If you are in love, you are more likely than ever to experience jealousy. Because when you are in love, you are more likely to be dependent, more likely to be suspicious, and more likely to be anxious. Without exception, everyone who has experienced jealousy hates it. It is not a beautiful emotional experience. The hurt, anger, and fear in jealousy can make us almost hysterical. Although the emotional reactions are almost identical, men and women have completely different behavioral responses to jealousy.

Women are easily jealous. In addition to reacting to things worthy of jealousy, they are also good at fantasizing about non-existent love rivals and making suspicious jealousies. Compared with men, women have more diverse jealousy reactions. Some of them are rational and smart, while others are impulsive and stupid. If you are a woman, see which extreme behavior you would go in.

A smart woman will remain calm and work very hard to change herself. They will carefully observe the characteristics of women who make their beloved men cheat, and keep it in mind. No matter where the other person is better than themselves, the first thing they will do is to make themselves more beautiful and gentle. This is a woman's instinct to use sex and motherhood to call the other person back when she is about to lose the other person. Under this, they explore how their love rival is better than themselves, and then improve themselves or use their strengths in other aspects to win back their lover's heart. They try their best to pretend that they don't mind (in fact, deep down they mind to death), and make substantial efforts to make themselves better than the other person.

There are also some women who have obviously become crazy. They may also try to make themselves more beautiful, but their efforts are not to attract their boyfriends, but to attract other men and arouse the jealousy of the person they truly love. They want to fight back in this way, and they want to prove that they are attractive in this way, but most importantly, they want to know whether the other person still cares about them. When they are deep in the sea of ​​jealousy, they deliberately throw out some clues for their husbands to catch. They deliberately act more slutty or full of joy, but secretly painfully observe whether their men react clearly enough to this. Such women are stupid enough. When we see how men react to jealousy, we will understand that their original intentions will run counter to the results.

Of course, no matter whether they are smart women or stupid women, no matter how diverse and different their approaches are, there is only one fundamental purpose - hoping to save the relationship and hoping that the other person can return to their side.

Men are quite different. They care more about their own self-esteem than the survival of the relationship. In a story that will inevitably arouse jealousy, their first consideration is not their feelings, but their self-esteem. So what they are more likely to do is drown their sorrows with alcohol to make themselves forget how shameless they are; or simply fight against their love rivals to win back their self-esteem in another way; and the most terrifying possibility is that they will They turn around and pursue other women, but unlike women, they do this not to attract the attention of their original spouse, but to conquer other women again to prove their strength and self-esteem.

In short, women always hope to save their emotions, while men always want to leave the sad position, because for them, in addition to losing their feelings, they also lose their self-esteem, and as long as they stay where they are, For a day in their relationship, they cannot naturally raise their heads high - for them, self-esteem is more difficult to save but more important than emotion.

In any case, jealousy is not a pastime in love, it always brings beauty to destruction. Jealousy is not a sign of true love, it is just a reflection of selfishness. No matter how they react, whether they are men or women, they will experience a period of bloody and painful torture. Therefore, understanding the different reactions of men and women to jealousy is to help us understand each other better and to avoid jealousy more rationally. Jealousy has been a thorn in our hearts since ancient times. No matter how men and women react, in the end, it only brings harm.

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