The period of sexual ambiguity

Have you ever had this experience? In early childhood and lower grades of elementary school, male and female classmates were close to each other, discussing with each other in studies, and playing together in class. But after reaching the upper grades of elementary school, a "38th line" appears between male and female students. Can you tell me what the reason is?

Generally, girls enter the sexual ambiguity period between the ages of 10 and 13, and boys between the ages of 11 and 15. Along with the changes in sexual physiology, boys and girls have a strong need for sexual knowledge, and they are very concerned about their own sex. There are many doubts in my mind waiting for answers to the developmental changes of my friends around me, and I really want to know whether the changes that have happened to me are normal. Therefore, we often seek sexual knowledge consciously through some channels, such as reading medical books and periodicals, listening to radio columns, secretly comparing ourselves with others, etc.

During the period of sexual ambiguity, when they see the phenomenon of intimate interactions between the opposite sex, they will have inner excitement and some novel feelings, and they are willing to get close to the opposite sex. However, due to their sensitivity to gender differences, teenagers' sense of mystery and wariness about gender relationships has also increased in vain. Therefore, there are more avoidance, alienation, rejection and other phenomena in the interactions between the sexes. Teenagers attach great importance to friendship with the same sex and are ashamed to be close to the opposite sex for fear of being laughed at or commented on. Some teenagers also show contempt for or disgust with the opposite sex. This is a manifestation of the normal sexual psychology of adolescence. Families and schools should pay attention to this kind of psychological changes in children and help teenagers grow up healthily.

Sexual awakening period

Wang Xu and Xiaoxia grew up in the same kindergarten, and later went to the same elementary school and middle school. The two of them had a close relationship. In the eyes of others, they are really "childhood sweethearts". But after getting close, they began to drift apart intentionally or unintentionally. What was the reason? After opening the "Adolescent Education Reader", parents suddenly realized that their children had entered adolescence.

As children grow older, their sexual awareness begins to awaken. The relevant changes brought about by this are mainly reflected in: first, the era of "childhood sweethearts" is gone forever, the social curtain of gender boundaries has quietly been raised, and the opposite sex has become an inaccessible camp and a mysterious world; Second, they begin to consciously shape themselves, including their own gender and the opposite sex, and consciously shape themselves and expect each other from the perspective of a "man" or a "good girl"; third, the awareness of gender relations begins to awaken and develop, And the resulting cognitive and emotional needs, interests and exploratory behaviors towards the opposite sex.

The awakening and development of adolescent sexual consciousness is a very normal and necessary thing in the development process of life. Become an important aspect in the development of self-awareness of middle school students. From then on, every aspect of middle school students’ self-awareness was linked to their sexual awareness. They begin to truly present themselves in society as a male or female self. They also begin to truly treat others in society from a male or female perspective. At this time, even teachers and parents began to have new meaning in the eyes of children. It can be seen that the good development of teenagers' sexual consciousness is an important development task that they must complete in middle school.

Sexual awareness period

After entering junior high school, male and female students no longer cooperate with each other like they did in elementary school. There seems to be a boundary between male and female students and they rarely interact with each other. Do you feel like this?

With the rapid development and maturation of sexual functions, adolescents in adolescence undergo subtle psychological changes. They begin to gradually realize the differences between the sexes, resulting in a special emotional experience and subjective consciousness. , this psychological phenomenon is called sexual consciousness.

At the beginning of adolescence, the physical differences between boys and girls become increasingly obvious, which can lead to some uneasiness and shyness, resulting in a short-term alienation. Even if it is necessary for activities, we try to avoid contact, and we are even more taboo about individual interactions for fear of causing criticism. At the same time, due to the personality differences between men and women, male students will dislike female students for being delicate, timid, and small-minded, while female students will dislike male students for being rough, naughty, and ignorant. However, in the process of developing sexual consciousness, male and female students will gradually develop a desire to accept and attract each other. For example, if they hope to attract the attention and favor of the opposite sex, some male students like to express their abilities and talents in front of female students. Show off in front of female classmates. Female classmates, on the other hand, became shy and reserved, and some began to modify and dress themselves up. In order to attract the attention of the opposite sex, they even changed the way they talked and walked. Teenager friends, when we have just entered adolescence, we are still very immature and immature. We do not understand what love is, let alone the deep and complex emotion of love. We must develop our good impression of the opposite sex into a sincere and pure friendship. We must pay attention to propriety, self-respect and self-love in our contact with the opposite sex.

My classmates who have entered puberty seem to have grown up overnight. It turns out that the naughty and unkempt male classmates are not only neatly dressed, but also behave generously, and the chirping female classmates turn out to be gentle and elegant.

After teenagers enter puberty, a series of changes will occur in their sexual psychology. Men and women naturally develop a liking for the opposite sex out of curiosity, and are eager to contact, increase communication and understanding. Sometimes they may have a vague and non-exclusive love affair. They begin to pay attention to modifying their appearance and beautifying their words and deeds. , but they do not have enough mental preparation and corresponding knowledge for the changes that have occurred in themselves. Therefore, it is necessary to help them (her) correctly understand relevant sexual knowledge through normal channels and methods. Understand the underlying mechanisms by which these changes occur.

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