession and is also a chef, laundry worker, cleaner, nutritionist, children’s teacher, and family health care consultant. I really like to study health care, beauty and fitness. I can diagnose and treat any minor ailments in my family. I am in need of a medical partner to implement my health regimen.

——Romantic and interesting.

It turns out that men also pay attention to sentiment! But romantic interest cannot be eaten as food. After all, romance is no match for daily necessities, so I put this at the end. In other words, the material and physical appearance conditions of the moral standards are met. You should not be too rigid. You should create little episodes from time to time. You should be able to act coquettishly and sing a song. You should be able to amuse him when he is bored and make him tired when he is tired. If you want to be able to relieve your fatigue, it is best to know how to play music, chess, calligraphy and painting, so as not to make your life too monotonous and your feelings too dull. Yes, of course I like romance, but today I am very tired of going out to earn money, working as a family doctor, studying to improve my taste, and being a virtuous lady. You should be romantic first!

After reading these golden rules, I thought about how I could score eighty or ninety percent. My mind started to heat up, and I read on. The girls commented: If all men follow this standard, they will all be singles. Yes, I'm almost perfect, so I have to find a perfect man no matter what. Wait, I'll compile a "Top 20 Tips for Finding a Husband" someday.

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