The first blind date experience will make you find that many real situations are different from what you imagined, and you will make some adjustments out of frustration.

In the second stage, you may be hit hard by the failure of the blind date. At this time, you may have anxiety. You will be willing to meet anyone with roughly the same conditions.

The third stage is to enter a calm state mentally and treat the blind date calmly.

At the same time, we need to be reminded that people with high IQs have stronger psychological defenses and wrap themselves up more tightly. Therefore, do not rush to draw conclusions when going on a blind date. As long as you are not a blind date that disgusts you, you may wish to have as many contacts as possible. several times. I hope that young people of appropriate age will take every blind date seriously and find the person they like as soon as possible.

Young men and women who have not yet married when they reach the appropriate age will have more or less emotional experiences. These experiences may have passed a long time ago, but they will subconsciously affect current behavior because of the "image theory". People who have been emotionally hurt do not dare to give easily out of self-protection and become picky. This is a normal psychology.

Generally speaking, in the early stage of falling out of love, you can divert your attention through talking, traveling, fitness, participating in charity activities, etc., to vent yourself and release psychological damage. You should face up to your past relationships and bravely accept broken love. It is best to find your own shortcomings and shortcomings from the process of broken love, so as to improve yourself. At the same time, we should establish the viewpoint that "everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, and they are not comparable. What matters is whether they suit you" to change the current "picky" state. If the situation is serious, you can seek help from a psychological counselor.

What needs to be reminded is that although this process of accepting a broken love and recalling the experience of a broken love is more painful and not easy to do, it is the most effective way to change the normal state of love and marriage.

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