The exciting couple life told by girls born in the 1980s

Born after the 1980s, only children, growing up in the wave of new technology, with higher education... When these individuals are exclusive When the mistresses of the label enter the palace of marriage and transform from young girls into new housewives, they may still be confused about "what life after marriage is like."

The first experience of newlyweds is like "playing house"

Going home on the wedding night

Xinxin and her husband Dabin have just reached the age of marriage. I felt quite happy when I was getting ready to get married. But on the wedding day, Xinxin cried several times. From the moment Dabin came to pick her up at home until the wedding, Xinxin was basically in tears. Xinxin didn't stop crying even after the wedding, "I was very tired that day. It was already late at night when I returned to the new house. I was very upset when I saw the mess at home. Dabin told me, go to sleep! I suddenly started crying and felt I was really homesick.

Dabin was at a loss when he saw me crying, so he had to call my mother to tell me that Xinxin was going home. My mother felt distressed and anxious when she heard me cry, but come back! I thought it was wrong, how could I go back to my parents' house on the wedding night? I had no choice but to ask my aunt who lived in the same community as us to come over and persuade me, and I gradually got better. But in those days, I couldn't help crying whenever I received a call from my mother. ."

The kitchen has basically never been open since they got married

Xinxin and Dabin's life together is a bit like playing house. When it’s time to do housework, the two of them play chess or guessing games first, and whoever loses gets to do it, but in the end no one does it. The two of them have basically never had sex since they got married. The young couple's point of view is "it saves oil fumes and saves cleaning." But of course they will not wrong themselves. They buy food in the morning, go to Xinxin's house at noon, and go to Dabin in the evening. At home, there are ready-made hot meals served every day. The "special situation" is just to go to a restaurant to "improve the food"! Xinxin said that she still maintained her luxurious status as a "moonlight clan" after getting married, all because she invested in her mouth and romance.

The washing machine doesn’t work

Nowadays, newlyweds have all kinds of household appliances, including computers, DVD players, induction cookers... The use of these new appliances is very important for young people like Xinxin and Dabin. It's not a problem for people. But the most common washing machine stumped the two of them the first time they used it! After tinkering for a long time, I still can’t get it right, and I have to wash my clothes even if I put them inside! We had no choice but to call in reinforcements. I called Xinxin's brother over and studied the instructions before finally washing the clothes. But before, the two of them dumped all the dirty clothes into the washing machine, no matter what color they were! Just like this, Xinxin's new white clothes that had not been worn much were dyed. What a waste!

Newlywed Diary A Little Day with All Five Flavors

Life is always very free when you are not married, and the theme of weekends is to have a good sleep. But with another person, my pace on Sunday is different: washing clothes, cleaning the room, purchasing daily necessities for the next week, meeting my parents-in-law... When I was still lying in bed in the morning, I thought that I would definitely invite him in the future. A nanny comes, but when I calculate the expenses, I can only sigh. Now I have to take care of a family's accounts. Is it easy for me? At this time, my husband hugged me in a daze and said, "Honey, please sleep a little longer!" I suddenly felt very sweet, and the little sadness just now disappeared.

However, we can’t sleep any longer. Our parents-in-law are going to spend Sunday with us today, so the house must look good. I pinched my nose and pulled my ears to get my husband up. It was already half past nine. My husband was forced to do hard work cleaning the floors, while I supervised the work while wiping tables and chairs and tidying up messy clothes. After cleaning up, the two people who didn't know how to do housework complained endlessly.

When I looked up at my watch, it was almost half past eleven. Oh no, it would be so embarrassing if my mother-in-law came to guide me in cooking. I had an idea and ordered my husband to order a few dishes from a nearby restaurant. Then I stewed rice at home, fried eggs and tomatoes, cut some ham, and served the entire table. At this time, the parents-in-law rang the doorbell at the right time. I told my husband with my eyes, "Fortunately, I made plans early!"

When the food was served, my mother-in-law was quite surprised at first glance, "Did you do this?" Hehe, we "made it" , I was dumbfounded and noncommittal. But how could we not see the clues based on my mother-in-law's life experience, and then she started to educate us, such as "When you get married, you must have a sense of responsibility, don't be too sleepy, be diligent and frugal in running the house, and you have to cook your own meals to be clean and nutritious." "etc. This is not over yet. The only dish of eggs and tomatoes was not successful. My husband just took a bite and the facial features on his face wrinkled together. He pinched my face and said helplessly and funnyly, "Oh my god, but... It's so salty, I'll kill the salt seller."

After eating, my mother-in-law went into the bathroom and heard her say: "Oh, why is the place under your sink so dirty? Get a broom. Come, let me clean up." Then the whole house underwent another general cleaning, and a lot of dust was removed from several blind corners. When my mother-in-law opened the closet, a piece of dirty clothes that I had just put in fell out. Alas, I feel depressed, and my face feels a little hot. Look at this day, it is really "sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty", with all five flavors.

Impressions of new housewives born in the 1980s

☆How does it feel to get married? Just one word, dizzy! I feel like I am a woman. Looking at the marital status column in the household registration book that says married, sometimes I really feel overwhelmed. (Ms. Zhang)

☆The newlywed life is still sweet. Although I play off my temper from time to time and he occasionally speaks loudly, we are all learning to be tolerant and tolerant of each other... (Ami)

☆Now I have Now that we have a family, our life is like this: we have a basket full of dirty clothes before washing them in the washing machine. When we are hungry, we have to stay up for an hour to prepare meals. We can’t find things and wonder where they put them. Before going to bed, we start to check if there are any. I never forget to turn off the electrical appliances. Every time I go shopping, the most time spent is not on careful selection but on shopping around and comparing prices... (Xiaowei)

☆I am an only child at home, domineering and arrogant... I have all these shortcomings, especially my tendency to lose my temper.

After getting married, I lived with my mother-in-law, and life together was inevitably bumpy. Although I tried my best not to lose my temper, I still couldn't behave as if nothing had happened. As a result, everyone was unhappy.

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